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Fuck Buddy!! why does she want to get serious
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got myself an older fuckbuddy in her late forties who likes dressing up in stockings and boots.
It was all good at first but now the cougar is getting upset if I don't go over to hers and fuck her all the time.
She gets angry with me like we are in a serious relationship, when all we started out as was fuckbuddies because I told her I was a swinger and suggested she tried it because she wasn't getting much action.
Any advice on what I can do?
Tonight is ok because I've said I was off out with the lads to watch the boxing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Older fuck buddy... Cougar... Not getting much action........"
You sound like a total dreamboat. Heartwarming. Clearly doing your bit for the elderly, good for you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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B*gger! I can't see the link on the mobile but for what it's worth, the lady has obviously developed feelings for you, despite what you've said. You need to spell it all out again to her & if she still doesn't get it, let her know you won't be round again. No need to be harsh, none of us know her & her circumstances - and YOU don't need a bunny boiler scenario....
Just my tuppence worth
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"B*gger! I can't see the link on the mobile but for what it's worth, the lady has obviously developed feelings for you, despite what you've said. You need to spell it all out again to her & if she still doesn't get it, let her know you won't be round again. No need to be harsh, none of us know her & her circumstances - and YOU don't need a bunny boiler scenario....
Just my tuppence worth
Mrs GT"
thanks at least this is real good advice  |
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"I only checked the link, you gits...."
I did too haha.
However, on a more helpful note, you really do need to sit her down and ask her where she sees this relationship as you only see this as nsa fuck buddy and she is ruining the pleasure for you by being so possessive. As another poster said, if she can't accept nsa then you will be going, never to return xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bugger i cant get the link either! 
Ive heard it said by others, that swinging with the same people all the time isnt always a good thing.
perhaps time to 'kindly' ditch and find new playmates.
sometimes its difficult keeping emotions out of this stuff! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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AM I the only 1 in here who read the Ops post and noticed it isn't about commitment?
She wants MORE sex, not a key to your place or romantic dates.
To be honest, she only has sex with the Op because she probably thinks he is the best she can get. LOL  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time to be honest with her and tell you what you want from her and what you don't want, if she does not feel the same then time to move on - fuck buddies are supposed to be just that no strings attached |
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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago
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"AM I the only 1 in here who read the Ops post and noticed it isn't about commitment?
She wants MORE sex, not a key to your place or romantic dates.
To be honest, she only has sex with the Op because she probably thinks he is the best she can get. LOL "
Maybe he can't keep 'up'  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Got myself an older fuckbuddy in her late forties who likes dressing up in stockings and boots.
It was all good at first but now the cougar is getting upset if I don't go over to hers and fuck her all the time.
She gets angry with me like we are in a serious relationship, when all we started out as was fuckbuddies because I told her I was a swinger and suggested she tried it because she wasn't getting much action.
Any advice on what I can do?
Tonight is ok because I've said I was off out with the lads to watch the boxing "
give her one of your porn movies to watch |
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