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There must physical attraction for us if it's for a social that we think may turn into naughtiness  but we have met up with people just for a chat a few drinks knowing there's no attraction on both ends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends
If it’s a man then it’s physical attraction as that’s just pure sexual
If it’s a woman more personally I want to get to know them beyond the bed room even if it’s just sex I still want to get to know her for her so more like a date type thing with maybe a little extra at the end
So if it happens it’s a plus if not well so be it heck at least I still had a good night out with someone
For couples if a mix off both
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By *ate_B OP Man
over a year ago
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"All depends
If it’s a man then it’s physical attraction as that’s just pure sexual
If it’s a woman more personally I want to get to know them beyond the bed room even if it’s just sex I still want to get to know her for her so more like a date type thing with maybe a little extra at the end
So if it happens it’s a plus if not well so be it heck at least I still had a good night out with someone
For couples if a mix off both
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I like the way you've put this  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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An engaging conversation that makes me want to spend time with the person and listen to them once they become a withered, husk of who they once were. If they can make me laugh it's extra quim points.
That frisson of excitement whenever I think about potentially kissing them/ receive a message from them aka fanny flutters.
A sign they are as interested in me as I am in them - I like feeling desired and because I'm narcissistic to the nth degree, it makes me desire them more. If I don't feel that, I move on.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Not "conditions" as such but with everyone I've met through the site I've just "known" they were someone I'd like to meet through a variety of means - forum interaction, getting to know them via messages, a sense of connection etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's very natural if you know what I mean? You take the 1st step and if that works: you take the next step and then the next... You should never fell rushed or obliged. Nor should you judge yourself be yourself and remember as Dr Seuss said: "Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you." |
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I’m not meeting for the foreseeable but if I was here is my list:-
A man with:-
A brain in his head, not in his dick
Own teeth
Own hair
SoH
Good personality
Handsome
Clean
Respectful
Punctual
Non smoker
Polite
Gentlemanly
Good listener
Nice teeth
Smart dresser
I could go on......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few things I look for -
Face pic
No one pushy
Hold a conversation
Somewhat intelligent
Physical attraction
Common kinks
Live nearby
There's probably far more I've forgotten  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pulse! 
Look at you Mr Fussy pants 
Doctor Fussy Pants, if you don't mind! 
I'd go lower but I don't know any clairvoyants! "
I met one a couple of years at a wedding ... if I could remember her name we could arrange a rather odd 4sum |
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