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Question! Couples Pictures, why is there?
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
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Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
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Great answer, but it would still equal its self out across the couple profiles I would of thought.
Unless the is a lot more couples looking just for Bi.females to join them?. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
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Great answer, but it would still equal its self out across the couple profiles I would of thought.
Unless the is a lot more couples looking just for Bi.females to join them?."
Seems you need to do some more research.
You need to correlate what couples are looking for and the balance of gender pics   |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
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Great answer, but it would still equal its self out across the couple profiles I would of thought.
Unless the is a lot more couples looking just for Bi.females to join them?.
Seems you need to do some more research.
You need to correlate what couples are looking for and the balance of gender pics "
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Done lots already, but thanx anyway.
Points taken.
Hey we learn every day on here.
Thanx.
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Think it's because men get turned on taking pics of thier lady and females are better looking lol"
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Hehe Yes we do.
And you think your better looking.
But you also always think your wright but you're normally wrong LOL.
thanx T. |
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We find that most couples tailor their pics to their audience as has been said before.
If they are looking for just guys, then only one or two pics need to be of the guy to prove he exists.
We keep our pics evenly balanced for this reason if we take a nice pic of Lily, we balance with a new pic of me.
It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops.
It is, however, massively frustrating when couples contact us, or have on their profile they are looking for couples, and the guy doesn’t exist!
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It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops. "
This is probably the key thing, there are not a lot sexy or tempting outfits for guys. There are only so many pictures that you can sensible have of a erect member before it becomes a turn off. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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As others have said, it's a lot about who you're looking for. I (Bry) don't play with other guys, just the occasional bi guy. We're here looking for guys, girls and couples that want to play with Char either with our without me present. So our pics are mostly of Char as she's the one that we're "selling". |
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over a year ago
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We have pics of us both in our private pics. We do not show more than the profile pic due to many pic collectors and people stealing other peoples pics on here to create cpls profiles. We send pics to cpls we are chatting to if required/requested. Some guys just want to see others pics to jerk off to also on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
Not everyone's is like that. ..VERY happy to show Pete but it is mainly him taking the pics |
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By *inojCouple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"We find that most couples tailor their pics to their audience as has been said before.
If they are looking for just guys, then only one or two pics need to be of the guy to prove he exists.
We keep our pics evenly balanced for this reason if we take a nice pic of Lily, we balance with a new pic of me.
It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops.
It is, however, massively frustrating when couples contact us, or have on their profile they are looking for couples, and the guy doesn’t exist!
- John"
Exactly this...only looking for straight single guys so only pics of me to prove I exist, the rest of Jo to entice them in  |
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over a year ago
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"We have a fair spread of each on ours. Becky is admittedly much nicer to look at but there has been quite a bit of confusion over 2 very similar bum pics.
Lots of fabs for my bum...
J x"
You must be very chuffed J, cos Becky’s bum is absolutely gorgeous...I have admired pics many times...just perfect Becky |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not looking for couples or women so there is no need of pictures of my fugly mug if that’s ok with you Terry.
T"
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Your mug is probably very nice Tony.
Be happy with what God gave you sir.
Terry. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We have a fair spread of each on ours. Becky is admittedly much nicer to look at but there has been quite a bit of confusion over 2 very similar bum pics.
Lots of fabs for my bum...
J x"
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So you do.
Fair play.
T. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We find that most couples tailor their pics to their audience as has been said before.
If they are looking for just guys, then only one or two pics need to be of the guy to prove he exists.
We keep our pics evenly balanced for this reason if we take a nice pic of Lily, we balance with a new pic of me.
It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops.
It is, however, massively frustrating when couples contact us, or have on their profile they are looking for couples, and the guy doesn’t exist!
- John"
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Great points and fair enough.
Glad you agree re non exist Guys.
Ta.
T |
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over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
If your a straight guy why would you want to look at another guys cock, or is it so you can compare sizes lol
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"As others have said, it's a lot about who you're looking for. I (Bry) don't play with other guys, just the occasional bi guy. We're here looking for guys, girls and couples that want to play with Char either with our without me present. So our pics are mostly of Char as she's the one that we're "selling"."
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From O.p.
Getting some great replies to this chat.
Including yours.
And fair enough sounds sensible.
T.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think ours is fairly even?
Considering 4 of them have us both in, either partially or otherwise?
It is something that comes to mind and can be somewhat off putting when talking to couples though.
If all the photos are of the wife, then are we to take it the male doesnt play/wont attend? Surely couple profiles need representation of both parties?
And if the male partner has a photo, its usually a close up of his equipment and thats it. Or, if a gym bod, a possibly limbless but nearly always headless shot of their torso taken in a mucky gym mirror.
Dont want to get into a rant. But for couple play, we kinda want to see both parties, as some level of attraction is needed for all parties. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"As I, (Mr) don't play with others, don't see the need to have pics of me on ours.
Plus being so dashingly handsome it wouldn't be fair on the rest of the populous. "
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Love it "population"
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Ours are fairly even but like I think it has been said before on here, pics of Mrs Gs help attract more attention to our profile
Mr Gs"
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Agree on even.
Shower soap share is so much fun.
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
Probably because 90% of the messages we receive are wanting pics of me.
My Mr is very conscious of pictures on the internet so any of him are all set to private and get sent out when the time is right. Not when they’re demanded after exchanging 2 messages. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
Not everyone's is like that. ..VERY happy to show Pete but it is mainly him taking the pics"
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I accept very point of view.
Fair enough.
All interesting.
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We find that most couples tailor their pics to their audience as has been said before.
If they are looking for just guys, then only one or two pics need to be of the guy to prove he exists.
We keep our pics evenly balanced for this reason if we take a nice pic of Lily, we balance with a new pic of me.
It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops.
It is, however, massively frustrating when couples contact us, or have on their profile they are looking for couples, and the guy doesn’t exist!
- John
Exactly this...only looking for straight single guys so only pics of me to prove I exist, the rest of Jo to entice them in "
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Exactly.
But you are there and lookers know you do exist.
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We do have far more pics of me on our profile but, we do also have a fair few different pictures of D.
Jo.Xx "
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O.p.
I Never said it should be even as you ladies are so much sexyier & stunning tbh.
And you have enough tbh.
But a couple with non.
Looking for play "m8s" is a poor show imho.
T. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Why would it matter to a straight Man?
In our case, Mr looks like a Bulldog chewing a wasp "
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O.p T.
I Was just a interesting think I had noticed.
Was simply asking others opinions.
And some GREAT HONEST and fair replies aswell.
Thanx all so far.
O.p T. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm a big show off 
Mr Racer is more reserved and can't reveal as much due to job, plus he works away sometimes.
We try and be creative, feel there's a good reveal of us both on there."
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Fair enough.
And if its good, be happy showing it.
And I respect that.
He is there though so all is good i think.
T. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Think ours is fairly even?
Considering 4 of them have us both in, either partially or otherwise?
It is something that comes to mind and can be somewhat off putting when talking to couples though.
If all the photos are of the wife, then are we to take it the male doesnt play/wont attend? Surely couple profiles need representation of both parties?
And if the male partner has a photo, its usually a close up of his equipment and thats it. Or, if a gym bod, a possibly limbless but nearly always headless shot of their torso taken in a mucky gym mirror.
Dont want to get into a rant. But for couple play, we kinda want to see both parties, as some level of attraction is needed for all parties. "
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Yours is and very nice to.
Enjoy.
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
We have pics of both but choose not to show either sets of bits as like to leave something to the imagination!
It does annoy me/us though when the Mr plays but there are no pics, as if I’m going to agree to meet without knowing what I’m getting! If it’s a Hotwife scenario then it’s understandable but otherwise just annoying.
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We are a couple, we play as a couple, so our profile is to attract couples and single girls/guys.
Our profile has a lot of pics of us together and also quite a number of us singular too.
C attracts the most attention as she’s gorgeous and has a body which the camera loves, so there may be more pics of C on our profile but there’s enough of me to show anyone interested what I look like...
We do hate it when we see couples looking for couples who only have the pics of the woman so we made a conscious effort for our profile to represent us both...
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
I turned off couples being able to contact me for this exact reason. I would be messaged and all I could see was the female. It baffles me why couples looking for a female would not make the man as visible. Surely a bi female would be interested in playing with him and her should they ever actually meet.
I would understand it if they were looking for a guy. |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I turned off couples being able to contact me for this exact reason. I would be messaged and all I could see was the female. It baffles me why couples looking for a female would not make the man as visible. Surely a bi female would be interested in playing with him and her should they ever actually meet.
I would understand it if they were looking for a guy."
We wanted to message you a few days ago, we thought we could help with your mojo problem!xx |
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
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Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X"
It mystifies me that so many people are mystified by how others choose to use their profile. If their profile works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you just move on to one that does. |
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"We're generally looking for straight single guys, (WHEN we're looking) so there doesn't seem much point in having much of Dave on show. There must be other couples where it's the same situation.  "
Depends....are you looking for single makes to join you both or is it a solo meet for the mrs? If we're looking for a guy to joins us I like that we're both shown in advance. I also like the single guys to see what I have at home...helps out the ones that are short, small or easily intimated! They don't dare try and out-alpha Pete! |
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X
It mystifies me that so many people are mystified by how others choose to use their profile. If their profile works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you just move on to one that does."
To be fair I only make such comments on threads about the topic.
Rightly or wrongly, if a profile only showcases the female then I’ll assume the male is probably physically unappealing to the masses (not an issue in the relationship when the wife adores him of course) unless shown otherwise.
You obviously have an amazing figure - but if people are meeting both of you - then imo it’s hardly unreasonable to ask for pictures of the male too. |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
I like taking pictures of what I’ve got more than he does also I come on here more often that’s as difficult as it is! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X
It mystifies me that so many people are mystified by how others choose to use their profile. If their profile works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you just move on to one that does.
To be fair I only make such comments on threads about the topic.
Rightly or wrongly, if a profile only showcases the female then I’ll assume the male is probably physically unappealing to the masses (not an issue in the relationship when the wife adores him of course) unless shown otherwise.
You obviously have an amazing figure - but if people are meeting both of you - then imo it’s hardly unreasonable to ask for pictures of the male too. "
Thanks very much for the compliment, but our profile works very well for us (or at least it did before Covid). We play(ed) almost entirely in clubs where couples, guys and single women could inspect us both before making any commitment to play. We use Fab principally for keeping in touch with friends and satisfying my exhibitionist tendencies. There are photos of my partner should anyone bother to look. But the point I make is perfectly valid: profiles are how their owners want to present themselves. If a profile isn't someone else's cup of tea there are plenty others to choose from. There are many profiles that don't interest us, but I wouldn't dream of asking them to be changed, or for them to be justified. |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
I got twated by the ugly stick, so I keep myself out the frame, mostly about her needs, and who wants to see poorly taken cock shots and pictures that show guys lying about there age. |
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over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I got twated by the ugly stick, so I keep myself out the frame, mostly about her needs, and who wants to see poorly taken cock shots and pictures that show guys lying about there age. "
I would still prefer to see pics on the profile and know in advance. Difficult when trying to find a couple and it's all based on attraction to the woman with her guy lurking in the background hoping his partner will pull for them both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll only send pics of my partner if he’s interested in playing. I’m here for me so why would you want to see him anyway?  "
Like I said earlier, depends on who from the profile is playing...
if both play i'd want to see both. |
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over a year ago
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We try too give a bit of a mixture,that way we show both of our personalities, well hopefully anyway. The same is true for our bio. It's definitely something we look for when looking at other profiles, it's just nice for us to both have something for us to be attracted to. That being said some arnt comfortable with photos being taken and we always respond better to a well thought out message than anything else xxx |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We are a couple, we play as a couple, so our profile is to attract couples and single girls/guys.
Our profile has a lot of pics of us together and also quite a number of us singular too.
C attracts the most attention as she’s gorgeous and has a body which the camera loves, so there may be more pics of C on our profile but there’s enough of me to show anyone interested what I look like...
We do hate it when we see couples looking for couples who only have the pics of the woman so we made a conscious effort for our profile to represent us both...
K"
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Enjoy and be safe.
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I turned off couples being able to contact me for this exact reason. I would be messaged and all I could see was the female. It baffles me why couples looking for a female would not make the man as visible. Surely a bi female would be interested in playing with him and her should they ever actually meet.
I would understand it if they were looking for a guy."
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I turned off couples being able to contact me for this exact reason. I would be messaged and all I could see was the female. It baffles me why couples looking for a female would not make the man as visible. Surely a bi female would be interested in playing with him and her should they ever actually meet.
I would understand it if they were looking for a guy.
We wanted to message you a few days ago, we thought we could help with your mojo problem!xx"
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I'm sorry it appears 1 of us has blocked the other.
No idea why???
And its hard to tell who?
Would love to meet you MOJO or not.
T. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X"
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I got twated by the ugly stick, so I keep myself out the frame, mostly about her needs, and who wants to see poorly taken cock shots and pictures that show guys lying about there age.
I would still prefer to see pics on the profile and know in advance. Difficult when trying to find a couple and it's all based on attraction to the woman with her guy lurking in the background hoping his partner will pull for them both!"
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We try too give a bit of a mixture,that way we show both of our personalities, well hopefully anyway. The same is true for our bio. It's definitely something we look for when looking at other profiles, it's just nice for us to both have something for us to be attracted to. That being said some arnt comfortable with photos being taken and we always respond better to a well thought out message than anything else xxx"
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
And why do some use pictures from porn |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
I turned off couples being able to contact me for this exact reason. I would be messaged and all I could see was the female. It baffles me why couples looking for a female would not make the man as visible. Surely a bi female would be interested in playing with him and her should they ever actually meet.
I would understand it if they were looking for a guy.
We wanted to message you a few days ago, we thought we could help with your mojo problem!xx
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I'm sorry it appears 1 of us has blocked the other.
No idea why???
And its hard to tell who?
Would love to meet you MOJO or not.
T."
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Looked at my block list and iv not blocked you two.
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X
It mystifies me that so many people are mystified by how others choose to use their profile. If their profile works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you just move on to one that does.
To be fair I only make such comments on threads about the topic.
Rightly or wrongly, if a profile only showcases the female then I’ll assume the male is probably physically unappealing to the masses (not an issue in the relationship when the wife adores him of course) unless shown otherwise.
You obviously have an amazing figure - but if people are meeting both of you - then imo it’s hardly unreasonable to ask for pictures of the male too.
Thanks very much for the compliment, but our profile works very well for us (or at least it did before Covid). We play(ed) almost entirely in clubs where couples, guys and single women could inspect us both before making any commitment to play. We use Fab principally for keeping in touch with friends and satisfying my exhibitionist tendencies. There are photos of my partner should anyone bother to look. But the point I make is perfectly valid: profiles are how their owners want to present themselves. If a profile isn't someone else's cup of tea there are plenty others to choose from. There are many profiles that don't interest us, but I wouldn't dream of asking them to be changed, or for them to be justified. "
I hear you my lovely - and one of my favourite fab pics of all time is you in the shell belt!
I only hope you’re wearing it should I ever see you in a club so I can recognise you and come say hi! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Think it's because men get turned on taking pics of thier lady and females are better looking lol"
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that's just so true, photoshoots are like foreplay in our house
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Op - We do try and include enough pics of mr as well as mrs
but there's always going to be an imbalance as it's hard (ha ha)
to be as inventive with men's pics and when we're deleting to make space for new pics
it's the least fabbed ones that get removed and that's always the pics of him |
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We usually have a fairly even selection of pics of both. Currently most pics aren't public as we are not looking for meets.
The absence of male pics on couple profiles does annoy me though as it makes it difficult to establish if there is a physical attraction.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite a simple reason for us - No public pics of Fire due to his job. And he has quite recognisable ink so that has to include body shots. We do have face and body pics of us both in our private folder which we are happy to share with people we think we’ve got a connection with. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Surely everyone tailors their profile to best appeal to their target audience.
If a couple are looking for a straight, single guy, their gallery works best with most or all pictures being of the lady.
If I was on here as a single male looking to join a couple, I would mostly be interested in seeing the lady's pictures.
Equally my (public) gallery, and especially my avatar, wouldn't contain cock or action pics as this is well known to put a lot of females and couples off.
It's just simple, basic logic!
Agreed.
However - many, many couples who have few or no pics of the male profess to be looking for other couples and/or single females.
I’ve lost count of the times I’ve been messaged by couples who have no male pics - and some only have pics of the ladies ‘bits’ too. These profiles have no appeal whatsoever.
It mystifies me that couples expect to gain meets when only showing one half of the team, so to speak! X
It mystifies me that so many people are mystified by how others choose to use their profile. If their profile works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you just move on to one that does.
To be fair I only make such comments on threads about the topic.
Rightly or wrongly, if a profile only showcases the female then I’ll assume the male is probably physically unappealing to the masses (not an issue in the relationship when the wife adores him of course) unless shown otherwise.
You obviously have an amazing figure - but if people are meeting both of you - then imo it’s hardly unreasonable to ask for pictures of the male too.
Thanks very much for the compliment, but our profile works very well for us (or at least it did before Covid). We play(ed) almost entirely in clubs where couples, guys and single women could inspect us both before making any commitment to play. We use Fab principally for keeping in touch with friends and satisfying my exhibitionist tendencies. There are photos of my partner should anyone bother to look. But the point I make is perfectly valid: profiles are how their owners want to present themselves. If a profile isn't someone else's cup of tea there are plenty others to choose from. There are many profiles that don't interest us, but I wouldn't dream of asking them to be changed, or for them to be justified.
I hear you my lovely - and one of my favourite fab pics of all time is you in the shell belt!
I only hope you’re wearing it should I ever see you in a club so I can recognise you and come say hi! "
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Something simpler - most photographers during a meet, specially when the naughty action starts are men. 90% of our photos/videos were taken before I joined the fun, during the opening girl-girl stage.
You don't want to break the women's sexual energy by interrupting their play and asking them to take photos.
And most of our friends are like this. Once the men join, nobody cares about photos/videos anymore.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me (Mr HH) the answers for us are simple:
- Hippy is far more photogenic and attractive than I am.
- I don’t like taking photos of myself ... Hippy loves to take photos of herself.
- I am proud of my ‘rocket’ but don’t feel the need to launch it into peoples faces.
Mr HH
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have a fair spread of each on ours. Becky is admittedly much nicer to look at but there has been quite a bit of confusion over 2 very similar bum pics.
Lots of fabs for my bum...
J x"
You both have fab bums 
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Our friends pics are a good mix of both of us, and are shared with people we’d like to meet or are Interested in meeting us.
Regards our public profile, he has employees that we’ve seen on the site so we keep him off it to avoid being recognised, and I just enjoy posting and sharing pics which got out of hand.
If we want to meet or are friends you’ll see us both, otherwise the public pics are just a personal indulgence for me.
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
If your a straight guy why would you want to look at another guys cock, or is it so you can compare sizes lol
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Love this reply LOL.
I'm well happy thanx.
If im meeting a nice sexy couple like you to I like to know the hole package not just half.
And he would be welcome to have some fun aswell.
Shall we?
Terry x |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T.
If your a straight guy why would you want to look at another guys cock, or is it so you can compare sizes lol
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Love this reply LOL.
I'm well happy thanx.
If im meeting a nice sexy couple like you to I like to know the hole package not just half.
And he would be welcome to have some fun aswell.
Shall we?
Terry x"
You may want to change that to the "Whole" package.  |
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Anita will generally dismiss messages from couples if there are no male photos. It always seems odd that there wouldn't be photos of both people if they're meeting as a couple. Ideally though we like to see pictures that give a general idea of size/build/body-shape, they don't need to be naked or intimate photos.
We try to have a mix of pictures showing us both, but ultimately there will be more demand for photos of Anita than me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
We put them up or take them down as we want to. We both run this profile but who we meet jenny does have the final say. Also sone cpls do not want single guys looking at their pics if they are looking to only meet other cpls. We send pics to other cpls if we start chatting and get on. Its the cpls prerogative what they have up on their profiles. |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
With us as it’s only wife who plays there is no point with me being in the pics. And I wouldn’t do any favours to the sexy pics of the wife |
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We have a mixture, but more of me, as hubby is the better photographer.
It is a real annoyance for us when we are contacted by couples whose profiles don't even have a hint of the male half within their gallery. |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"We have a mixture, but more of me, as hubby is the better photographer.
It is a real annoyance for us when we are contacted by couples whose profiles don't even have a hint of the male half within their gallery. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With us hubby has to many tattoos which would make ppl who live near us know straight away who he is,we tried to blur them out but the pics r basically all blur |
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For us, the public pics started off as just a quick idea of what we both look like, but then I really enjoyed sharing pics on here and the interactions it started so sort of carried on just posting me.
Our friends only folder is 50/50 and very much a couples album, we share that with people we are going to meet, and also attach recent pictures of us both when we message with people we may meet.
So for us, the public profile is maybe just a bit of a vanity project but is something I enjoy and a bit of fun.
For people who we are actually going to meet, they see us both anyway so that’s what matters.
There’s also the privacy issue and Mr does have some employees he’s seen on the site so we would keep his pics private for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because women are the bait? "
Not for me.
If I like him I may then look at her.
Female pics get more fabs, probably because men fab more often than women, and so people assume the female is all we need to see.
If you’re looking for that elusive lady to join you give us something to tempt us. If we’re single and only looking for women surely we would be looking at the other single ladies |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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As a single female, if the male half of the couple isn't clearly represented on the profile I'm very unlikely to engage with them in any way. I just assume that they aren't really looking for single females because they aren't making an effort to apeal to them. Whilst I will happily play with the female half in a group situation , if that's all I want then I will approach single bi females. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much our profile
But looking for female to join wife to explore her bicurious side in the early stages, confidence is a big issue for me personally but that may change at a later date i suppose, i wouldnt exactly class myself as an oil painting these days
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many couples say they only play as a couple. Address is both. But effectively their profile is about ‘her’.
If the guy wants to play too surely he needs to be represented?
Just because his pics don’t get fabbed so much doesn’t mean they’re pointless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a joint profile. We have 6 public pics and they show both of us together in them all."
I love to see couples where the pics of them are of them together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree but I dont understand when many women make comment on man showing there cocks they say when you see one you seen them all wich I dont agree
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"We find that most couples tailor their pics to their audience as has been said before.
If they are looking for just guys, then only one or two pics need to be of the guy to prove he exists.
We keep our pics evenly balanced for this reason if we take a nice pic of Lily, we balance with a new pic of me.
It’s also true (in most eyes anyway) that women are more photogenic. There are more lingerie options and sexy outfits available too, creating more photo ops.
It is, however, massively frustrating when couples contact us, or have on their profile they are looking for couples, and the guy doesn’t exist!
- John"
We seem to find it's the female that doesn't exist or we get a "will you play with the male half only" |
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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have a joint profile. We have 6 public pics and they show both of us together in them all.
I love to see couples where the pics of them are of them together. "
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Same here if they are real Pics at least it shows there are 2 of them possibly.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Think it's because men get turned on taking pics of thier lady and females are better looking lol"
This ^^^^^^
And guys like looking at pictures of naked, semi-naked females (and some females being PC).
Females attract more attention, has been the exploited for decades.
Some simply are, look what I got that you haven't
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"Think it's because men get turned on taking pics of their lady and females are better looking lol"
Pretty much this. I'm the one holding the camera most of the time.
That said, my wife likes to pick up the camera as well so there's enough of me to satisfy someones curiosity. |
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We swap and change ours. But yea I spend a lot of time on the profile picture. We're looking for a woman but mainly for me fox to join in but main dish is me haha.
So they have to be drawn to me I guess or there's no point.
If I put fox cock up the girls may like it but that's not what we're completely offering. |
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"90% female pics?
50% have no male pics?
And only 5% show the man's
Sperm Donator Lol.
This is In my experience from many peeks at lots of nice Couple's profiles.
Are you men not proud of your ROCKET?
or
Does you're lady wear the trousers and says "NO WAY".
Just wondering, as I'd love to see both sides of a sexy couple pls.
T."
Not sure about the ‘rocket’ bit as cock pics don’t appeal to me - but when couples profiles have only female pics I assume that
A) They’re only looking for males - ergo the looks of the male are unimportant.
Or B) - the male is unattractive so they need the female as ‘bait’. |
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