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Why did you join fab?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I absolutely love massaging men ... and at the time I was training so needed willing volunteers! Wasn't comfortable asking friends or friend's husbands to volunteer to be naked on my couch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To broaden my sexual horizons as to meet like minded people."
Largely this for me
When i am an old man who has led in my pencil I want to look back at my life with a large grin on my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a girl on POF who mentioned it, seemed a more honest way of finding sexual liaisons than using dating apps when I had no interest in a relationship at the time. Like the honesty, the variety and the uninhibited people.
Would say that I think it has had a detrimental effect on my ability to sustain ‘normal’ relationships though. |
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A guy was being thrown out of another chat website and his last line was 'well this place is shit anyways, I'm going to fabswingers'.
So I thought - what the hell is that, googled, joined and made some amazing new friends. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We had become tired of going to a club and not connecting with anybody we wanted to play with while there, then a friend happened to recommend Fab to us, I was a bit dubious at first but we have made some life long friends on our fab journey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To meet horny people and have a good bit of fun. Have met a lot of friends on here. Including fwb and just nice genuine decent couples and single girls. There's plenty of lovely people on here.  |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
The same reason I started swinging previously. This isn't my first time here.
After my teen years of reading porn mags, besides looking at the pretty pictures I very much enjoyed reading the letters. Usually about a husband 'sharing' his wife with others. Always turned me on more than the pics of the girls. Later in life after sending off for contact magazines I took the plunge and advertised myself. Luckily I met a single, fucked her in the woods, then I met a couple who truly introduced me. Mmfm, do, dvp, anal etc. Also what would now be called hot wifing. I saw them for eight years. From there I joined a few websites and groups. One group a couple said they were fab verified. Curious I did a search and found fab. Joined, stayed for several years, left, rejoined for a few months, left and rejoined a few months ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab was recommended to me by a female friend from the Fetish scene. I had been very involved in kink, B.D.S.M and fet play for 6 years before I joined this site!
At that time I was without a playpartner and looking for a sub!
She told me I would get a lot of interest on Fab from guys who were into kink. That was all I needed to hear and created an account that same day!
And that all led to Pandora's box being swung wide open & now I consider myself to be a swinging kinkster and not just purely a fetish player! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was married and found it helped me meet women for mainly cyber fun back in the day. This is probably my fifth profile and now divorced and single I use it out of habit, once you delete a profile it ain’t long before a curious look again happens.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We joined after a couple in a club gave us a contact card with their fab name on. We'd been on another site but hadn't heard of fab.I
Been here ten years now  |
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"Some people at the club mentioned it so thought we would take a look."
Snap exactly what happened to us. We were in Bath for the rugby went to the little club there. There was a computer there cpls kept going over and checking the site. We asked a cpl what was going on and hey presto!! |
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"To broaden my sexual horizons as to meet like minded people.
Largely this for me
When i am an old man who has led in my pencil I want to look back at my life with a large grin on my face "
‘Led’ in a pencil? Are you a writer? |
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To meet couples and single guys.
Loved the socials too.
Eventually, once you get known the party scene opens up.
Some great nights.
It was at a party a couple told us of the swinging holiday scene, GC and Cap D'Agde, both brilliant.
Without FAB we wouldn't have met anywhere near as many lovely people.
The forums are a great place to arrange your own meets, especially spur of the moment social pub meets or dogging....
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
We joined to write a thesis for Sydney University, once we’d done the club/parties/socials/sex thing & finished our work we decided to stay.
Our studies for the University have moved on to Polyamorous relationships but that work is ongoing elsewhere as they are not such a big thing on here.
S&H |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Found out about contact magazines from reading porn magazines about twenty years ago, through the contact magazines I got curious about swingers clubs and took the plunge to visit a club in Walthamstow called City Spa around Christmas 2003, on that first night in the club I had my first experience of a threesome and double penetration.
Started becoming semi regular at City Spa for and saw it change names to Club Raquel’s.
I kept attending until the club closed a few years later but in that time I heard about other clubs in the London area and looked up Paradise Spa in Dagenham and started to attend there and found out about even more clubs from people on the scene.
I’d guess I first signed up to Fabs in about 2010 with the hope of making contacts with people on the club scene and started attending other clubs in London and the south with various amounts success until around 2017 when I finally got tired and frustrated the scene which I had started to notice was not exactly that friendly or welcoming. |
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It was suggested by a Twitter friend who is on here.
Twitter has gone crap and I felt I was missing out.
Tbh I’m mostly here to enjoy the chat with likeminded people. Anything else is a welcome bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was suggested by a Twitter friend who is on here.
Twitter has gone crap and I felt I was missing out.
Tbh I’m mostly here to enjoy the chat with likeminded people. Anything else is a welcome bonus. "
Has Twitter ever been that good for making contact with swinging or people that are looking to date?
Seems like a strange choice and I’d think that dating apps like PoF would work a lot better? |
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By *irtyfuxCouple
over a year ago
Norwich NOT |
Because we are both highly sexed and believe in freedom and liberation.
To conform to be sexually faithful to one person only is difficult when attraction and connection to more persons is totally natural.
To become friends with those you connect with, are attracted to, enjoy their company in so many ways including sexually is natural.
That's not to say you have sex with all friends of course because not all share our views on sexuality and the freedom of their sexuality outside of their relationship if they have one.
Obviously we do (with rules) for the good of our own relationship, it enables us to be open, stress free with no hang ups or secrecy, it helps maintain our happiness as we become a stronger couple with a tight bond. We are not afraid to be open with our fantasies and desires, wants and experiences.
It's certainly a fun hobbie to share xx |
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We joined because Mrs is bi.
And she hasnt been wih a girl since before we got together.
Since joining we have realised finding a single female is not easy!
And finding a single female that we both fancy is even harder!
So we are now compromising and have added couples to our searches 
But we are enjoying talking to people and making contacts. |
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I joined to seek new experiences and explore the more adventurous side of living. Possibly finding a regular partner in crime to share this with, without the hassle of a full on relationship. Shame so far its been lacking. Being a single guy on here makes it harder, but I'm persevering for now, thanks to the few positive comments made by some. CV19 not helping. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To have wild sexual escapades.
To expand my perception of sexual connections
To get to meet lots of people with less conventional sexual and dating attitudes and see how similar and different they are to me.
To educate and inform myself of different ways of life
To fuck and get fucked royally without having to pretend that I’m looking for a relationship
To see how far I could push my own sexual limits in the hope of finding stuff that makes me so aroused and orgasm crazily that I may not ever have found - specifically try lots more kink, bdsm, anal and prostate play, pegging, and possibly bi play with physically hot and dirty guys who are mentally intelligent.
To get as much filth as I need to be able to commit when the right woman comes along for a relationship
To also get rid of any possible judgementality or misogyny out of my system by seeing all people for the sexually voracious things that we truly are
To make up for lost sexual time and innocence- lost virginity at 22 and had been only with a handful of partners until a few years ago
Is that lost long enough and honest enough?
OHH!!! Really really really want to go to a few sex parties - even just to observe the madness and the debauchery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to explore non-monogamy. Eventually I’d like to go to a club or party. Also fab seems to be a good place to meet bi guys, on tinder/OKCupid etc there seem to be far fewer out bi guys. |
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To broaden my sexual desires after leaving a very controlling marriage with no life.. and I have met some wonderful friends who have helped me through very tough times I don’t know where I would be without them all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To experience my inner sexuality which have suppressed a very longtime thought all taboo, but no its natural and love my journey to date "
Totally agree. Wanted to live out fantasies and explore a new lifestyle |
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By *allumUKMan
over a year ago
KingsLynn |
Well i'm currently single and like sex. So i thought that this may be a good place to find a nice lady that is also single and likes sex for either casual fun or potential relationship and go to swing parties together etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is where everyone is. Everyone being people who believe in an open minded approach to sex, the sense of adventure to explore their sexuality and the ability to trust their partner and others to shape the experiences they want to have. Fab isn't the only place to find them, but it is the biggest basket with the most eggs to choose from. |
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I joined because lots of people I met at Eureka asked "Are you on Fab?". Oddly, the same question relating to Facebook or Whatsapp hasn't had me bothering with either of them, but they don't hint at free nooky!
Plainly, judging by disappointed posters above, joining as a single man looking for bucketfuls of sex is probably a real 'no-brainer'!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Split from my fiancé and use to work with a guy that was a swinger he new I had just split with her and he sed should get ur self on fab
So joined under a mans profile for the first little bit
But then seen a lot off tv/ts/cd were on here witch I had been doing from like the age off 5-6 but sort off hide it
So pulled my mans profile down and thought let’s explore Natalie side off me
Had so much fun and stuff here I am 10 years latter still hear |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
where the world takes me |
I was experimenting sexually but not meeting the kind of people that helped me learn more about myself in a non judgemental way.
Fab helped me discover so much about my sexuality and has given me huge confidence in always being myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've experienced a few interesting sexual situations over the years, however they came about naturally, no advertising or arranged meets.
Once my marriage ended I thought I give this a try, just to see what's going on. |
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We joined because we were traveling to the UK and fab is popular in the UK. We belong to a site in the US called swinglifestyle which is popular in the states. We connected with some folks in the UK on this site but never had an opportunity to meet in person as the pandemic shut down the travel. |
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By *lfacatMan
over a year ago
Kendal |
"I naively thought I'd be banged "
I can’t believe you haven’t been inundated with offers (reckless or not!) even in the current state of things...
Well at least some folks are being sensible!
IF
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner at the time said one day about trying Swing and honestly I thought he ment swing dancing, I said ok when I realized what he meant I thought mmm not sure but went along for a social meet and well 10 years later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be truthful I got totally bored with dating sites so I joined here one hot summers night in June `18 outta boredom. It sure got rid of my boredom and I've also been extremely lucky with my Super Hot Fab meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be truthful I got totally bored with dating sites so I joined here one hot summers night in June `18 outta boredom. It sure got rid of my boredom and I've also been extremely lucky with my Super Hot Fab meets "
Why are all the stunners in Ireland? |
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"To be truthful I got totally bored with dating sites so I joined here one hot summers night in June `18 outta boredom. It sure got rid of my boredom and I've also been extremely lucky with my Super Hot Fab meets
Why are all the stunners in Ireland?"
I know, everyone I look at recently is in Ireland or miles away in Scotland!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I like many factors of being a single guy living alone
So the Hotwife scenario suits me best ....
A sexy married woman that doesn’t want commitment emotionally or financially but does want sex with a kink and no need for lies or sneaking about
Thats the theory anyway ..
Had it before
Want it again |
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By *efthandMan
over a year ago
Halton, Cheshire |
Originally it was through searching for clubs as I wanted to visit somewhere I could go and chill and get naked.
Found Fab (as a clubs review process), made it to the club's and just enjoyed the experience.
I found and then wanted Fab to be a place where I could escape the confines of day to day 'normal' life and be in contact with like minded people to look for and try new experiences.
It's opened up my knowledge and understanding around so many different aspects that I've since had the pleasure to try, explore and experience.
If you'd have said to me from when I first joined till today this is the journey you'd go on! I wouldn't have believed you.
Amazing people, wonderful experiences and is that perfect escape for me from 'day to day normality'. |
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