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It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
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"You mean when it says " I'll update this later" and been on the site a year. "
Yip...but its the lack of pics that really get us. Like they are going to msg us and we are going to say...yeah pop over for a quick fuck haha |
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over a year ago
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I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out  |
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out "
Hahaha. Its ridiculous
Curious to know what you mean about mimicking online behavior though lol. |
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out
I remember seeing a video acting out the same behaviour you see online. Showing random people things like holiday snaps and pics of what they had for breakfast. That sort of thing
Hahaha. Its ridiculous
Curious to know what you mean about mimicking online behavior though lol."
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old
days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out
I remember seeing a video acting out the same behaviour you see online. Showing random people things like holiday snaps and pics of what they had for breakfast. That sort of thing
Hahaha. Its ridiculous
Curious to know what you mean about mimicking online behavior though lol."
Ah right i see, thought you meant behaving like a porn star lol. |
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out
Hahaha. Its ridiculous
Curious to know what you mean about mimicking online behavior though lol."
It was compilation of short videos. Acting out exactly how people behaved online. |
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out "
You've just reminded me of a night out in Napoleons bar in the Manchester Village. I was at the very crowded bar and a man and wife recognised me from here. We started chatting and suddenly I realised she'd got my dick out and was wanking me. Napoleons was great in those days for stuff like that and I had no objection to her doing this so quickly after saying hello
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We get REALLY annoyed about the ones who send, 'Hi" as an opening message. What regions do they expect?
We asked a guy once what response he expected, he said, "none", so WHY send a message you don't expect a response too?
(they NEVER get the response they were expecting from us though) |
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It's not only guys though. Lots of women have blank profiles and little or no pics or text.
Some of them just say, " Been here before and know the score".
It must work for them as they have lots of veris but I'm guessing they have been verified by those they met on previous profiles.
A profile is supposed to be your shop window so if your window display is crap then nobody's going into your shop. |
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over a year ago
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Cant tar everyone with the same brush. Over the years ive met a few "blank profile" or what you describe as no effort and the lady or couple i have met have been amazing.
So not allwayd the case, i would agree there is a trend though |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
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Dosnt matter how much or little you put on your profile chances are that you are going to be ignored anyway. |
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"It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
Dosnt matter how much or little you put on your profile chances are that you are going to be ignored anyway."
That may be the case for some people, but we tend to try and answer everyone, weather its a no thanku...doesn't hurt t be friendly but if the message says "hi" or just "how you doing" then yes it will be ignored or just deleted.  |
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"We get REALLY annoyed about the ones who send, 'Hi" as an opening message. What regions do they expect?
We asked a guy once what response he expected, he said, "none", so WHY send a message you don't expect a response too?
(they NEVER get the response they were expecting from us though)"
We are a bi couple, and once had a message saying...I think I might be bi and want to give it a go..
We replied with what would you like is to do about that lol....he never got back, why would he come to a couple when there are plenty single bi guys on here to experiment with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The one's with boring or non existent profiles are always the ones that wink or message "hi"
Ok... give me a hint!! "
This!
I feel sorry for them. Getting absolutely nowhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait...are you telling me that a blank or zero effort profile combined with a dick pic next to a TV remote and wuu2 doesn't immediately make women think yes please? God damn it why hasn't anyone told me this before?!  |
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"The one's with boring or non existent profiles are always the ones that wink or message "hi"
Ok... give me a hint!! "
Loving the artwork just a shame you don't want a single guy... |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
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"It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
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No excuse for poor spelling either  |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"We get REALLY annoyed about the ones who send, 'Hi" as an opening message. What regions do they expect?
We asked a guy once what response he expected, he said, "none", so WHY send a message you don't expect a response too?
(they NEVER get the response they were expecting from us though)
We are a bi couple, and once had a message saying...I think I might be bi and want to give it a go..
We replied with what would you like is to do about that lol....he never got back, why would he come to a couple when there are plenty single bi guys on here to experiment with. "
Well that's easy...he was saying he might be bi as a means of getting to the f! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Blank bio? Yes
Silhouette pic? Yes
One word or one line message? Yes
Use of text Speak? Yes
Yup, way to get into my knickers! I'm wet horny and gagging for you to come and fuck me my legs are open ready for you.... |
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"It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
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In our 20 years experience it tends to be the ones who make the least effort in terms of profiles, pictures and messages who whine the loudest about not getting any response, people being 'up their own arses' etc. It's almost as if they feel they're entitled to the attention they crave... |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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I've found that many single females and a few couples are the worst for 'will fill in later' profiles. Although to be fair I don't look at single male profiles.
It is a balancing act though, I've seen many female/couples on their profile and sometimes on the forums state they don't want to read war and peace, when it comes to a profile and yet they don't want a single line either. Mine might be closer to war and peace, probably people never read to the end.  |
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A lot of the Will Fill In Laters are married voyeurs hoping to perve off of everyone else on Fab. Some of them though don't really know themselves sexually and tick all the "Interests" boxes thinking they're going to get loads of offers. Then there's those who message you late at night with one word such as "Horny" or "Hi"... |
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We’ve had messages from one such profile today, no photos, no info but they’re happy to send us photos via WhatsApp... god may love a trier but we don’t.
On the flip side though, we probably share too much as we have lots of pictures and a lengthy profile. Not that many people read it before messaging, so maybe we’d do just as well by ‘filling in later’!
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"A lot of the Will Fill In Laters are married voyeurs hoping to perve off of everyone else on Fab. Some of them though don't really know themselves sexually and tick all the "Interests" boxes thinking they're going to get loads of offers. Then there's those who message you late at night with one word such as "Horny" or "Hi"..."
Ah yes, the Friday night late night messages, often a variation on “meet now” - always a classic. |
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"We get REALLY annoyed about the ones who send, 'Hi" as an opening message. What regions do they expect?
We asked a guy once what response he expected, he said, "none", so WHY send a message you don't expect a response too?
(they NEVER get the response they were expecting from us though)
We are a bi couple, and once had a message saying...I think I might be bi and want to give it a go..
We replied with what would you like is to do about that lol....he never got back, why would he come to a couple when there are plenty single bi guys on here to experiment with.
Well that's easy...he was saying he might be bi as a means of getting to the f!"
Yeah that much is obvious, but why would they think just because they are bi they will get anywhere near the fem |
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"Blank bio? Yes
Silhouette pic? Yes
One word or one line message? Yes
Use of text Speak? Yes
Yup, way to get into my knickers! I'm wet horny and gagging for you to come and fuck me my legs are open ready for you.... "
Hahaha...its totally bizarre eh! |
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"I know it's been said and I've also seen a lot of parody videos mimicking online behaviour.
Imagine the old days of being out in a bar or club. Some random just comes up to you and says hi and flops his dick out "
That happened to me in a gay, hard and about 8 inches, |
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We’ve made an effort to cover everything in our profile and we get messages such as;
Wanna fuck?
Nice tits
Just cummed over your pics
Which just get deleted but very frustrating when people that want so much can’t bother a couple mins of their time to read. Our profile will tell you if you’ll make the cut before you message us. |
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"We’ve made an effort to cover everything in our profile and we get messages such as;
Wanna fuck?
Nice tits
Just cummed over your pics
Which just get deleted but very frustrating when people that want so much can’t bother a couple mins of their time to read. Our profile will tell you if you’ll make the cut before you message us."
Usual keyboard wankers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its horses for courses.
A crafted and polite message quoting various subjects in someone's profile, along with your own profile giving enough information to make you seem interesting and appealing. Still gets met with read, delete and no reply.
And sometimes just a witty one liner can spark an interest or reply.
There is no known absolute formula for success but lack of effort is just asking for failure.
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About a year ago I got a message from two guys, each had photos one guy more attractive than the other. However the ‘other’ had a profile that was filled with information about what he was looking for and actively interested in Tgirls or Femboys.
The attractive guy just had ‘fill in later’ so I ignored him for the other and we met up in a club ( on his profile that he prefer to meet in public ).
It’s got so bad I’ve actually added it to my profile now, as it’s really disappointing to think, you look nice and you get no hints about the person from their profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often get messages of women saying nothing but the word... "FACE".....
I usually reply with yes I have s face. I know women get a raw deal with all the desperate men on here but one word message first message as an opener...... no thanks |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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"I often get messages of women saying nothing but the word... "FACE".....
I usually reply with yes I have s face. I know women get a raw deal with all the desperate men on here but one word message first message as an opener...... no thanks "
I get the same! Often see them posting statuses moaning about one word messages they receive, yet send them out themselves.. always makes me laugh. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer a long winded profile (yes I can read!) to a very short, no effort made one. At least it gives you something to talk about, plus it gives a sense of their intelligence.
That said, I have met some great people with very sparse profiles. I have suggested to them that they should make a tad more effort to show their personality though.
I have also met some boring people with long winded profiles. A lot depends on the actual content of said profile. I have got better at determining which people I will probably enjoy having fun with. Practice makes perfect |
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over a year ago
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Something that sticks in my craw is a profile ranting about what they don't want in someone who's interested and absolutely fuck all saying what they are interested in and then they have the GALL to say one liners and hellos won't get an answer motherfucker write something people can interact with then!
Or
Oooorrr!!
The couple profiles that state don't contact if you are only interested in the woman and then have absolutely Z z Z Zero pictures of the male half |
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"It escapes me how alot of folk on here make very little effort in their profile! Surely if they want a meet they would make themselves look desirable?...and by this I mean, a couple of friends pics, a silhouetted profile pic, and very little text about who they are etc..and when these people msg, they get shitty cause you ignore it or delete it!!
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. Let’s face it the vast majority on here never had any intention of meeting anyone. A motley collection of attention seekers and keyboard wankers. It was ever thus. |
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