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the first thing to learn about swinging ...rejection
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so we all start somewhere me and hubs were lucky that we met a wonderful older couple who helped us onto the scene they always said theres only one golden rule and that is no .. no is no every time now with that in mind why do so many struggle with the word no .... rejection is a massive part of the scene surely if you cant handle rejection then the scene is not for you ???
this is not a one sex problem either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can’t take rejection life will pretty much be a struggle.
Totally agree no is a no but there’s also a nice way to say no.
On here it’s the rules that a no reply is a no and I’m happy with that. |
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Funny but single guys seem to believe that rejection is something couples don't come across.
Trust me we most definitely do. Admittedly less often perhaps but it is still a huge part of our fab/swinging experience. |
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"No means No" is a rule that applies to just about anything and everything in the world. Being able to deal with that, and rejection, is a sure sign of maturity. If you can't take rejection on the swinging scene, then it's clear that you have some serious growing-up to do. |
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"Agree entirely.
Think quite a few people (generally males) think this is a sex site not a swinging site and there is a big difference"
This is so true, we are inundated with messages from blokes clearly thinking that we are some sort of free sex service for them to empty their balls...boys who work away from home.. and they are horny, drives us mad...we are here for swinging and not to provide a service. |
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