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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single straight guy, the biggest reason I joined Fab was for single guy/couple play!
I love the dynamic and but it’s tough finding a genuine, fun couple at the minute. Those I’ve had in the past have always been my best sex experiences! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had thought about this but a reply on a post today off an arrogant gym fit, self loving arsehole has put us well off it. Sorry guys its the twats who fuck it up for you all in the end. Hope you find a nice cpl to play with. J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet single men as Lucy is the only one who tends to play but some single men do fuck it up for others like someone has already said in this thread, “ can I fuck you “ as a message doesn’t work |
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Pre covid we used to invite guys over to wank and spunk over Mrs Ps tits. What made it fun for us was more about having the right guy. We've had our fair share of pushy, d*unk or guys that are high. We have also had some great guys too who turned up as promised, were laid back, clean and respected boundaries. For us it's all about how well the guy fits for us rather than what is done during the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pre covid we used to invite guys over to wank and spunk over Mrs Ps tits. What made it fun for us was more about having the right guy. We've had our fair share of pushy, d*unk or guys that are high. We have also had some great guys too who turned up as promised, were laid back, clean and respected boundaries. For us it's all about how well the guy fits for us rather than what is done during the meet. "
Thats what you'd call a meet. Wow. |
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Have met a few really nice single men and had some great daytime meets. We do find it easier to arrange it's just finding the right person. Filtering out the idiots and the ones who's first message starts with can i fuck you up the arse. ( never a good way to get people's respect).
One of the best meets we had was having a really nice chap round. We were sending pictures and videos to hubby as we played. Got very raunchy and hubby loved playing with my fucked pussy afterwards. He said the pictures we sent are better than any porn sites. So it's a thumbs up for us. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had thought about this but a reply on a post today off an arrogant gym fit, self loving arsehole has put us well off it. Sorry guys its the twats who fuck it up for you all in the end. Hope you find a nice cpl to play with. J"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pre covid we used to invite guys over to wank and spunk over Mrs Ps tits. What made it fun for us was more about having the right guy. We've had our fair share of pushy, d*unk or guys that are high. We have also had some great guys too who turned up as promised, were laid back, clean and respected boundaries. For us it's all about how well the guy fits for us rather than what is done during the meet. "
That sounds like a hot meet. |
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We tend to meet singles at hotels from one person to three as soft swing its important to us they understand the limits. So anyone with "can I f--k you"
Simply doesn't get past the first message. Difficult to find guys who turn up hence the multiple invites, drop outs are less disappointing then.
Roll on normality lookforward to real meets again   |
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"We have had a couple of hot meets with single guys in a hotel. The last one was great as it got a bit kinky involving bondage and restraints "
Hotels add a little more anmonity and brazeness flirting in the bar then there's trip to the room ...... |
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By *azpiz1Man
over a year ago
Camberley |
I'd say that single guys who think a message like that works aren't swingers at all - they probably think this is "instashag" or something.
I like to send a friendly, flirty message, showing my interest in meeting both parties. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have had a couple of hot meets with single guys in a hotel. The last one was great as it got a bit kinky involving bondage and restraints
Hotels add a little more anmonity and brazeness flirting in the bar then there's trip to the room ......"
Hotel meets have been good fun for me |
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By *aul349Man
over a year ago
Newcastle area |
Having played many times as one half of a couple I have to say playing with another couple is far better than with a single male.
Most of the problems are caused by the single male disrespecting boundaries that had clearly been set out from the start.
Safe sex only means exactly that, put the condom on or get dressed.
MMF is not the same as a cuckold situation...
Asking for her phone number so you can meet her without me knowing gets you told to leave too...
No disrespecting the woman means that,call her a whore and you get dressed and go home.
Lying on your profile gets you turned away at the door and calling her name's are not going to change her mind...
Best of all was the African guy who turned up with a car load of his stuff as he thought I was her pimp he was moving in and was going to pimp her out. |
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Fortunately we have never experienced anything like that. Never even had a disrespectful guy. That is possibly down to the way we vet them. That said totally agree best times are 2x2 or 6 sums we have however found this more difficult to get everyone equally balanced sensually.
But fun where fun can be found right? |
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By *S2004Man
over a year ago
Bromsgrove |
Had some great meets with couples. It is difficult as there are a number of single guys with a bad attitude who make it tricky to start conversations.
That said I have had some great meets with couples in my time, always depending on what they want from the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a couples profile on here too. All of our meets been MFM most been great experiences it’s even better when you have a return meet or a regular. You work out what everyone likes then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We dont plan them,we tend to put single guys on the hot list just in case we want a spur of the monent mfm ..x "
This is how all our mmf have happened spur of the moment x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
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Sorry to hear that you struggle to find them.
Come down to South!
Plenty of hot ones by the sea!  |
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
Sorry to hear that you struggle to find them.
Come down to South!
Plenty of hot ones by the sea! "
Yep think I’ll pause the Yorkshire men and take a trip down south after Covid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
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Even finding a guy who doesn't lie about his penis size helps too. And being able to get an erection. So disappointing when they drop there pants and it's a 2 incher!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
Even finding a guy who doesn't lie about his penis size helps too. And being able to get an erection. So disappointing when they drop there pants and it's a 2 incher!
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We had that experience once, profile pic shown was 7 inches and in reality it was barely 1 inches long . |
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
Even finding a guy who doesn't lie about his penis size helps too. And being able to get an erection. So disappointing when they drop there pants and it's a 2 incher!
We had that experience once, profile pic shown was 7 inches and in reality it was barely 1 inches long ."
I’ve had both these issues....puts me off a bit looking now.....after Covid of course. |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
Even finding a guy who doesn't lie about his penis size helps too. And being able to get an erection. So disappointing when they drop there pants and it's a 2 incher!
We had that experience once, profile pic shown was 7 inches and in reality it was barely 1 inches long .
I’ve had both these issues....puts me off a bit looking now.....after Covid of course. "
I have to say that this is one of the reasons I like gangbang nights at my local club, all the guys are in towels, it doesn't take much to work out their size even though the emphasis is on big groups when I've attended in the past we've had lots of fun just with an extra 1 or two guys |
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"Problem is finding a decent guy who can keep it up....
Even finding a guy who doesn't lie about his penis size helps too. And being able to get an erection. So disappointing when they drop there pants and it's a 2 incher!
We had that experience once, profile pic shown was 7 inches and in reality it was barely 1 inches long .
I’ve had both these issues....puts me off a bit looking now.....after Covid of course.
I have to say that this is one of the reasons I like gangbang nights at my local club, all the guys are in towels, it doesn't take much to work out their size even though the emphasis is on big groups when I've attended in the past we've had lots of fun just with an extra 1 or two guys "
Gang bang was on my fantasy list but I’m just damn picky and choosy so don’t think I would go through with one to be honest, plus I like to be treated with respect. I see your point though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just thinking back through my experiences with couples, all of which were spontaneous affairs in my early 20's.
There was no communication, one night I remember talking to an amazing Woman way out of my league, she had a guy with her. When I was outside the nightclub they pulled up in a Taxi and said get in!
This sounds great but It wasnt , I was paranoid and nervous, didn't know what the dynamic was and asked questions in front of the Taxi driver! I got in of course. It turned out to be Hot Wife cuck type I think (still unsure) It was my quickest and worst performance ever! I treated them so disrespectfully and now it's a cringey memory not a happy one!
Young, dumb and full of cum, I had a certain outlook on the world, a huge ego and thought I new it all(and that was before Google)
So I guess communication is the key!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single straight guy, the biggest reason I joined Fab was for single guy/couple play!
I love the dynamic and but it’s tough finding a genuine, fun couple at the minute. Those I’ve had in the past have always been my best sex experiences! "
Bookmarking you for if I ever become part of a couple again |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"Just thinking back through my experiences with couples, all of which were spontaneous affairs in my early 20's.
There was no communication, one night I remember talking to an amazing Woman way out of my league, she had a guy with her. When I was outside the nightclub they pulled up in a Taxi and said get in!
This sounds great but It wasnt , I was paranoid and nervous, didn't know what the dynamic was and asked questions in front of the Taxi driver! I got in of course. It turned out to be Hot Wife cuck type I think (still unsure) It was my quickest and worst performance ever! I treated them so disrespectfully and now it's a cringey memory not a happy one!
Young, dumb and full of cum, I had a certain outlook on the world, a huge ego and thought I new it all(and that was before Google)
So I guess communication is the key!
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Wouldn’t be hard on yourself. It actually sounds as if they did t respect you much either if all they did was expect you to get into a taxi with two strangers, even if one of them was a “hot female”. Happily you survived - who knows who they could have been? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks, yes suprise's can be fun but risky, which was why I was apprehensive at the time, my mind was racing as I was put on the spot!
I think She was caught up in the fantasy so that She didn't consider the practical side.
Don't get me wrong had some good experiences too!
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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago
Ruislip |
Playing with couples is great, so many possibilities. I've mostly played in clubs, but good meets come from having chatted for a bit to get to know what they are looking for. All the best meets are when all three of you are relaxed and naked together |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
In an attempt to keep Mrs relaxed and not get too nervous, I encouraged her to put on something sexy so we could play together on cam one evening.
What I didn’t tell her was that I’d arranged with a friend that I worked with (she had already told me she liked him) to walk in on us.
He waited outside in his car till I text him to come in. The front door was unlocked and he walked up to our bedroom to find me licking her pussy. She heard him coming up and had a mini panic but I just looked up at her and said it’s ok. Within seconds his dick was in her mouth.
We spent the next hour with her in the middle of us on all fours. I loved watching him slide in and out of her as she sucked me. That was her first mmf and the first time I saw her with another man inside her. |
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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago
worcester weekend in exmouth |
I was at a swingers fet club once and a couple came over asked if I would like to join them, I gave her oral which she loved and them we spit roasted her, her partner went out and she snogged my face off omg she was amazing fun |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
When we used to go to clubs (in pre covid days) we would always play with (straight) single guys, singly or with two or three at a time, and we have never been disappointed. Most are respectful, clean and enthusiastic, whatever their age and I appreciate their attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doing it in every possible position in my living room. My husband sitting on his fave chair, me sucking him off while a gorgeous guy fucks me from behind and talks about how much I love taking two cocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MFM meets can be very hot. Tell us about one meet you have really enjoyed with single male. "
Involved a Hot tub and GFs old school friend we bumbed into at a wedding lol crazy but fun night lol |
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We find the biggest problem is getting guys to actually turn up as arranged. All mouth and trousers!
We find if you want two at a meet invite at least a dozen. Couples are a little better and single ladies much better.
G&A |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have enjoyed all our mfm meets,but the ones I enjoy most have been the couple of occasions sweet has entertained two very well endowed black gentlemen whilst I took no part other than photographer and voyeur. |
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