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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Personally speaking, not for me OP. I'm only interested in meeting other singles, I don't have the time or inclination to work around wives and families for someone who's already attached anyway, no chance of progression either. However, I'm sure there are lots of people who prefer to meet attached men on here. Good luck. X |
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We haven’t got any issues with meeting either married men or women,more chance of them being very descrete ,we don’t set out to meet them but we don’t ask questions in club.if having solo meets we don’t hide the fact we are married |
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it."
No married men are a no-no for me so i made that clear in my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No issues with married guys.
So long as they're happy for us to chat with their partner too  "
I'm sure she would have no issues chatting to you guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I couldn't be bothered with the potential drama.
Maybe put her username in your profile to start with."
It's no drama as be no lies been told I was told by a few not to say I was married on here but honesty is the best policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you both know each other are on here? Xx
Yes we sure do she has took herself off this for a while as her sex drive is gone a little"
So you just play separately with permission? Not an issue then xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No married or attached guy for us. Too much hassles with their times .
Don't want the drama from their jealous wives who can't keep their hubbies in check and are ready to blame others .
Have read some horrible confessions here.
A so called single guys wife found about her husband's Kik chat with a Fab cpl and she threatened to expose that cpl in public and social media ,that they are swingers.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you both know each other are on here? Xx
Yes we sure do she has took herself off this for a while as her sex drive is gone a little
So you just play separately with permission? Not an issue then xx"
Yea ah she knows I'm here as I no she is here and she dose like to have a look now and then at who I'm chatting to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No don’t meet married men playing away the implications are way to heavy"
It's not playing away when your wife is on the same site and knows what your doing or whome your doing. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"No don’t meet married men playing away the implications are way to heavy
It's not playing away when your wife is on the same site and knows what your doing or whome your doing."
Exactly, you did say this in your original post. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No married or attached guy for us. Too much hassles with their times .
Don't want the drama from their jealous wives who can't keep their hubbies in check and are ready to blame others .
Have read some horrible confessions here.
A so called single guys wife found about her husband's Kik chat with a Fab cpl and she threatened to expose that cpl in public and social media ,that they are swingers.
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Yea that defo isn't good like I have seen people on here we know and just block them if we dont get on as no need for others to talk about your business. And yea my wife knows I'm here and has no issues as she was on here her self with me knowing as she got me into this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah but just to be clear here does your wife know your on fab "
Yes my wife knows I'm on here I would not be saying im married if she didnt as I would be trying to hide it like a few others on here I say. But 1000% she knows and has no issues with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah but just to be clear here does your wife know your on fab "
And to be honest it would be less hassle if I z I was single but that's just a lie and I'd rather just be honest as I dont take my ring off so people would be able to see the white ring around my finger if I took it off for a meet |
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In our experience if you start chatting to a married guy on here it quite often leads nowhere anyway as they bottle out or disappear. Or even worse can only be available for a very short time, not what most of us are really looking for. |
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I'd only meet separately if I'd met them as a couple at their house and seen evidence that they were a real couple.
Might sound a bit much but there are plenty of couples on here that are "fab couples" whilst the people they're actually married to are clueless. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In our experience if you start chatting to a married guy on here it quite often leads nowhere anyway as they bottle out or disappear. Or even worse can only be available for a very short time, not what most of us are really looking for. "
Yea I get ya and na if I planned something it wouldn't be a hour anyway I like to enjoy myself and take some time playing so longer the better. |
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it."
I have a massive issue with people cheating and being sly.
I won’t meet male halves of couples solo- most probably cos I’ve always done this single and I wouldn’t be comfortable to swing in a relationship so therefore don’t understand how it can be attractive.
Will play in clubs with married men if their partners are also at the club x |
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it."
Interesting but both of us does not like cheating. Kama told me that if I will cheat her then that is it.
Same rules when we are meeting a single guy... BUT we have a friend who is married. We played and will be playing again after covid. And there is no issue with it.
I even asked Kama about it, how she feels with the think that guy is cheating. She said that this is his problem. We are not meeting for a love but for sex |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again."
"As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided." there's your answer. She doesn't know, therefore you are cheating. Your circumstances still don't make it OK. |
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I’d love someone to do a survey on how many of the cheaters have actually TRIED to ask their OH to swing/try something different.
Bugger it. I’m gonna do a survey to get my questions answered. - Sydney University Personified  |
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"I couldn't be bothered with the potential drama.
Maybe put her username in your profile to start with.
It's no drama as be no lies been told I was told by a few not to say I was married on here but honesty is the best policy "
Couldn’t agree more, I too am married and as you can see from our profile mrs meets socially too
This means no dramas no lies and everything above board, unlike many on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No issues with married guys.
So long as they're happy for us to chat with their partner too
Same "
This 
Although all the ones who have said they are allowed to play when asked if KJ (Mrs) can confirm that with there wife on a quick telephone they run a mile not be heard of again or until they forget about messaging us previously.
Married and cheating both male or females its a no from us.
Married with permission to play that can be verified then yes we may consider that.
I've met swinging couples who ended up in hell i.e. police, threats on social media, calls to a workplace etc all because a cheating guy lied to the couple that he was single. In fact he was married and stupid enough to leave his phone logged onto fab for his wife to find. His wife had the poor couples full address, mobile number, face pictures and naughty pictures hence the total bunny boiler nightmare that ensured. Funny enough the poor wifes venom was mostly aimed at the poor unsuspecting couple who were also lied to!
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again.
"As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided." there's your answer. She doesn't know, therefore you are cheating. Your circumstances still don't make it OK. "
Many thanks for your input. I do agree with you by the way. (So therefore, my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile? Hence the reason why most men cheat and don't tell the truth if married, it seems.)  |
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By *69meMan
over a year ago
Cambridgeshire |
I'm married - it says that I am on my profile.
I am allowed to play alone (which I have several times) and my wife has full knowledge of my meets. She is available to speak to on the phone for anyone that needs to confirm that.
I also mention our couple profile on here in my profile (and visa versa). |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again.
"As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided." there's your answer. She doesn't know, therefore you are cheating. Your circumstances still don't make it OK.
Many thanks for your input. I do agree with you by the way. (So therefore, my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile? Hence the reason why most men cheat and don't tell the truth if married, it seems.) "
"my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile" absolutely not. By doing this you are taking away the other person's right to choose whether to meet or even engage with you in the first place. I would be extremely pissed off at being lied to. |
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it."
Why not have a couples profile with pictures of you both and just state on it that the wife is not playing at the moment due to low sex drive. That way people will know you're married and your wife is aware of what you're doing. |
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I'm married, Indeed I am polyamorous with two life partners who I think of as wives, and they feel the same.
We all have absolutely no secrets, everyone has the autonomy to play with other people and there simply isn't drama because we communicate.
It honestly dismays me to hear about married people who have so much drama over sex with others. |
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"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again.
"As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided." there's your answer. She doesn't know, therefore you are cheating. Your circumstances still don't make it OK.
Many thanks for your input. I do agree with you by the way. (So therefore, my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile? Hence the reason why most men cheat and don't tell the truth if married, it seems.) "
What about the other alternatives?
Either tell her, or don't cheat.
How would you feel if the roles were reversed?? |
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Not a problem if she knows and is ok with it but the reality is nearly all partners do not know and would not be happy with it. Secondly if you lie to someone you live with then it follows on I would be lied to also for sti's etc.
There are lots of genuine honest men on here too so just easier to stick with them. |
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By *inranWoman
over a year ago
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Goodness the amount of judgement over 'wives' on this thread.
Both my hubby and I have singles profiles on here. He has had plenty on meets and ongoing things with people and there's certainly been no drama from me.
Also its not about being used when bored. Different people offer different oppurtunities and this is all good. It's not a blooming competition. We like each other having fun.
I appreciate the comments saying scheduling can be harder that is possibly true.
We don't have a couples profile as we don't play as a couple so it would be pointless. (we are both dominant and like to get our kink on, this has been the arrangement from the start, we have never been monogamous. But I am happy to talk to anyone who wants to confirm this.
I am open to different pictures of relationships and happy to play with the right married women or men whose partners know. This isn't cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i learnt from another site before fab was born a very long time ago not to meet one half of a swingers couple i met a guy with hubs as a threesome only to meet him in a club a few weeks after to find out his swinging partner knew nothing about it .. so embarrassing she was fine with me but we never saw them at the club again ..
and surely im not the only one who gets mail from male halfs of swinging couples asking to meet but keep it shush this is the reason i blocked couples i now would only play with a couple in a club..
heard many guys talk about women doing the same to male partners too so its not just a guy thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it.
No married men are a no-no for me so i made that clear in my profile. "
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As _inran says, I have a single account because my wife and I don't usually "play away" together. Even when we go to clubs we prefer to separate off and play with different people. We've never been monogamous and don't particularly hide this fact so there is no drama. Yes, I do schedule meets (in non plague times) around my commitments but I should imagine everyone is similar.
My other partner and I do occasionally enjoy playing together with others but she has absolutely no interest in fab.
So why would I have a couple's account?
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"No don’t meet married men playing away the implications are way to heavy
It's not playing away when your wife is on the same site and knows what your doing or whome your doing."
the ones that say they are single and not the ones that say wife knows but no way to confirm it |
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"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again.
"As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided." there's your answer. She doesn't know, therefore you are cheating. Your circumstances still don't make it OK.
Many thanks for your input. I do agree with you by the way. (So therefore, my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile? Hence the reason why most men cheat and don't tell the truth if married, it seems.)
"my only real opportunity is to not mention the fact that I have a partner on my profile" absolutely not. By doing this you are taking away the other person's right to choose whether to meet or even engage with you in the first place. I would be extremely pissed off at being lied to. "
This
I find it absolutely vile your basically saying your happy to lie to women to get them into bed with you.
Cheats always get caught and I’d always be 100% truthful with any partners that ask for info- happened on here before.
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"Do you both know each other are on here? Xx
Yes we sure do she has took herself off this for a while as her sex drive is gone a little"
So she's not on the site then? |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
"This
I find it absolutely vile your basically saying your happy to lie to women to get them into bed with you.
Cheats always get caught and I’d always be 100% truthful with any partners that ask for info- happened on here before.
Both partners being into it isn’t cheating- That’s just personal preference for me "
What I'm saying is that my profile contained details that said I was singlish-ish and went into a little more detail.
Since this morning when people started to say that cheaters are to be avoided at all costs and it became evident that me advertising the fact that I have a partner. It seemed to make sense to me, to not advertise the fact I was not exactly single, or married.
If you say that's wrong. It seems unhappily married men can't do right for doing wrong? |
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Nothing worse thsn
Married men shaggin other women behind ur own wives ESPECIALLY WITHOUT THEM KNOWING
For got sake
U made a vow
N u go n break it
Shows u hsve no respect to thrm
If ur on here shaggin other desperate women then why not u both b on as a couple who go shaggin others together.
Wat do u gsin from seein other women
Likewise the married women are bad enuff shaggin behind their hubbies
More like desperation
Cany u just b hsppyvwith the one person you married
N u cant ALL say
Thst ur partners have a low sex drive
N u have a big sex drive
More like a big ego on ur head
Expecting everyone to stop n just meet u for a shag
Think how the other person feels
Sat at home
Waitin for u to come home
But there u are fuckin away not givin a shit
No serious honest people on here modt of the time
Spoils it for a lot of single people
Good luck with ur so xalled discreet shaggin
ONE DAY U WILL ALL GET CAUGHT OUT
Then who will u go runnin to
I feel sorry for the innocent partners not knowon wat u lot are like on here
If its a swungers site then class urselves Swingers WITH YOUR OTHER HALVES instead of bein cheatin 2timin lyin bastards
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"This
I find it absolutely vile your basically saying your happy to lie to women to get them into bed with you.
Cheats always get caught and I’d always be 100% truthful with any partners that ask for info- happened on here before.
Both partners being into it isn’t cheating- That’s just personal preference for me
What I'm saying is that my profile contained details that said I was singlish-ish and went into a little more detail.
Since this morning when people started to say that cheaters are to be avoided at all costs and it became evident that me advertising the fact that I have a partner. It seemed to make sense to me, to not advertise the fact I was not exactly single, or married.
If you say that's wrong. It seems unhappily married men can't do right for doing wrong?"
The quote is awful “unhappily married men can’t do right for doing wrong” ... well yeah you can.
Don’t cheat or don’t be with someone your not happy with.
There’s no such thing as “single ish”. Your married, have a partner, or your single.
I can’t even believe I’m reading someone saying that.  |
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"This
I find it absolutely vile your basically saying your happy to lie to women to get them into bed with you.
Cheats always get caught and I’d always be 100% truthful with any partners that ask for info- happened on here before.
Both partners being into it isn’t cheating- That’s just personal preference for me
What I'm saying is that my profile contained details that said I was singlish-ish and went into a little more detail.
Since this morning when people started to say that cheaters are to be avoided at all costs and it became evident that me advertising the fact that I have a partner. It seemed to make sense to me, to not advertise the fact I was not exactly single, or married.
If you say that's wrong. It seems unhappily married men can't do right for doing wrong?"
Have a read of my profile text and ask yourself if you want your wife to feel that way.
It breaks people.
If she died before you could you carry her coffin on your shoulder with pride that you'd been a loyal husband or would you be consumed by guilt? |
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"Do you both know each other are on here? Xx
Yes we sure do she has took herself off this for a while as her sex drive is gone a little"
So.... she's not on here then?? Not what you said in your earlier post?? It's a big NO from me. |
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over a year ago
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"As _inran says, I have a single account because my wife and I don't usually "play away" together. Even when we go to clubs we prefer to separate off and play with different people. We've never been monogamous and don't particularly hide this fact so there is no drama. Yes, I do schedule meets (in non plague times) around my commitments but I should imagine everyone is similar.
My other partner and I do occasionally enjoy playing together with others but she has absolutely no interest in fab.
So why would I have a couple's account?
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If I had a glass of something nice, I’d raise it to you
I’m on here, my wife is on FL. We only play separately, we don’t get involved in each other’s play. If there’s ever a need for approval, it’s between us; I don’t speak to people she meets and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing worse thsn
Married men shaggin other women behind ur own wives ESPECIALLY WITHOUT THEM KNOWING
For got sake
U made a vow
N u go n break it
Shows u hsve no respect to thrm
If ur on here shaggin other desperate women then why not u both b on as a couple who go shaggin others together.
Wat do u gsin from seein other women
Likewise the married women are bad enuff shaggin behind their hubbies
More like desperation
Cany u just b hsppyvwith the one person you married
N u cant ALL say
Thst ur partners have a low sex drive
N u have a big sex drive
More like a big ego on ur head
Expecting everyone to stop n just meet u for a shag
Think how the other person feels
Sat at home
Waitin for u to come home
But there u are fuckin away not givin a shit
No serious honest people on here modt of the time
Spoils it for a lot of single people
Good luck with ur so xalled discreet shaggin
ONE DAY U WILL ALL GET CAUGHT OUT
Then who will u go runnin to
I feel sorry for the innocent partners not knowon wat u lot are like on here
If its a swungers site then class urselves Swingers WITH YOUR OTHER HALVES instead of bein cheatin 2timin lyin bastards
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This forum really grew arms and legs. We all have our opinions and may not agree with others opinions either. But everyone is different.
We all know the hidden married men are out there. Some of which slip through the cracks for even the most seasoned of people on here.
I myself am relatively new and caught a guy out on it. Conversely it was a married couple who introduced me to swinging and I gained full permission from Mrs to meet Mr with or without her anytime. This in my opinion is not cheating, whether others believe that or not is up to them. Playinf away with permission is an open relationship with rules and honest. Its not cheating if they know and allow it...
This is a lifestyle many on here embrace. Its sadly also a lie many use to hide behind and trick others. I frankly don't like being a hidden secret and would be mortified to be approached by an unsuspecting other half days, weeks, months down the line...
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"This forum really grew arms and legs. We all have our opinions and may not agree with others opinions either. But everyone is different.
We all know the hidden married men are out there. Some of which slip through the cracks for even the most seasoned of people on here.
I myself am relatively new and caught a guy out on it. Conversely it was a married couple who introduced me to swinging and I gained full permission from Mrs to meet Mr with or without her anytime. This in my opinion is not cheating, whether others believe that or not is up to them. Playinf away with permission is an open relationship with rules and honest. Its not cheating if they know and allow it...
This is a lifestyle many on here embrace. Its sadly also a lie many use to hide behind and trick others. I frankly don't like being a hidden secret and would be mortified to be approached by an unsuspecting other half days, weeks, months down the line...
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If full permission was granted..agree... game on.. no way are you cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m married but not meeting just on here for sexy fun fantasy
There-in lies the problem. To feed your fantasy, you lead people down the garden path so you're a total Time Waster?"
You don't get one of the many fantacists openly admitting it on the forum.
Sadly there are so many of them on fab who waste the time of genuine swingers looking to meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I find it absolutely vile your basically saying your happy to lie to women to get them into bed with you.
Cheats always get caught and I’d always be 100% truthful with any partners that ask for info- happened on here before.
Both partners being into it isn’t cheating- That’s just personal preference for me
What I'm saying is that my profile contained details that said I was singlish-ish and went into a little more detail.
Since this morning when people started to say that cheaters are to be avoided at all costs and it became evident that me advertising the fact that I have a partner. It seemed to make sense to me, to not advertise the fact I was not exactly single, or married.
If you say that's wrong. It seems unhappily married men can't do right for doing wrong?
The quote is awful “unhappily married men can’t do right for doing wrong” ... well yeah you can.
Don’t cheat or don’t be with someone your not happy with.
There’s no such thing as “single ish”. Your married, have a partner, or your single.
I can’t even believe I’m reading someone saying that. "
now I'm in a happy marriage never side I wasnt and she was a swinger before I got with her she got me into it. We dont have any problems with each other going off with others just the way we are and it works fine for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again."
no problems at all. I dont agree on that as it is cheating if you dont tell your wife or girlfriend but each to there own ya no. If I was you I wouldn't put any of that on your profile it's quite hard as you can see for married men to be able to be on here even with there wife knowing and not getting been called a cheat. To me cheating is going behind her back but I dont if I'm going off to someone all she says is enjoy hung shower when you get in and dont wake me up ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No problem with married guys as long as we can chat to the partner to make sure she is ok with it x"
how could you be sure it's there partner and not just a friend of theres
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it.
I have a massive issue with people cheating and being sly.
I won’t meet male halves of couples solo- most probably cos I’ve always done this single and I wouldn’t be comfortable to swing in a relationship so therefore don’t understand how it can be attractive.
Will play in clubs with married men if their partners are also at the club x "
it's not cheating if your wife knows your on here tho and she dose her own thing aswell like |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it."
Don’t mention being married in here you will get hung lol I’ve seen it before Full of people with lots of morals he will find LOL #JustSaying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I totally get why it’s a no from some people. Some guys can be real ass bags when it comes to “getting their dick wet”, but I don’t get sometimes why attached women who “have permission to play” have an issue with guys who have the same.
It’s almost like they believe women are fine to get permission.
I’m not saying this true of everyone, nor am I pointing fingers at any specific person, but just bugs me.
Anyway rant over. |
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"How do u know if a guy is married or not when u meet them
They could be lying"
Trust and/or evidence are irrelevant; once you are in possession of a Fab account, any random and unsubstantiated opinion formed can instantly be regarded as fact.
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"I totally get why it’s a no from some people. Some guys can be real ass bags when it comes to “getting their dick wet”, but I don’t get sometimes why attached women who “have permission to play” have an issue with guys who have the same.
It’s almost like they believe women are fine to get permission.
I’m not saying this true of everyone, nor am I pointing fingers at any specific person, but just bugs me.
Anyway rant over."
Because the Rules of Fab state; every thread in the Forum has the right to become a man-basher |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally get why it’s a no from some people. Some guys can be real ass bags when it comes to “getting their dick wet”, but I don’t get sometimes why attached women who “have permission to play” have an issue with guys who have the same.
It’s almost like they believe women are fine to get permission.
I’m not saying this true of everyone, nor am I pointing fingers at any specific person, but just bugs me.
Anyway rant over.
Because the Rules of Fab state; every thread in the Forum has the right to become a man-basher "
Lol that’s true! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has many ladys on here got an issue with meeting a married man who's wife is on here too. Just interested to know peoples out look on it.
Don’t mention being married in here you will get hung lol I’ve seen it before Full of people with lots of morals he will find LOL #JustSaying"
I dont get why tho like do they want me just to lie like |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Apologies but can I ask a variation on your original question please? As I do agree that cheaters/players should be avoided.
But perhaps/hoping my circumstances are different, and people's views might be different to the standard: 'Married men are off limits.'
My partner (Not wife.) is 20 years older and not in the best of health. We only live together at weekends (currently a bubble.)and the last time anything fun happened between us, was well over a decade, maybe two decades ago.
She doesn't know about me playing on the internet and I wouldn't want her to know. It would seriously hurt her badly and I would never want that. But coming to the point in my life that I want a little fun and not listening to every time I call. "I've got a bad this or that."
All views much appreciated even if people think I'm bad. Which unfortunately, I think the consensus will be. But beginning to think I should hide this, from my profile, after reading all the comments above? (Would not leave her or want to hurt her.)
Apologies for hijacking your thread. But couldn't see the point of starting such a similar thread again. no problems at all. I dont agree on that as it is cheating if you dont tell your wife or girlfriend but each to there own ya no. If I was you I wouldn't put any of that on your profile it's quite hard as you can see for married men to be able to be on here even with there wife knowing and not getting been called a cheat. To me cheating is going behind her back but I dont if I'm going off to someone all she says is enjoy hung shower when you get in and dont wake me up ha"
So you are saying he should mislead people into thinking he is single? Your situation is different, OP, your wife knows so therefore you are not cheating. His wife doesn't, so he is. Now imagine if someone who was misled into thinking he was single, slept with him and had an angry wife turning up on their doorstep because he took away their right to choose whether to meet him or not. Not a situation I would want to find myself in, hence why hiding the fact that he is married is not fair on the eople he meets. |
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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago
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Married here it’s also says on my profile!! We also have a couple profile and been on the scene for over 15 years
It’s just unfortunate that my wife’s health as deteriorated that bad she doesn’t play on the scene or even with me nowadays as she hasn’t get the strength etc to play sexually!!
I prefer to be honest even if it stops fems or cpls meeting me I hsve her 100% permission to play her words was why should I miss out on the fun due to her illnesses and disabilities!! |
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"How do u know if a guy is married or not when u meet them
They could be lying"
Ahh you can tell ... the times he messages... what media he uses.... the times he’s free to meet ... there are lots of ‘tells’ - you learn how to sniff the cheats out pretty soon. |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both. "
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ? |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ? "
Their problem not mine. |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine. "
Wow.... |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine. "
It will be if she turns up on your doorstep, you end up with nasty phone calls etc or you get cited in their divorce case because she is claiming he has committed adultery. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
Wow.... "
Yup. Beggars belief what I see on here sometimes. |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
Wow....
Yup. Beggars belief what I see on here sometimes. "
It’s just the knowledge that the bloke you are fucking has a wife at home probably kids under the illusion that her husband respects her. Where has the decency gone? How can people just not give a toss about others? This site is heart breaking sometimes - people make me sick with their disgusting selfishness. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
Wow....
Yup. Beggars belief what I see on here sometimes.
It’s just the knowledge that the bloke you are fucking has a wife at home probably kids under the illusion that her husband respects her. Where has the decency gone? How can people just not give a toss about others? This site is heart breaking sometimes - people make me sick with their disgusting selfishness. "
I don't really trust anyone claiming to be single on here anymore lol. I don't bother meeting new people anymore, just friends of friends. (obviously not at this time!) |
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"How do u know if a guy is married or not when u meet them
They could be lying
Ahh you can tell ... the times he messages... what media he uses.... the times he’s free to meet ... there are lots of ‘tells’ - you learn how to sniff the cheats out pretty soon. "
I try my best to avoid attached men .
They have to be localish and able to accommodate at their home .
I only meet at weekends to play , tho for the initial social I'm happy to meet for a coffee during lunch break .
I exchange phone numbers fairly quickly and insist on a phone call that same evening .
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I personally don't meet married/ playing behind the other half back.
If I was chatting to a couple on here and saw pictures, then met both together for a social and got the other half blessing then I would consider.
Its the innocent party that gets hurt the most, and I've experienced this. |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
Wow....
Yup. Beggars belief what I see on here sometimes.
It’s just the knowledge that the bloke you are fucking has a wife at home probably kids under the illusion that her husband respects her. Where has the decency gone? How can people just not give a toss about others? This site is heart breaking sometimes - people make me sick with their disgusting selfishness. "
If they are on here they are already cheating. So clearly not my problem.
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
It will be if she turns up on your doorstep, you end up with nasty phone calls etc or you get cited in their divorce case because she is claiming he has committed adultery. "
Only an idiot would give out their real phone number or details on a site like this. |
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
Wow....
Yup. Beggars belief what I see on here sometimes.
It’s just the knowledge that the bloke you are fucking has a wife at home probably kids under the illusion that her husband respects her. Where has the decency gone? How can people just not give a toss about others? This site is heart breaking sometimes - people make me sick with their disgusting selfishness.
If they are on here they are already cheating. So clearly not my problem.
How is it my problem? "
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
It will be if she turns up on your doorstep, you end up with nasty phone calls etc or you get cited in their divorce case because she is claiming he has committed adultery.
Only an idiot would give out their real phone number or details on a site like this. "
Or only an idiot would knowingly fuck a married man not giving a shit what havoc you’re causing. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
It will be if she turns up on your doorstep, you end up with nasty phone calls etc or you get cited in their divorce case because she is claiming he has committed adultery.
Only an idiot would give out their real phone number or details on a site like this.
Or only an idiot would knowingly fuck a married man not giving a shit what havoc you’re causing. "
I am that idot
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I only meet married men where his wife is unaware. The sort who won't go home and discuss what we did.
If I wanted to meet a couple I'd meet them both.
And the lies don’t bother you? The heartbreak ?
Their problem not mine.
It will be if she turns up on your doorstep, you end up with nasty phone calls etc or you get cited in their divorce case because she is claiming he has committed adultery.
Only an idiot would give out their real phone number or details on a site like this. "
And you think this means the wife won't find your fake phone number and use it to contact you or as proof of adultery? There's a thing called screenshots and saved messages, phone numbers etc. If he's also stupid enough to keep them. And trust me, some are. |
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