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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion |
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People can call themselves whatever they want. Most are attracted to a good personality, good chat and an element of common ground anyway so the labels of fat, thin, curvy etc aren't required |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ... |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
Surely this will depend on the height of the person although the word fat is never good to use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"
your perfect size ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? "
i have no perfect size
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? i have no perfect size "
sorry my perfect sign came out as a question mark.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought 'curvy' was rather ambiguous. Everyone has curves, we're not angular. |
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I'm a size 12-14, but deffo curvy! Tiny waist, big boobs and big bum.
I prefer curvy to being called fat, I own my curves and have learned to love them, and I haven't had any complaints yet
Own it ladies, we've got this. Its all about confidence and dressing to our bodies, no matter if you are a size 6 to 36. We are all beautiful in our own unique ways, and perfect the way we are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa. |
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At the end of they day, they are just words. We all have our own ideas of what fat and curvy are. Pointless to discuss.
"One mans junk is another mans treasure". Same rules apply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion your perfect size ?? i have no perfect size sorry my perfect sign came out as a question mark."
haha oh right
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman. |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
Surely it's self defining?
36 24 36....curvy...
40 40 40....not curvy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Proportions probably, still an hourglass like figure even if bigger xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer the term Voluptuous. However in reality I look in the mirror and see fat. |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
Think you may also need to clarify of meaning of Fit as f**k, Are you taking as in Gym or exercise fit or as it what some would say totally sexy and shagable.
Some see that as confusing as the Curvy question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been called curvy... Mostly by blokes that want sex... I am not, I am fat, for my waist size my legs, bum n boobs are not in proportion. I am ok with it, mostly. |
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I'd say curvy is a shape, fat more describes a size? I might use curvy to describe myself, but certainly not in isolation - wouldn't want people to be under any illusions about my size! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fat, but my girlfriend says she loves my "dad bod" 
Personally I think I'm way past a dad bod, but hey, I'm happy! So I think it's self defining really.
Advantage is I'm also harder to throw in the back of a van. |
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Some wear there weight better than others, and confidence is a big boost with this, but really what does it matter?
Everyone has there own tastes and preferences, and often actual dress size makes little difference to if a woman gets a double take or not. |
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It's the person inside that counts not the size or looks. |
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By *unpetexyzaMan
over a year ago
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?
Think you may also need to clarify of meaning of Fit as f**k, Are you taking as in Gym or exercise fit or as it what some would say totally sexy and shagable.
Some see that as confusing as the Curvy question."
In your case totally sexy and shagable! |
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By *efthandMan
over a year ago
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Is it a case of 'politeness / respect' as well?
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"Love your photos, they really show off your gorgeous curves"
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"Love your photos, they really show off how gorgeously fat you are"
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Even if a person's profile mentions they describe themselves as fat, I personally wouldn't call that out as it feels such a negative description towards someone.
It's a funny one, as it's very subjective and as much as we shouldn't be driven or influenced by 'labels' to an extent we are as it's part of the choices we choose when creating our profiles. |
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While I accept the fact that I am fat, hearing the term always makes me feel down and I get quite body conscious. My waist is smaller but there is still quite a lot of me. Either way I don’t think anyone would feel good with someone calling them fat.
Lily |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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For me the difference between the two is hanging skin.
Frame and skin can be classed as curvy even on why could be called the larger size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the person inside that counts not the size or looks."
There is no real definition of what counts.
A bit of everything is needed we think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm curvy when someone likes me and fat when they don't. Same goes for my own view of it I suppose, some days I'm highlighting every curve and others I'm practically wearing a tent to hide any lump and bump. So, basically, perception is the difference. |
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"I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide "
Surely the point is one can be curvy, curvy and fat, curvy and slim, curvy and any other body type if there are well.... "curves"....
As for the little belly of which you speak ? I've inspected your pictures very closely, (you may not have felt it.. I was very gentle)... If only my belly were as little as yours!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely fat  |
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"I'm curvy when someone likes me and fat when they don't. Same goes for my own view of it I suppose, some days I'm highlighting every curve and others I'm practically wearing a tent to hide any lump and bump. So, basically, perception is the difference. "
Same here. I describe myself as "ample" on here, as I no longer have a tiny waist. Because of that I say I'm FAT, rather than CURVY.
Lovely people on here call me curvy - which is rather good to hear.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa. "
Fupa? |
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"Fat is still curvy. "
It is indeed. I just feel that people should know I have a fat belly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I have been fat, I have been athletic, I can now describe myself as “curvy”.
In my own personal case, I could have described myself “fit as fuck” when I could run comfortably at 5:00min/km. Not anymore...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While I accept the fact that I am fat, hearing the term always makes me feel down and I get quite body conscious. My waist is smaller but there is still quite a lot of me. Either way I don’t think anyone would feel good with someone calling them fat.
Lily "
You have a fab figure. You are not over weight at all lady!
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I am what I am
I don't want praise, I don't want pity
I bang my own drum
Some think it's noise, I think it's pretty
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle?
Why not try to see things from a different angle?
Your life is a sham till you can shout out
"I am what I am"
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces
It's one life and there's no return and no deposit
One life so it's time to open up your closet
Life's not worth a damn till you can shout out
"I am what I am"
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the ace, sometimes the deuces
It's one life and there's no return and no deposit
One life so it's time to open up your closet
Life's not worth a damn till you can shout out
"I am what I am"!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "
I thought you'd just typed gut wrong there, I've never heard of a gunt before. Every day's a school day on Fab! |
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"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "
I have a hunt. Therefore, as I've already said, I'm fat  |
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When I set my profile up, a friend that told me about fab (women) I was going to put fat but she told me to put athletic, I said but I’m certainly not athletic anymore but she said to me your not fat so suppose it’s about the opinion you have of yourself as well as other people’s opinion of you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am rotund...haha...fat and curvy...voluptuous.... |
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"I am rotund...haha...fat and curvy...voluptuous...."
you look perfect to me.
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I'm curvy...if humans were built of Lego they would be square and angular. But I also have fat, far too much of it.
But I don't let either term define me.
T x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy is a shape not a dress size surely??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat.
I thought you'd just typed gut wrong there, I've never heard of a gunt before. Every day's a school day on Fab!"
I've never heard of the word Gunt either!!
It's awful lol... |
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Curvy is a shape just like sexy is an attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ahhh the fat vs curvy debate 
It's in the eye of the beholder.
For me I'm curvy at a size 16 or below and fat over.
At the moment I'm fat. |
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I was a fat guy, and never had an issue with the word of used as a description rather than as an insult.
It's the context that is important to me.
I'd have disliked it more if people called me curvy
I wonder if there is a nice alternative of fat for guys? |
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Curvy or fat?
I have curves (most people do as humans were not designed using a ruler and with straight lines in mind) but I am also fat, very fat, obese would be the medical term.
I used to be very curvy with big natural breasts, small waist and nice biggish bum. Pregnancy, breastfeeding for 2 1/2 years and not going out much due to family issues “helped” the extra fat and my tummy stay. Depression just made things worse.
I get called curvy, BBW, etc. all the time but I always mention being fat as I do not want to mislead anyone.
What anyone else calls themselves is their prerogative. I call myself MySweetLady  |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "
Im definitely fat then but never considered myself curvy anyway
( never heard of the word either and had to google it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say does it really matter as it's the person that counts x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I call myself curvy because I do have a nipped in waist compared to my bust and hips and I have been told I carry my weight well.
Fat is just not a pleasant word especially to describe someone for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "
I have one of those whether I am fat or not, now... It's just more skin n less fat when I am lighter |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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Fat but also curvy here, hourglass figure with lumps ahoy! Some that don't disappear even when I'm lighter |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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I've seen more fat on a butchers pencil |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 shape curvy
O shape fat
It’s down to curvature I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 shape curvy
O shape fat
It’s down to curvature I guess"
I would be an O if I was shorter.. I would probably look like a bumble bee just less stripey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 shape curvy
O shape fat
It’s down to curvature I guess
I would be an O if I was shorter.. I would probably look like a bumble bee just less stripey "
Haha, can’t tell from your pics but sexy all the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fat always have been but I go in at my waist so have some curves however how people describe me is entirely up to them xx |
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I'm fat but hubby loves me, so I am happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy and fat here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.
Fupa? "
Fat upper pussy area xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.
Fupa?
Fat upper pussy area xx"
Never heard that term either , so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.
Fupa?
Fat upper pussy area xx
Never heard that term either , so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang? "
I'd never heard of gunt either but yes think they are pretty much the same thing xx |
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I’m curvy and fat. It’s perfectly possible to be both. And I’ve been told on here I’m one or the other more times than I can count. I selected curvy as my body type because I am, but I also describe myself in more detail in the text, and don’t hide anything in my photos so people can form their own opinion.
Equally though, what does “athletic” mean? A professional prop forward or a shot putter are athletic because they are athletes, but they are often also fat. |
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Whatever you call it, that's the kind of lady I go for. I don't know why they just excite me.
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I simply love all types of sexy women....i think an hour glass figure...no matter its size is sexy....its what gets the juices going all that matters |
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Ladies are curvy (unless he tells otherwise) , men are fat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am both.
Definitely overweight and need to be fitter/healthier (work in progress), but luckily I’m taller than average which helps.
I think ‘curves’ refers to proportions really. I have a huge bum, big boobs, tiny waist, and small shoulders, which I think are curvy.
Sadly though, my tummy is not in proportion, and unsupported my boobs are seriously heavy and go a lot further south than they used to lol.
Hubby loves my body. Anybody else isn’t being forced to look lol |
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Mrs rosie pumpkin....just looked at your pics... all i can say is mmmmmm |
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I love this thread so many hot ladies commenting.  |
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There’s no doubt about it, I’m fat. It’s all very wobbly and jiggly. I’d feel more comfortable and confident if I lost some weight so that’s the plan, again.
Lou x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to hate looking at my body thinking I was fat, but now know all natural unique in our own right and love my curves |
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I call myself curvy when dressed in female clothes and fat when dressed in male clothes. |
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I can call myself fat (because I'm overweight) or curvy (because of my shape), but anyone else can call just call me curvy. Anyone calling me fat is getting a swift block or being told to fuck off ha. A matter of politeness! |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
I find both curvy & fat women sexy, as long as they are happy with their body & want to share it |
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By *rMrsB.Couple
over a year ago
Barnsley |
I’m not curvy and I’m not fat. I HAVE fat, it doesn’t define me. But I do like potential new meets to know that I am of a larger build so there’s no surprises or cat fishing pictures |
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Curvy or fat it's nice to hear some appreciation from guys who enjoy us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ... "
this im a size 8 and i consider myself curvy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can call themselves whatever they want. Most are attracted to a good personality, good chat and an element of common ground anyway so the labels of fat, thin, curvy etc aren't required "
Very well said. |
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I'm a bit underheight for my weight  |
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I’m fat. I’m ok with that (mostly). I’m very honest about my body. Some people like it, some people love it, some people hate it - and have no qualms about about telling me so.
I’m not arsed. I’ve got some hot as fuck Fab friends who I know I can turn on, and can enjoy me and my body as much as I enjoy them. That’s what matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All real women and admire the true form |
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Curvy or fat .. iprefer sexy ..
But to me it's the mind that gets me .. if she is open minded .. willing to try new things ( or do things she lives) then oh happy days ......  |
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"I'm curvy when someone likes me and fat when they don't. Same goes for my own view of it I suppose, some days I'm highlighting every curve and others I'm practically wearing a tent to hide any lump and bump. So, basically, perception is the difference. "
Very well said. OP what is the point of your question? |
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It's curvy then voluptuous for me. Fat is not one my favourite terms or labels.
When someone can't move then voluptuous looses its appeal and heads to obese.
I've always loved the curvy/ voluptuous lady, definitely very sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a curvy girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the larger lady |
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My tummy is round, that makes me curvy
Curvy can be a size 8 or a size 22. It's the shape of a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U look fantastic xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been called sexy and curvy by the same guys that call me fat if I turn down their advances
Thankfully its a small number of mean spirited men. Most are great.
As for the size thing I classify myself as curvy but truthfully I'm also fat. Doesn't stop me having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great profile pic xx |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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I'm a size 18/20 I'm fat.... But my body shape is curvy in the sense that I have an hourglass figure, boobs,nipped in waist and hips and bum.
It's all personal perception really |
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"Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman."
exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ur v sexy and horny looking xx |
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"I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way
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Beautiful. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I am happy to be described as fat, and I have a gunt! I love my body either way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me to as many curves as possible. If I'm being blunt. Until it becomes too difficult lol.
No offence intended |
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I’ve been told for years since I was 15 after an operation that I’m fat as I ballooned
And I am fat few years ago I was at my biggest n worked really hard to loose 8 stone and get down to 14 stone!
Only to be told by a group of women on my celebratory New Year’s Eve night out that I was a fat C#@t and they didn’t want me talking to their friend who I was getting on well with
Even when I loose weight I’m still a 49 1/2 inch chest just for a sort of gauge |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
It's a pointless distinction.
People are so often keen to put others into categories, and sometimes that can be helpful, but it really isn't in this case.
You're either going to be attracted to someone or not. Whether they can be defined as curvy or fat shouldn't be the point at all. |
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over a year ago
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I am the wrong kinda fat |
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Others may call me fat but I'm rubensque - plump & voluptuous and squidgy in all the right places for the people that matter.
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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I liked the word curvy, and I think it was used to not cause offense when describing us bigger girls. However, I think the word has been hijacked by the slimmer girls, who yes, obviously have curves, everyone does. Now, I like 'voluptuous' or 'rubenesque'. Each to there own. Dont really care what you call me just don't call me late for dinner. |
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over a year ago
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I am curvy, I am fat but only I get to call myself fat! |
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Im officially fat. According to the NHS guidelines I'm obese. But I definitely prefer curvy. Thank you! |
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I'm classed as ample on my couple profile but do call myself voluptuous and bbw I am large and have a serious gunt from weight loss and kids  |
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"Gunt??"
I guess the female version of a gock |
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over a year ago
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"
This, so much this... It's all proportional. Not numbers. |
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Despite popular belief, curvy does NOT mean fat. Curvy is an hour-glass figure; large breasts, hips, and butt with a comparatively small waist.
Thin women CAN be curvy, and fat women CAN be curveLESS. It is a body SHAPE, not a body SIZE.
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"Gunt??"
Where a stomach (gut) and pubic area (cunt) merge.
Lou x |
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Luckily we can all be whatever we want to be ..
I’ve just dieted and lost 3 stone..
First time I’ve ever needed to..
But clothes didn’t fit right , I didn’t like myself.
So I changed it ..
Anyone can with the right state of mind ..
Unfortunately being overweight is a mental state and because we’re unhappy we eat more ..
A vicious circle..
And we make up excuses why we are overweight..
But anyone can change it if they want..
Just be happy.. |
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Curvy is a polite description of body shape that could be incredibly healthy, or reflective of some surplus weight. Calling someone fat is not necessary, as it's likely to hurt many people and doesn't help - including calling ourselves fat. |
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"Curvy is a polite description of body shape that could be incredibly healthy, or reflective of some surplus weight. Calling someone fat is not necessary, as it's likely to hurt many people and doesn't help - including calling ourselves fat. "
Absolutely spot on comment |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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"I'm curvy, not sure I'm fat though, but I do have a little belly that I like to hide "
You have a belly? Don't see on eon your pics. Where is it? |
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over a year ago
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Its the shape not the weight...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
I'm fat,and proud of it
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?
I'm fat,and proud of it
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And you wear it well .. |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ?
I'm fat,and proud of it
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By *oojCouple
over a year ago
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"Curvy is a polite description of body shape that could be incredibly healthy, or reflective of some surplus weight. Calling someone fat is not necessary, as it's likely to hurt many people and doesn't help - including calling ourselves fat. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful |
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"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful "
Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt. |
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"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful
Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt."
If we're being pedantic - fat is a shape if you're describing us as such. . . more simply a shape can be defined as the form of an object or person. So yes fat is a shape
If you don't like fat, curvy, voluptuous or any other larger descriptions of a lady or even like a larger lady in real life that's fine but you do sound rather disrespectful |
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"Curvy is used by someone with respect calling someone fat is disrespectful
Possibly but more simply...curvy is a shape. Fat isnt.
If we're being pedantic - fat is a shape if you're describing us as such. . . more simply a shape can be defined as the form of an object or person. So yes fat is a shape
If you don't like fat, curvy, voluptuous or any other larger descriptions of a lady or even like a larger lady in real life that's fine but you do sound rather disrespectful "
If you're referring to me... Apologies I don't mean to sound disrespectful at all. |
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over a year ago
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Really this shouldn't be an issue unless the size is unpractical for sex. There's so much more to someone than figure. If said curvy/fat (whatever term you like to use. I prefer curvy) is confident, uninhibited, chilled and well into the sexual experience. What's size got to do with it?
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over a year ago
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"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ... "
im a size 8 sometimes a 6 but my curves are still there i still have a curvy ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm definitely fat "
Gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x"
I love me ladies curvy too never been attracted to a skinny lady.
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"I believe curvy is a shape and a person can be a size 8 or 10 or any size and curvy or whereas fat is something you have ...
im a size 8 sometimes a 6 but my curves are still there i still have a curvy ass"
I think we need more photos to confirm that! Very sexy curves. |
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I think curvy is most definitely a shape and can vary to person to person. Regardless of their weight or dress size.
I'm not a fan of referring to people as fat. I was called "fat" by kids at school when I was growing up. Then also "skinny" in later years. There are far more flattering words to use to describe someone.
However, when I think "fat", I think overweight or obese.
I've got friends my age who are healthy weights/bmi and refer to themselves as fat because they carry weight on their belly or bum.
On the other hand, I've got a friend who's a size 24, who refers to herself as "fat and proud".
It's all subjective
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over a year ago
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I think being called fat is derogatory. It's a harsh word to hurt someone's feelings. Curvy could cover a multitude of different body times right through mesomorphic to endomorphic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fact even some ectomorphic people could be called curvey if their body shape dictates it |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
been a size 30/32... that was fat.
now a size 18/20 some might say that is still fat, but I no longer feel as fat as I once did
guess it's relative to opinion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Academic, you either find someones shape attractive or not. Try not to hang labels I've got enough of my own hangups without inflicting some on others |
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It’s about proportions basically if she goes in at the waist she’s curvy. If she doesn’t she’s fat, simple. |
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"I love all sizes but I do go for the larger lady fat/curvy. That’s what I like always have. Look on this forum my hot list has just got longer keep up the good work lady’s x
I love me ladies curvy too never been attracted to a skinny lady.
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I love yours too welcome to my hotlist lol x |
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"So what's everyone think is the difference ?
Not calling ANYBODY here, my wife is size 26 and fit as fuck
But at what point would you say no that's not curvy it's fat ? "
I think it's proportions in regards to height and weight. We all carry it differently. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I consider myself fat as in I’m overweight and have body fat I don’t need unless I’m living in the snowy tundra. But I’m also curvy because I am not a straight line. Simples.
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"Size 14 on a 5ft woman is different to size 14 on a 6ft woman."
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am fat and this means curves....round curves lol |
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion"
I'd definitely say fantastic and definitely in fantastic proportion xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say your classed as fat when you poke your thigh and your chin wobbles |
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"Im size 18/20 most definitely fat...but i get calked curvy . But i think its where waist goes in and everything in proportion
I'd definitely say fantastic and definitely in fantastic proportion xx"
The beauty of our language... When a word can have many meanings. |
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The categories on here are useless....slim and curvy are body shapes. Fat is more about body composition, athletic is probably as well. Fat is not even a category on here anyway. Large and normal compared to what....what even is normal, and is everything else abnormal?!! Ultimately the terms like fat and curvy are all subjective and essentially meaningless....you like the look of someone’s body or you don’t.
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"The categories on here are useless....slim and curvy are body shapes. Fat is more about body composition, athletic is probably as well. Fat is not even a category on here anyway. Large and normal compared to what....what even is normal, and is everything else abnormal?!! Ultimately the terms like fat and curvy are all subjective and essentially meaningless....you like the look of someone’s body or you don’t.
Tabitha x"
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"The categories on here are useless....slim and curvy are body shapes. Fat is more about body composition, athletic is probably as well. Fat is not even a category on here anyway. Large and normal compared to what....what even is normal, and is everything else abnormal?!! Ultimately the terms like fat and curvy are all subjective and essentially meaningless....you like the look of someone’s body or you don’t.
Tabitha x"
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"I would say your classed as fat when you poke your thigh and your chin wobbles "
Oh good. I'm officially not fat |
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"At the end of they day, they are just words. We all have our own ideas of what fat and curvy are. Pointless to discuss.
"One mans junk is another mans treasure". Same rules
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True that. ???????? Slim and skinny just words. |
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Didn't mean the question marks. |
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About a stone ago I called myself curvy, now I'm just fat 
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I'm fat, as my profile pic shows.
I've labelled myself "ample" rather than "curvy" as I no longer have a small waist. Lovely people on here refer to me as curvy, though. Which is rather sweet x |
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"I'm fat but I'm also happy x"
this |
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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago
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I think it depends how it's being said. Fat is often used as a derogatory term to imply that a person is overweight. I was called fat when I was a teenager. How I wish I was that weight now.
I tend to refer to myself as fat, because that's how I see myself. As others have said, on here, I've been referred to a beautiful. (I still don't see that one myself)
It depends how far is being used. If it's said to illicit a negative response, then don't use it. If you're simply stating a fact, well, things are what they are. Whatever you call someone who has a poor self image they could take it the wrong way.
I'm curvy, it's just my curves are nearer to the full 360 degrees than others...
As others have said - beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it wouldn't do for everyone to like the same thing. |
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"I think it depends how it's being said. Fat is often used as a derogatory term to imply that a person is overweight. I was called fat when I was a teenager. How I wish I was that weight now.
I tend to refer to myself as fat, because that's how I see myself. As others have said, on here, I've been referred to a beautiful. (I still don't see that one myself)
It depends how far is being used. If it's said to illicit a negative response, then don't use it. If you're simply stating a fact, well, things are what they are. Whatever you call someone who has a poor self image they could take it the wrong way.
I'm curvy, it's just my curves are nearer to the full 360 degrees than others...
As others have said - beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it wouldn't do for everyone to like the same thing."
Well said! I call ME fat, but wouldn't dream of calling anyone else fat. If I had to describe them, I'd say Rubenesque or fuller figured, if they had big boobs too.
Ooh, what about voluptuous? I like that x |
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over a year ago
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"The moment you have a gunt your no longer curvy and are just fat. "
Wrong. |
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"I am curvey because my waist is ‘smaller’ than my bust and hips but i have fat that makes me look disproportionate, on my arms for example and fupa.
Fupa?
Fat upper pussy area xx
Never heard that term either , so are FUPA and Gunt both the same as an overhang? "
No but people often use it as thd sake. A FUPA is a fat mons pubis or the fat pad that covers the public bone. |
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Curvy...every single person has curves. Both men and women! We have bums, we have waists and legs and boobs!
Fat....is something you have, whether you have more than some or less than some. Fat should not be used as a descriptive word as it is wrong. Voluptuous is a nice way of wording it, I personally prefer that than BBW. Everyone is different in sizes.
We could turn the tables and say...Cock size...what is Small and what is big? To some people 4 inches is small, to some it’s big cause of past experiences. Where as to others 7 may be small. |
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"Curvy...every single person has curves. Both men and women! We have bums, we have waists and legs and boobs!
Fat....is something you have, whether you have more than some or less than some. Fat should not be used as a descriptive word as it is wrong. Voluptuous is a nice way of wording it, I personally prefer that than BBW. Everyone is different in sizes.
We could turn the tables and say...Cock size...what is Small and what is big? To some people 4 inches is small, to some it’s big cause of past experiences. Where as to others 7 may be small. "
Well in fairness cock size is one of the more straight forward criteria.. Question... "how bigs your cock?" answer... Slightly smaller than A lynx deoderant can... Or 6 inches...
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if i put my arms around the waist and the fingertips dont touch ..fat..lol |
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I have piled on 2 stone since stopping smoking...finding it hard to get rid of it...now just over 11 stone and a size 12 and it's all around my waist... |
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"I have piled on 2 stone since stopping smoking...finding it hard to get rid of it...now just over 11 stone and a size 12 and it's all around my waist... "
My doctor told me to only smoke after meals...I'm down to 15 meals a day now |
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over a year ago
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As many have already said you don’t need to be fat to be curvy, it’s about the proportions of the curves relative to the test of your body...
But I’m more interested in those who are fat women or some would call themselves obese. For all of you, being curvy or fat is on the mindset. Accepting them, feeling comfortable with them and realising many of of us love your curves would make you feel curvy and sexy.
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"I'm definitely fat "
Your definitely hot xx |
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