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By *ansue35 OP Couple
over a year ago
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How many times do you go into a couples room/ orgy room.
Start playing with someone and at the end of the night you still do not know there names.!
Happened to us at La Chambre Saturday night.
Plus why is it you to play with other couples.
So go into the couples room. (we where in the room with the little lights on the roof) and a couple come in start playing but you loss the nerve to ask if they want to play and they do not ask us either yet give that knowing look!
Ian
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We usually do the same thing in either room... one of us just reaches over while we are all playing and subtley touches the others, body language etc will tell you if they are up for it or not, then just gradually start playing more and more...  |
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By *ansue35 OP Couple
over a year ago
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HI
I know what you mean, a light touch and know but the main thing was that we told by the club owner that had to ask. Really nice guy and good advice but still next.
am sure we said that before  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were in a playroom last night!
Was sure that we recognised a couple, from talking to them on here...I went over to speak to them...and had to ahem interrupt and was very glad that it was them Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never ask peoples nakms to be honest
If its someone i see semi regular in a club i may get to learn their name but i never ask someones name that im playing with
Infact ive dont private meets and gone home not knowing their name |
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"We haven't tried random stranger playing in an orgy room it still makes us nervous !"
You shouldnt, its good fun!! Try just starting out playing by yourselves and if you seem someone you fancy.... just start with a gentle touch. You may not have spoken to them before but generally everyone is really nice and respectful! |
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We are always nervous of asking incase get told No!!
Stupid isn't it, but we are a little insecure about how we look and hope by watching we get an invite!!
Sometimes we come away feeling frustrated in ourselves!
God feels like we are at a school disco…any help appreciated lol |
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"We are always nervous of asking incase get told No!!
Stupid isn't it, but we are a little insecure about how we look and hope by watching we get an invite!!
Sometimes we come away feeling frustrated in ourselves!
God feels like we are at a school disco…any help appreciated lol"
Just checked your public pictures, don't hold back next time as the bits i have seen of you look lovely |
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It's quite amusing in some ways reading this thread of how couples don't know when to join in, in an orgy room.
The same is true of many of the single guys whom go to clubs, where couples do want a guy to join in.
The guys hang off not knowing when to make a move, some go too early and spoil the occasion, others hang off and the couple leave because noone is joining in.
Mind you part of the fun is finding out who likes what, and subtle brushes on a bare arm or leg does seem to enable everyone to indicate what they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite common to nit know names - and often it really doesn't matter lol
If chatting later in the evening it's a conversation starter when you ask after playing earlier !
As for feeling uncomfortable in an orgy / couples room - most clubs have lockable rooms for privacy and open rooms such as these for the braver . This doesn't automatically mean you just jump on folk already playing , but usually a look is enough to know it's ok - that's why we play in these rooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say not really at ease with it. Sometimes watch and fancy a play but prefer home group fun where ground rules are clear and folks are hand-picked.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't ask peoples names if I'm in a big room and there's lots of play taking place. Its not really the place to start conversations.
Yes of course asking is polite but in certain scenarios instinct and body language are more powerful than conversation.
We tend to play with each other in a big room and sometimes the person near us will stroke my arm. If I don't like them I'd slightly shift out of their grasp, if not then ill stroke their arm too, its a code for 'all is ok please continue'.
I've grabbed hold of guys hands if I'm having a good time and on the point of orgasm. Its nice to just hold hands with someone, people generally don't mind. A touch doesn't always mean a sexual encounter, its a feeling of comradship with other swingers.
Generally in swinging you have to learn to read and react to body language in certain situations. |
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