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How common is the Hot Wife Fantasy?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No bi element to mine - I just love fucking beautiful women, and after a certain point most of the best ones have been snapped up...
Although most of the filthiest ones have already divorced |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"I expect the fantasy is common, unlike the reality."
The reality is common, but like everyone else they have a choice. They also prefer to meet guys that know the dynamic, not just the female partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't get it out of my head...
Has anyone ever had regrets?
Is there a bisexual element?"
The bi element has come about recently. But definitely no regrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't refer to myself as a "Hot wife"... But hubby has enjoyed knowing I'm having fun with other guy.
Not sure that makes me a hot wife or not?
I'm just a wife  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't refer to myself as a "Hot wife"... But hubby has enjoyed knowing I'm having fun with other guy.
Not sure that makes me a hot wife or not?
I'm just a wife "
Ffs with another guy* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it."
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it.
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really. "
From my experience, cuckolding doesn't come into it. Any of those I played with as a hot wife couple, humiliation was absolutely no part of it. Active encouragement from the husband and photos or other means were also encouraged as part of the play. |
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"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it.
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really.
From my experience, cuckolding doesn't come into it. Any of those I played with as a hot wife couple, humiliation was absolutely no part of it. Active encouragement from the husband and photos or other means were also encouraged as part of the play. "
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We've not pursued much in the way of our hotwifing fantasies, mainly because guys seem obsessed with humiliation/cuckold, which is nothing to do with it, for us. |
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"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it.
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really. "
Yes this is more cuckold.
R enjoys a guy joining us both and also gets enjoyment from me receiving pleasure. He also loves to receive pics and videos to show him what his filthy wife is doing while he is work. |
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Certainly not about humiliation for us either. Love that she goes out and has a proper date where she is treated like the partner of the other guy. This then leads to going home with him or a hotel where again she is treated like his. Its very very intimate and I love getting the photos, the messages and the video updates throughout the eve. Then when she gets home full of tales that I hear about in full details as I reclaim her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of people misunderstand the difference between hotwifing and cuckholding.
My hubby isn’t interested in playing himself, certainly isn’t bisexual, and would probably pull the legs off anyone who tried to humiliate him lol.
For us, he gets a huge ego boost and thrill from other people wanting me, and when we are together after I’ve been naughty the connection is out of this world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very fun fantasy to live out. We've done mfm where hubby wanted to walk in and see the guy fucking me as well as me playing on my own with a guy and coming home to hubby for reclaim sex. Definitely seems a popular fantasy for all involved. Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of people misunderstand the difference between hotwifing and cuckholding.
My hubby isn’t interested in playing himself, certainly isn’t bisexual, and would probably pull the legs off anyone who tried to humiliate him lol.
For us, he gets a huge ego boost and thrill from other people wanting me, and when we are together after I’ve been naughty the connection is out of this world."
Agreed, reclaim sex is incredible. Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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S here for me is that L can make guys desire and want her I get off on that. But 100% not intered in the humiliation side..I'm there to get involved.. frustrating getting single men messaging us as if we are a single female profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of people misunderstand the difference between hotwifing and cuckholding.
My hubby isn’t interested in playing himself, certainly isn’t bisexual, and would probably pull the legs off anyone who tried to humiliate him lol.
For us, he gets a huge ego boost and thrill from other people wanting me, and when we are together after I’ve been naughty the connection is out of this world."
Same for us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He loves the thrill of seeing me get ready and go out, or the buzz of getting a couple of naughty pics of my antics at work, and then when he takes me back... oh my  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He loves the thrill of seeing me get ready and go out, or the buzz of getting a couple of naughty pics of my antics at work, and then when he takes me back... oh my "
Yep, we seem very similar. The watchers me too, loves text updates, pics, videos, and the reclaim is just incredible! The sloppier the better xx |
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We would love a regular special friend for her. The dream would be a couple where we both have individual meets with the other partner. So not together but separate. Impossible to find though I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv had quite a few experiences with the hot wife scenario but, not my ultimate fantasy, where she is dropped off by hubby and picked back up by him but, is this hot wife or cuckhold "
This is hotwifing if there is no humiliation/degradation involved x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it.
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really. "
I think there is a difference between cuckolding that involves humiliation as the man cannot satisfy his partner, some of these men have really small willies. I'm talking about hotwifing that is the sexualization of the wife, nothing to do with humiliation. The guy gets off on knowing his partner having sex with someone else. For me there is a bi element to it as well, but for many people it just recharges the sexual energy. Maybe I've got this wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suspect, at its core, is consensual humiliation (of the male). Lots of people get off on this.
We do not involve humiliation of any kind and don't meet single guys that want it.
I don't mean overt humiliation - i.e., the calling of names or degradation. What I mean is what is at the core of the desire. For example, I often see profiles seeking BBC needed to satisfy my hotwife.
Perhaps, however, I'm thinking more of the cuckold thing.
None of this is my bag, so I'm speculating really.
I think there is a difference between cuckolding that involves humiliation as the man cannot satisfy his partner, some of these men have really small willies. I'm talking about hotwifing that is the sexualization of the wife, nothing to do with humiliation. The guy gets off on knowing his partner having sex with someone else. For me there is a bi element to it as well, but for many people it just recharges the sexual energy. Maybe I've got this wrong."
Nope you've got it right xx |
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I do enjoy it when I get the chance 
