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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated. |
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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago
Thame |
Most of the swingers clubs do events aimed at this type of play, if you attend clubs that is. Hellfire are advertising a cuckholds and Bulls night on a Wednesday. This doesnt help scratch that itch right now but when the clubs are back open for fun...  do you go to clubs much? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could try fet life. We are on this site but sadly a lot of fakes and a lot of men just wanting g to get their ends away and don't understand the dynamics of playing with a hotwife and the Bull role! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had a few spontaneous pick ups in the past
Just let yourself be chatted up
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I'm local to you in Weybridge... now just need to bump into you to chat you up! ???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most of the swingers clubs do events aimed at this type of play, if you attend clubs that is. Hellfire are advertising a cuckholds and Bulls night on a Wednesday. This doesnt help scratch that itch right now but when the clubs are back open for fun... do you go to clubs much? Xx "
Yeah been to a few...chams as a preference |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
Can I ask how you approach it? Do you search and then approach the guys you like and whose profiles appeals to you both or is it more the guys who contact you do not understand what you are both looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated.Can I ask how you approach it? Do you search and then approach the guys you like and whose profiles appeals to you both or is it more the guys who contact you do not understand what you are both looking for? "
Bit of both but we contact people into that kink yet don’t fully understand it...some of them. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated.Can I ask how you approach it? Do you search and then approach the guys you like and whose profiles appeals to you both or is it more the guys who contact you do not understand what you are both looking for?
Bit of both but we contact people into that kink yet don’t fully understand it...some of them."
It's frustrating but hopefully the guy you are hoping to meet is only a few messages away.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated.Can I ask how you approach it? Do you search and then approach the guys you like and whose profiles appeals to you both or is it more the guys who contact you do not understand what you are both looking for?
Bit of both but we contact people into that kink yet don’t fully understand it...some of them.It's frustrating but hopefully the guy you are hoping to meet is only a few messages away. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wanna be bull are so easy to spot after a few messages and then block .. the real confident and assertive guys for cuckold couples come across in a very different way easy to spot once chatting ..
i really dislike the word bull lol |
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"wanna be bull are so easy to spot after a few messages and then block .. the real confident and assertive guys for cuckold couples come across in a very different way easy to spot once chatting ..
i really dislike the word bull lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We struggle funding genuine guys who understand the scene too"
I think this is a real issue. Hotwife/Bull scenario leans much more towards kink than swinging. Understanding the dynamic is not something a normal swinger single guy knows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
Wish I was nearer to yous x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. And of course anyone who has experienced or explored kinky play understands that communication and respect of the need is vital!
Sorry to ask, in what way?"
Simply because the dynamic of being and having a Bull is an extremely powerful power exchange for the couple. The bull needs to understand this and although the bull plays the powerful role it is the power the hotwife has over her partner that is the real sexual fulfillment (from my experience) |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. And of course anyone who has experienced or explored kinky play understands that communication and respect of the need is vital!
Sorry to ask, in what way?
Simply because the dynamic of being and having a Bull is an extremely powerful power exchange for the couple. The bull needs to understand this and although the bull plays the powerful role it is the power the hotwife has over her partner that is the real sexual fulfillment (from my experience)"
Not the power of the partner/cuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. And of course anyone who has experienced or explored kinky play understands that communication and respect of the need is vital!
Sorry to ask, in what way?
Simply because the dynamic of being and having a Bull is an extremely powerful power exchange for the couple. The bull needs to understand this and although the bull plays the powerful role it is the power the hotwife has over her partner that is the real sexual fulfillment (from my experience)
Not the power of the partner/cuck?"
Yes that too! The power play across all 3 people is amazing when understood! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. And of course anyone who has experienced or explored kinky play understands that communication and respect of the need is vital!
Sorry to ask, in what way?
Simply because the dynamic of being and having a Bull is an extremely powerful power exchange for the couple. The bull needs to understand this and although the bull plays the powerful role it is the power the hotwife has over her partner that is the real sexual fulfillment (from my experience)
Not the power of the partner/cuck?
Yes that too! The power play across all 3 people is amazing when understood!"
Purely for interest, can you give mean example? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. And of course anyone who has experienced or explored kinky play understands that communication and respect of the need is vital!
Sorry to ask, in what way?
Simply because the dynamic of being and having a Bull is an extremely powerful power exchange for the couple. The bull needs to understand this and although the bull plays the powerful role it is the power the hotwife has over her partner that is the real sexual fulfillment (from my experience)
Not the power of the partner/cuck?
Yes that too! The power play across all 3 people is amazing when understood!
Purely for interest, can you give mean example?"
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Apologies, me an example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As people have said before, communication from the cuck couple is key.
I've had a range of cuckold meets, from where the cuck just watches, or is in a different room, or just goes our somewhere.
Up to the full humiliation and degradation aspects.
As there's such variation in what cuck couples may want then all parties need to be clear if the scenario and limits.
Some real 'bulls' (I'm not keen on that word either) may not be wannabes but are just showing respect before exploring the couple's interests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As people have said before, communication from the cuck couple is key.
I've had a range of cuckold meets, from where the cuck just watches, or is in a different room, or just goes our somewhere.
Up to the full humiliation and degradation aspects.
As there's such variation in what cuck couples may want then all parties need to be clear if the scenario and limits.
Some real 'bulls' (I'm not keen on that word either) may not be wannabes but are just showing respect before exploring the couple's interests. "
Well said and spot on. Licentious this is what I mean. It really is building the understanding of exactly what both parties from the couple really need from the dynamic of having a "bull". |
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Pre Covid I used to blog quite frequently. Besides being a useful way to chart my journey from my perspective as the single male. It was a great way of proving my authenticity when approached by couples. |
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"Pre Covid I used to blog quite frequently. Besides being a useful way to chart my journey from my perspective as the single male. It was a great way of proving my authenticity when approached by couples."
I have read your blog; I remember it being very informative. Thank you for doing it. |
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"Pre Covid I used to blog quite frequently. Besides being a useful way to chart my journey from my perspective as the single male. It was a great way of proving my authenticity when approached by couples.
I have read your blog; I remember it being very informative. Thank you for doing it. "
That's very kind of you thank you. I'm glad you found it useful too. |
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"Pre Covid I used to blog quite frequently. Besides being a useful way to chart my journey from my perspective as the single male. It was a great way of proving my authenticity when approached by couples.
I have read your blog; I remember it being very informative. Thank you for doing it.
That's very kind of you thank you. I'm glad you found it useful too. "
I did. It was one of the first blogs I came across that described the experience of a bull, and how a bull (you) related to couples/females. My experience wasn’t exactly the same as yours, but when I read your words I considered you to be fellow traveler in this part of the Scene. The hotwife/cuckold space may not be easy to explain to those outside it, and frankly, not sure I care to try. Just more concerned with those who say they are apart of it, not to tell others what their experience should be to be included as a bull/cuck/stag/vixen/hotwife. Let everyone define it for themselves. Sorry if I am hijacking this thread. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Some good explanations of the variety of activities and varied concept involved in cuckold type scenarios. It is so exciting for all involved once the adventure down the cuckold road develops. There are men who have an understanding of the extended pleasures that can be experienced and enjoyed all round and the mixture of emotions felt by the cuck husband by power exchange. We are all different and so there are men who have no idea of it and just want to get their rocks off but usually just have a one time meet as a result.
Persevere and you will get lucky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't found a better resource than Fab for this type of relationship/meet.
OP you are looking for men who are in a particular age demographic, quite a tight geographical area, up to 10 inches and who can accommodate. Perhaps widen those parameters and filter using conversation from that pool?
Good luck. |
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I get the scene but I find more “cuck” couples don’t I’m afraid ...... most want mmf and I’m like true cuck play isn’t about that x however there are some great couples who understand the dynamic also ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most don’t even know what they want, just want sex so say they’re anything. Then show up and don’t play up lol
I’m not saying I’m a bull by the way, I’m absolutely not. Quite the opposite lol |
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
Join me on cam when you are next online. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"I get the scene but I find more “cuck” couples don’t I’m afraid ...... most want mmf and I’m like true cuck play isn’t about that x however there are some great couples who understand the dynamic also !"
Yes I do get your point |
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"Struggling to find the right couple for this locally.
It can be hard. None of the couples I meet regularly live nearby, but time and money permitting, they are definitely worth the effort "
You're lucky. My circumstances make meets with long distance couples impractical for regular meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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was invited into this play in a club as husband wanted watch still not much experience still like respect someones wife and stuff but we chatted but more we chatted more they set me at ease but room when went in was open one next thing i know because it was a big bed side of it room was small and had other men in room wanking near my head was abit off putting wouldn't say no too give it a another go but that was off putting lol |
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By *innMan
over a year ago
edinburgh |
My desire is to find a couple that I can develop a dominance role with given we are about to go into the harshest lockdowns after Xmas.
A bubble where I can enjoy a highly sexual wife/GF whilst her cuck has to obey.
Edinburgh
Please Santa - it would be the best Xmas present |
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It can be very difficult at times but we haven’t found a better resource than fab tbf... There are other you can try and Coco’s blog above is very informative but the key is to involve all parties and discuss what you all want and would like to try.
Best of luck everyone |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"It can be very difficult at times but we haven’t found a better resource than fab tbf... There are other you can try and Coco’s blog above is very informative but the key is to involve all parties and discuss what you all want and would like to try.
Best of luck everyone "
Exactly this. I sometimes find myself spending more time on what the cuck wants and find I am having to pull myself back to ensure I focus on both of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We struggle funding genuine guys who understand the scene too"
every couple has a completely different view on what makes a bull, I hate the term bull because its putting people in a box like cuckolding does too.
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We get some many messages despite our profile clearly stating what we are looking for. Most guys ain’t got a clue what a cuck couple are looking for.
We are still looking and hoping we will find a good bull soon for her. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
We love to play as a cuckold couple and have met some lovely single guys into that style of play on fab. X |
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
Have you tried BullsRus it’s run my the same people as toysRus but with more cock cages involved |
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"wanna be bull are so easy to spot after a few messages and then block .. the real confident and assertive guys for cuckold couples come across in a very different way easy to spot once chatting ..
i really dislike the word bull lol "
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"We get some many messages despite our profile clearly stating what we are looking for. Most guys ain’t got a clue what a cuck couple are looking for.
We are still looking and hoping we will find a good bull soon for her. "
Probably because in fairness its different for everyone. "one size" does not fit all, it evolves as trust and joined experiences develop, and because there is a huge and deep gamut range, from visual and mental / emotional and physical involvement, from encouragement to ownership to humiliation. Sometimes it takes a little time to make it work and explore in the direction the couple both want to go. The label bull is very evocative but rather one dimensional for something with so many options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was going to drop you a PM guys to find that I’m blocked lol don’t ever remember chatting to you  "
People block for many reasons for example they may not like or agree with your posts on the forums. It's not just down to message exchanges. I know my forum posts will no doubt have lead to some people blocking me as their views are different to mine and that's total fine and their perogative buddy.
What's not cool though is to call them out on a forum thread highlighting and asking why your blocked.
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"I’m not supporting looking away from fab for Bulls (fab is awesome generally) but there seems to be a lot of fakes or dreamers on fab especially in this kink.
Does anyone know of any other sources to find local bulls...with experience preferably? Or even events that may return after covid?
Any help would be appreciated."
Irresistible sexy bum and curves. Ed |
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"Was going to drop you a PM guys to find that I’m blocked lol don’t ever remember chatting to you
People block for many reasons for example they may not like or agree with your posts on the forums. It's not just down to message exchanges. I know my forum posts will no doubt have lead to some people blocking me as their views are different to mine and that's total fine and their perogative buddy.
What's not cool though is to call them out on a forum thread highlighting and asking why your blocked.
KJ"
Don’t remember asking why I was blocked ?? So sorry for being uncool In your eyes I’m sure I’ll get over it .... wait already have  |
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By *tongueMan
over a year ago
wrexham |
Some clubs run events for this. Xtasias started doing things but this CV19 has been a hinderance.
Its a very odd skill set to be a bull or even the dom male in a cuck relationship. The mind set is key and a good chat with the couple to find out boundaries first as it kills the meet if you over step things.
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By *urseitCouple
over a year ago
westerham |
I am a cuck and looking for a bull to cuck me with my wife. So many time wasters and guys who do not get it. We want a guy that knows how to put a cuck in his place and treat the wife like a slut.Been in contact with one guy who we thought great lots of messages arranged to meet then went quite no contact, so annoying. |
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By *.B.FMan
over a year ago
north London |
I'm experienced with cuck couples, hot wives x key thing is listening to their desires and links and respecting it x plus all important being reliable showing up x I'm looking for regular or long term hot wife cuck couples around london and the Wales England will travel very reliable x please send message to my inbox let's start this journey together xx |
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I am rare that i have played both roles and love it. It also means i understand the dynamics but being a single male means i have been playing the bull role more lately. Being the cuck is mind blowing though and the make up sex is to die for. |
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"I am a cuck and looking for a bull to cuck me with my wife. So many time wasters and guys who do not get it. We want a guy that knows how to put a cuck in his place and treat the wife like a slut.Been in contact with one guy who we thought great lots of messages arranged to meet then went quite no contact, so annoying. "
I think the temptation is to discuss likes and dislikes before deciding to arrange a face to face.
But this does raise this issue as lots of fantasists will be very good at meeting your needs in theory, as they spend lots of time dreaming it up.
I think a quick face to face meeting to discuss preferences would be a better idea as it will quickly out those who for what ever reason can't commit to what you are looking for.
If when you meet you find that there is no chemistry or your ideas differ then at least you will have spent a pleasant afternoon have a nice chat on a topic you enjoy drinking a lovely beverage.
Nothing lost. |
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By *omis.69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I believe that a cuckold relationship is based on communication … by all three involved having an equal part. The Cuck I feel should get some pleasure ( whatever it maybe ) out of the relationship. Three people are involved and the communication between the three is pivotal.
Interesting to see the number of “user no longer on site” is high in this discussion…
Wannabe bulls do ruin it for genuine guys on here |
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"I am a cuck and looking for a bull to cuck me with my wife. So many time wasters and guys who do not get it. We want a guy that knows how to put a cuck in his place and treat the wife like a slut.Been in contact with one guy who we thought great lots of messages arranged to meet then went quite no contact, so annoying.
I think the temptation is to discuss likes and dislikes before deciding to arrange a face to face.
But this does raise this issue as lots of fantasists will be very good at meeting your needs in theory, as they spend lots of time dreaming it up.
I think a quick face to face meeting to discuss preferences would be a better idea as it will quickly out those who for what ever reason can't commit to what you are looking for.
If when you meet you find that there is no chemistry or your ideas differ then at least you will have spent a pleasant afternoon have a nice chat on a topic you enjoy drinking a lovely beverage.
Nothing lost. "
Absolutely agree... Its different for everyone. |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Communication is key 
I got invited to chat by a cuck and so many seemed to think they can just take over being the bull. Maybe get to do that eventually but it should be something everyone gets a kick out off. |
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