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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx"
That explains a lot and it's great that your relationship with hubby is so strong
I love the social side of swinging as much as the sex too |
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Yeah if anything the social side is more important than the sex for me and the main thing that brings me here. Having said that, with covid and lockdowns I'm climbing the walls horny, I need to get out there and shag a lot of guys once it's safe! Xx |
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"Yeah if anything the social side is more important than the sex for me and the main thing that brings me here. Having said that, with covid and lockdowns I'm climbing the walls horny, I need to get out there and shag a lot of guys once it's safe! Xx"
And couples, of course.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah if anything the social side is more important than the sex for me and the main thing that brings me here. Having said that, with covid and lockdowns I'm climbing the walls horny, I need to get out there and shag a lot of guys once it's safe! Xx
And couples, of course. "
And women! I'm greedy  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From what I’ve seen on here so far (and may be wrong), most attached women seem to be playing with permission, rather than secretly.
Definitely our dynamic, hubby is allowed access to everything/anything he wants to see. Strangely though, that stops him feeling like he needs to.
One of our favourite games is for me to give him my phone and pleasure him while he reads my naughty chats  |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
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I've met with a married woman once, it wasn't a sexless marriage but more her husband wouldn't let her bring another woman into the mix
We played and she explored and did amazing things with her tongue 
Came so hard I nearly cried lol x
Had lots of fun in the months after x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx"
Do you and hubby not worry that you or he might find a better connection with a new person? |
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx
Do you and hubby not worry that you or he might find a better connection with a new person? "
No, we're extremely deep rooted and secure. Plus the guys I tend to fuck are nearly always guys I wouldn't want to date. We also have a rule that if any negatively comes into our marriage then I stop seeing that person, or doing whatever I am doing.
But up until this point the worst that's happened is me getting home too late and keeping him up or waking him up. He pretty much leaves me to have a single woman's sex life however I please as he still gets plenty. So see whoever, whenever. I've had some regulars/FWBs in the past as well as a serious girlfriend and we've been fine. But the vast majority of my meets have been fuck & go or one night stands anyway which keeps things simple xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx
Do you and hubby not worry that you or he might find a better connection with a new person?
No, we're extremely deep rooted and secure. Plus the guys I tend to fuck are nearly always guys I wouldn't want to date. We also have a rule that if any negatively comes into our marriage then I stop seeing that person, or doing whatever I am doing.
But up until this point the worst that's happened is me getting home too late and keeping him up or waking him up. He pretty much leaves me to have a single woman's sex life however I please as he still gets plenty. So see whoever, whenever. I've had some regulars/FWBs in the past as well as a serious girlfriend and we've been fine. But the vast majority of my meets have been fuck & go or one night stands anyway which keeps things simple xx"
Fair enough x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"From what I’ve seen on here so far (and may be wrong), most attached women seem to be playing with permission, rather than secretly.
Definitely our dynamic, hubby is allowed access to everything/anything he wants to see. Strangely though, that stops him feeling like he needs to.
One of our favourite games is for me to give him my phone and pleasure him while he reads my naughty chats "
That's really horny does he get surprised by some of your chats you have had with others |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx
Do you and hubby not worry that you or he might find a better connection with a new person?
No, we're extremely deep rooted and secure. Plus the guys I tend to fuck are nearly always guys I wouldn't want to date. We also have a rule that if any negatively comes into our marriage then I stop seeing that person, or doing whatever I am doing.
But up until this point the worst that's happened is me getting home too late and keeping him up or waking him up. He pretty much leaves me to have a single woman's sex life however I please as he still gets plenty. So see whoever, whenever. I've had some regulars/FWBs in the past as well as a serious girlfriend and we've been fine. But the vast majority of my meets have been fuck & go or one night stands anyway which keeps things simple xx"
You have a great dynamic to your marriage by the looks of it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband is aware that I play around, and it's not because I'm unhappy with my marriage or sex life, its purely an extra for me. I enjoy meeting and getting to know new and different people, leaning about them, socialising, getting out the house, doing and seeing different things. I'm very sociable. Then clearly there is the sex, I have a very high sex drive, and each guy is a different and exciting new experience. So I love the variation and thrill of sleeping with lots of different men. But hubby is still my favourite xx
Do you and hubby not worry that you or he might find a better connection with a new person?
No, we're extremely deep rooted and secure. Plus the guys I tend to fuck are nearly always guys I wouldn't want to date. We also have a rule that if any negatively comes into our marriage then I stop seeing that person, or doing whatever I am doing.
But up until this point the worst that's happened is me getting home too late and keeping him up or waking him up. He pretty much leaves me to have a single woman's sex life however I please as he still gets plenty. So see whoever, whenever. I've had some regulars/FWBs in the past as well as a serious girlfriend and we've been fine. But the vast majority of my meets have been fuck & go or one night stands anyway which keeps things simple xx
You have a great dynamic to your marriage by the looks of it x"
Thank you. It seems to work well for us xx |
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