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over a year ago
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A give away is only a give away if the person who is looking knows what it means.
I do wonder how many people have worn them without knowing how they are viewed upon within the swinging world and been approached
Me, personally, I would not approach someone wearing one and assume anything |
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Depends where, when and type worn. Coral shell type on the beach does not mean the same as a silver FMF, or ace of spades types, worn at a bar or a club.
Id love someone to spot Jessy's and even make a comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a give away to wear a anklet
Louise"
Never assume anything. How embarrising would it be for a guy approaching a lady in the street who was just wearing it as jewellery. Better not to approach and risk a slapping  |
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I have worn them before and never knew what it represents until we joined here. I recently tried one on again and it felt different wearing it. If I was out with my family and I was approached for wearing it. It wouldn't be a good response put it that way. If I was out in the evening with D and I was approached because of it then who knows what might happen! 
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"Is it a give away to wear a anklet
Louise"
If you go to the supermarket with an anklet that says "Take me up the baking aisle" in big letters then you probably class that as a giveaway. The less obvious it is, the less of a giveaway it is. For some it doesn't mean anything anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anklets, pampas grass....believing the myths can get you into trouble
And a free ride in a police car
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Lol why would you get arrested for mistaking a costume jewellery anklet with a hotwife anklet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it specifically an ‘anklet’ that means something?
I have commented on another similar thread.
I have just ordered a ‘hotwife’ necklace to wear in public x |
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"Is it specifically an ‘anklet’ that means something?
I have commented on another similar thread.
I have just ordered a ‘hotwife’ necklace to wear in public x"
I'd like to wear you in public I mean see you wear it in public |
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over a year ago
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Seeing one in public would be such a rush. I think this is top of my list as a scenario to play out.
Don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman brave enough to wear one out and about.
Seems to take a very confident/risky woman/couple to do so |
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Most people just think it’s a piece of jewellery, nothing more.
If you go for the HW or any other kind of more obvious symbol it still probably won’t attract a wink and a smile from the more sensible swinging guys.
It’s more than likely going to attract the creepy ones that follow women around in the clubs  |
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No. Not at all.
Unless it has letters on it saying slut or hot wife.
Regular people see it and think it's an anklet.
Swingers see it and think, I wonder if she's a swinger or just a regular person wearing an anklet.
Either way, none the wiser.
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"Seeing one in public would be such a rush. I think this is top of my list as a scenario to play out.
Don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman brave enough to wear one out and about.
Seems to take a very confident/risky woman/couple to do so "
I was sat outside the local bank waiting for my mother and noticed a gorgeous young lady standing in line, who I was looking at with lust when I noticed her last leg extended with an anklet on she she extended her leg after she noticed that I was looking shame I could not have a chat |
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"Seeing one in public would be such a rush. I think this is top of my list as a scenario to play out.
Don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman brave enough to wear one out and about.
Seems to take a very confident/risky woman/couple to do so
I was sat outside the local bank waiting for my mother and noticed a gorgeous young lady standing in line, who I was looking at with lust when I noticed her last leg extended with an anklet on she she extended her leg after she noticed that I was looking shame I could not have a chat "
Just to prove my point  |
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"Most people just think it’s a piece of jewellery, nothing more.
If you go for the HW or any other kind of more obvious symbol it still probably won’t attract a wink and a smile from the more sensible swinging guys.
It’s more than likely going to attract the creepy ones that follow women around in the clubs "
Bollocks! If a woman wears a HW one out and gets noticed and spoken too, what's the problem?
It shows nothing of each others intentions, except displaying you might be available! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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A woman wears a short skirt - she's asking for it. A low cut top -she's asking for it. D*unk at a party - she's asking for it. An anklet - she's asking for it. Come on guys, cut some slack and let women wear whatever or behave however they want without making wild assumptions about their sexual proclivities. |
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In this day and age I would say no. I used to wear wear them all the time on nights out, well before I knew the meaning of them...
I dont think they are common, but common enough that people could make unjust assumptions and end up a little red in the face |
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Digressing from the anklet but ever since we've become swingers when we see a sexy couple or couples who are touchy/feely in public we always say bet there swingers! just as a joke. Does anybody else think like this? What is a giveaway besides the anklet that people are into swinging?? We know about the black rings and pineapples. |
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"Digressing from the anklet but ever since we've become swingers when we see a sexy couple or couples who are touchy/feely in public we always say bet there swingers! just as a joke. Does anybody else think like this? What is a giveaway besides the anklet that people are into swinging?? We know about the black rings and pineapples."
Black rings and pineapples, what am I missing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sat in a hospital waiting room a couple of years ago next to a lady with an ankle bracelet.
She noticed me looking and smiled and struck up a conversation in code as other people were listening.
We met for a coffee in the hospial cafe a bit later and we had a proper chat.
She said that she hardly ever got a reaction which disappointed her. We didnt meet up but it was nice to have a conversation about it. |
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"Seeing one in public would be such a rush. I think this is top of my list as a scenario to play out.
Don’t think i’ve ever seen a woman brave enough to wear one out and about.
Seems to take a very confident/risky woman/couple to do so
I was sat outside the local bank waiting for my mother and noticed a gorgeous young lady standing in line, who I was looking at with lust when I noticed her last leg extended with an anklet on she she extended her leg after she noticed that I was looking shame I could not have a chat "
Creepy creepy creepy |
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