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Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you.
We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be.
Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious.
Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever. |
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over a year ago
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"Impact play. Quite enjoyed the teasing beforehand but nothing more.
E-Stim didn't do much for me either x
Not heard that term before. E-stim?"
Electric stimulation. It’s like a series of mini electrical shocks |
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Watersports for me too.
The only bit I liked was the intimacy of being so close to someone trust wise and emotionally. When he pissed inside me whilst having sex. I adored the fullness I felt.
That was it.
I don't expect to feel that way about anyone else so won't be going there again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 things come to mind
Receiving oral. It does absolutely nothing for me.
Having a wand used on me. Love it when I do it alone, but find it painful/ uncomfortable/ irritating when someone else does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much anything related to BDSM, even at the very soft end like simple wrist restraints, paddles/crops, etc.
I do understand why people like the pain and domination / humiliation aspects but it would do absolutely nothing for me to dish either out and trying to apply either to me would not work out well for the supplier.
Simply don’t get bondage gear at all, though; fair play to those who like it but it just looks ridiculous to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again.
Katie."
Not surprised you didn't like it if you were using ordinary wax  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
Thanks for telling me lol
Also known as the perineum  "
Or chad. |
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"Anal sex.
Def not worth it at all.  "
This to me is a classic example of difference of opinions. Many love it and others don't like it. Probably similar to the differing opinions on blow jobs for men.
We are all very different and like different things. And that's fine  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Spanking.
Receiving, I wear padded pants to give my arse some shape and it would take a battering ram for me to feel being spanked through the padding. Great exercise for the spanker, but that's about it.
Giving, I can't help but mess around, swapping hands with a flamboyant jump, warming up, pretending I'm in an intense rally at Wimbledon. To be fair, I get more out of it than the poor git hoping to get the spanking.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blowjobs for me id say. Its nice to receive and to watch but id never came from one and there was many who said "when i do it youll cum" well no i didnt but its good to know that im not the only one feeling like this  love from leicester |
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over a year ago
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Bondage does absolutely ZERO for me.
Becomes more like trying to get a science experiment correct at school, than any pleasure from it.
Blowjobs are regularly disappointing, too. By most women. |
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"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
Thanks for telling me lol
Also known as the perineum
Or chad."
I thought it was your "tisint"
Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0) |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
Thanks for telling me lol
Also known as the perineum
Or chad.
I thought it was your "tisint"
Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0)"
Brilliant |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
Thanks for telling me lol
Also known as the perineum
Or chad.
I thought it was your "tisint"
Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0)
Brilliant "
Typical Dub |
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"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
Thanks for telling me lol
Also known as the perineum
Or chad.
I thought it was your "tisint"
Tisint your ass and tisint ur sack!! :0)
Brilliant
Typical Dub "
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over a year ago
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"Another vote for blowjobs. That's not saying I find them all bad. I guess you just need someone who can find the right rhythm and style to suit you. "
Another vote hear too. I can cum whilst having a blow job, but don't find them as erotic as some people seem to.
I really enjoy BDSM, but I find the whole rope play thing too fiddly. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
With the whole blowjob thing, I think porn has a lot to answer for. Gagging, deep throating, assisted by a furious handjob all covered in spit. Personally I don't enjoy it all that much but most seem to think I would. On a lesser end of the spectrum, some women just go through the motion like a robot performing the act. Maybe their heart's just not in it. |
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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago
Barnsley |
Watersports tried it both ways didn’t really do out, blind fold and restraints deffo not for me rimming prefer to rim a guy then him rim me oh and dp sounded good but it’s either from or back not both at the same time |
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I’m not that bothered about blow jobs. They’re nice enough foreplay, sure, but I’m happy to skip over them.
I don’t share the common obsession with anal either. I don’t find it taboo so it’s not exciting on those grounds, it takes a lot of preparation, and it just doesn’t feel as good as vaginal sex.
The big one for me, though – coming from a BDSM background – is rope. Firstly, it suffers from the Scalextric problem (by the time you’ve got it all set up, it’s time to put it away again); and secondly, it’s *boring*. The last time I was tied up at a play event, I fell asleep in the middle of it.
Which is weird really, because I find being restrained and sexually used to be pretty fucking hot. Rope for rope’s sake, though? Zzz.
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over a year ago
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Anal. Made me massively self conscious, was uncomfortable and painful, and found out can’t do it for medical reasons too. All around not for me.
Silver lining is that during the process, found out I love being rimmed. |
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"The ol' 69 position. I find it awkward and just plain silly, not sexy at all.
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This is another one for me. Live giving oral, but I like to take my time with it and enjoy it, 69 I find distracting and a bit pointless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say this is a really interesting thread. We tend to have preconceived ideas about sex. I’ve been surprised as to how many of you guys are fairly ’Meh’ about blow jobs. Not in a bad way, I guess I just presumed.
Just goes to show the value of being able to talk openly and honestly in a relationship about your sexual needs.
And not needs of course!
V |
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again.
Katie."
Same here it hurt like hell. |
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"Have to say this is a really interesting thread. We tend to have preconceived ideas about sex. I’ve been surprised as to how many of you guys are fairly ’Meh’ about blow jobs. Not in a bad way, I guess I just presumed.
Just goes to show the value of being able to talk openly and honestly in a relationship about your sexual needs.
And not needs of course!
V"
This was exactly the point I was trying to make. Just cos we like different things, doesn't mean we can't discuss it and all be nice and supportive to each other.
We see a lot of judging on forums, but look how this has brought out so many opinions and still remained respectful and positive.
Veey refreshing to see. And I'm sure its helping a lot of people who many wonder if they are different or strange or whatever for their tastes and dislikes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blow jobs. Ok to get me turned on but when you got a woman who just wants to keep on sucking you for ages then i get bored. Only 3 women have made me cum and that took some doing as i am just honestly not a lover of being sucked off for ages. Prefer to be a giver oral wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ol' 69 position. I find it awkward and just plain silly, not sexy at all.
This is another one for me. Live giving oral, but I like to take my time with it and enjoy it, 69 I find distracting and a bit pointless"
Well if you are licking pussy right the dick be like a limp themometer in her mouth anyway lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you.
We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be.
Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious.
Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever."
Thanks for starting this post. Its nice to not have any bitching on a post for once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This was exactly the point I was trying to make. Just cos we like different things, doesn't mean we can't discuss it and all be nice and supportive to each other.
We see a lot of judging on forums, but look how this has brought out so many opinions and still remained respectful and positive.
Veey refreshing to see. And I'm sure its helping a lot of people who many wonder if they are different or strange or whatever for their tastes and dislikes. "
Absolutely! Thank you so much for posting the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie? "
Nope. Bloejobs are ok to get me going and i have akways been thst way but laying there whilst she sucks your cock for 45mins is bloody boring asvid rather be eating her or fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t like sitting on somebody’s face. There are better positions to receive oral.
And I don’t like clitoral stimulators either, they over boil me and make me numb.
Everything else is great! X |
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie? "
I actually prefer the visual aspect of it to the feeling, so wouldn't necessarily skip it. |
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over a year ago
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Before I got with Mr, I avoided giving oral, as did nothing for me. Now, it's my favourite thing, maybe the guys who don't enjoy getting sucked just haven't found the right head giver? X |
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"Before I got with Mr, I avoided giving oral, as did nothing for me. Now, it's my favourite thing, maybe the guys who don't enjoy getting sucked just haven't found the right head giver? X"
I have 3 women have made me cum. But its still not a priority for me sexwise. |
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"Here's a related question for all the other guys that aren't that fussed about blowjobs: Do you also skip the inevitable, interminable blowjob section of every damn porn movie?
I actually prefer the visual aspect of it to the feeling, so wouldn't necessarily skip it."
My thoughts. Spot on buddy |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Foreplay.
Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. |
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you.
We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be.
Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious.
Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever."
Vigorous fingering...I hate it, especially when they don't ask first!   |
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"Foreplay.
Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue. "
Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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"Foreplay.
Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue.
Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy? "
I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. |
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"I’m not that bothered about blow jobs. They’re nice enough foreplay, sure, but I’m happy to skip over them.
I don’t share the common obsession with anal either. I don’t find it taboo so it’s not exciting on those grounds, it takes a lot of preparation, and it just doesn’t feel as good as vaginal sex.
The big one for me, though – coming from a BDSM background – is rope. Firstly, it suffers from the Scalextric problem (by the time you’ve got it all set up, it’s time to put it away again); and secondly, it’s *boring*. The last time I was tied up at a play event, I fell asleep in the middle of it.
Which is weird really, because I find being restrained and sexually used to be pretty fucking hot. Rope for rope’s sake, though? Zzz.
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Rope play can be very relaxing though, that whole cocooned feeling.
I've become sleepy being flogged while bent over a bench in a club - just too comfortable and a lovely feeling.
Not sure if that's a thing or I'm just weird |
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"Before I got with Mr, I avoided giving oral, as did nothing for me. Now, it's my favourite thing, maybe the guys who don't enjoy getting sucked just haven't found the right head giver? X
I have 3 women have made me cum. But its still not a priority for me sexwise. "
I've been thinking really hard about this, and I can only remember it happening once. 2006 was quite a year. |
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"Foreplay.
Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue.
Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy?
I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. "
Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened. |
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"Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened."
Blimey Ive had some rubbish blowjobs but that is next level!
I'm less self-conscious now of telling a woman how to suck me and what I enjoy in the same way I hope she'll tell me. Communication is sexy af |
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"Had a woman suck and wank me so rough once she split my banjo string . Also had a blowjob of a woman who neglected to tell me she had chipped her tooth and split my purple headed womb raider right open. A&E staff were laughing like fuck at the how it happened.
Blimey Ive had some rubbish blowjobs but that is next level!
I'm less self-conscious now of telling a woman how to suck me and what I enjoy in the same way I hope she'll tell me. Communication is sexy af"
It was not a good experience on both. The A&E staff were great though on tbe bellend slicing |
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"Having my gooch rubbed.
Didn't arouse me at all.
Not heard of that before
Area between sack and asshole.
That has a name? New information. Someone needs to open and terminology thread "
Perineum also  |
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"Wax play. I thought I had a fairly high pain tolerance but it hurt like hell. I've since learnt that you can buy special candles for it but I'm really not bothered about trying again.
Katie."
Cazz tried this in a club once,
She stripped down naked in front of everyone and laid on a table while another member dripped hot wax on her back and front.
It was amazing to watch |
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By *adlad65Man
over a year ago
Peterborough |
Another 69 for me. You have to have perfectly compatible body geometry to make things work properly. I find it desperately uncomfortable sometimes. It just seems like from my point of view, I'm really trying to take pleasure from pleasuring someone else, but at the same time they are distracted and not really taking the time to enjoy what I'm doing to them... And vice versa probably. |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Straight sex. By which I mean fucking a pussy. I love the build up, I love to finger them, I love to go down on them and taste them but the moment I penetrate one I just find it boring. I can hardly ever cum when fucking. It makes me sad really, cos I'd really love to enjoy it more.  |
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over a year ago
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Giving anal sex. Although always found its women that want it more than me. Even when discussed with my male friends it seems to be their partners that request it more. |
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In all honesty I can't think of a single thing!!
For me its not the thing you are doing, but the person you're doing it with.
Compatibility is key! Quality over quantity. I like to try things a few times before I decide.
Have had several instances of things being AMAZING with one person, and shocking with another!
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"Giving anal sex. Although always found its women that want it more than me. Even when discussed with my male friends it seems to be their partners that request it more. "
..but you have it as an interest in your Interests!  |
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"Giving anal sex. Although always found its women that want it more than me. Even when discussed with my male friends it seems to be their partners that request it more.
..but you have it as an interest in your Interests! "
Think I just ticked all those boxes lol
But good point. |
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"Whats something you've tried sexually and found it didn't do anything for you.
We all have different tastes and preferences but curious how different eveeyone will be.
Please be respectful of others. I'm not looking to have people shamed or abused, genuinely curious.
Mine is watersports. Did nothing for me whatsoever."
Being tied up & teased . Really didn’t do anything for me , but you’ve got to try different scenarios |
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Playing with my nipples. I think because mine are pierced the assumption is, it's sexual thing. It's not, it's purely aesthetic. While I'm not against them being touched, kissed and licked it's not at all a turn on. |
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"Used a Dyson ball cleaner once, that twat needs to be sued under the trades descriptions act, it didnt work wasnt comfortable and resulted in a visit to an A&E department to be cut free. "
Did you put it on suck, blow or fondle? |
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"Foreplay.
Only kidding! Role play and talking dirty. Feels so cringey when I try it. And when they try it I lose concentration of the sex. I recall once someone said to me during sex 'I've wanted your cock for all these years... I meant months' as we had only been chatting for months and that killed the moment for me as I pondered her slip of the tongue.
Nah id have still kept going. It is not your gf/mrs you are fucking so what was the problem buddy?
I kept going but by that point my mind had wandered to her faux pas as I sensed the slight embarrassment in her voice. It just took my attention is all. But besides that moment, she was also the single worse blowjob I have ever had. I actually said the word stop but she said I want your cum. I was already pinned down but I did try to resist. She was actually very strong as she was a fit lady and I failed to dislodge her. Anyway, it was the roughest blowjob I had ever received coupled with the most aggressive handjob ever as she was forcibly trying to yank the spunk from out of my body. That was probably the first time I had shot my load through oral for years. I thought she was going to rip my nob off. "
This made me LOL sorry! |
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"Playing with my nipples. I think because mine are pierced the assumption is, it's sexual thing. It's not, it's purely aesthetic. While I'm not against them being touched, kissed and licked it's not at all a turn on."
Me neither..  |
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