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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Anal only meets, or just anal included in a meet?
Anal only meets never.
Anal within a meet, depends how long the meet is for and what else we have planned, but at least once (assuming its all agreed and people have prepared) with either the Mrs and her strap on or the fucking machine.
Its good viewing, watching a woman fuck another one anally. |
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I guess that I would be biased. As most of my meets are with TV'S or men (when I dressed) anal is pretty much expected to happen.
With women and couples it is far less common. Maybe 1 in 10 like bum play and actual anal is rare. |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
I've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anal only meets, or just anal included in a meet?
Anal only meets never.
Anal within a meet, depends how long the meet is for and what else we have planned, but at least once (assuming its all agreed and people have prepared) with either the Mrs and her strap on or the fucking machine.
Its good viewing, watching a woman fuck another one anally."
I was asking more about anal on "general" meets. But anal only meets would clearly count too! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
You shouldn’t expect anything other than good hygiene "
That should be obvious and a sine qua non !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey"
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "
So what happens if the lady says no to anal?
Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences? |
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "
No. It isn't.
It's in your interests.
I have DP as an interest, do you think I expect that at every meet? |
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
So what happens if the lady says no to anal?
Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?"
He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
So what happens if the lady says no to anal?
Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?
He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess."
But women change their minds
They might not be up for it on a particular day |
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
So what happens if the lady says no to anal?
Do you stamp your feet and remind them it was in your preferences?
He probably wouldn't meet them in the 1st place is my guess.
But women change their minds
They might not be up for it on a particular day"
Well thats a different scenario i guess. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "
On the vino? You come across as a self entitled bloke, no one needs to be on the beers to think that. You expect anal from anyone that meets you as it's in your interests, you said that. If that's how it is for you it maybe a good idea to put that in your profile bio, preferably in capitals, may prevent a surprise sore unexpected arsehole invasion not spoken about that you feel entitled to.  |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "
Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course "
Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.
I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.
I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.
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If its done without consent its a jail sentence in the making! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.
I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.
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I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ?
Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December |
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Fairly rare on a first meet but it has happened a few times...it's happened more often with regular partners though.
My first ever experience with a swinging couple when I was 19 was also the first time I had anal sex with a woman...and that was on the first meet! |
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
Just because it is listed on your interests doesn't mean someone would assume you would expect it.
I would hope, especially given you profess to be dominant etc that you would understand the process of negotiation, but also that even within a fully negotiated scene nothing should be expected as nothing is guaranteed.
I was not going to respond but since you question my integrity as a Dom I rather reply. It’s obvious that we will have a conversation and agreement with the other party! Unless you just text and shag straight away yourself ?
Second, anyone got a dictionary and look at the definition of expected... I am not English but most of you are and still don’t know the significance and could t wait for the Ides of December "
While I am not one to base an ad hominem on someone speaking a second language... naw. First of all, "Interest" and "Preference" are very different. I and others have pointed this out to you.
"Already on the vino" is idioamtic, so I think your English is probably pretty solid. It *almost* sounds like you're trying to mask your obvious fuck-up under some kind of 60s era sitcom punchline of how non-English speakers talk.
You have "watersports" as an "Interest." Or as you would put it, a "Preference." Do you expect that on every meet? Are most of "them" into it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
On several meets have had anal on the first meet, not necessarily planned. Usually dependent on time and the ladies preference - Mark
Usually depends on how I feel on the meet, and how i feel with the guy - Nat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never do anal on a first meet - there needs to be a certain degree of trust before I am comfortable with that.
I also have stomach problems so it's one of those things that isn't always possible even if I am up for it. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I have on the rare occasion had anal sex on a first meet, it all depends on how I feel with the guy. If he's experienced and I'm turned on enough, then, you know, sometimes I can't help it. Go with the flow  |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
My meets have nearly always said no anal on the 1st meet.
But at least half of them change their mind in the throes of horn. lol
With one lady I was just teasing outside her anus with a wet finger while sucking her clit. It was only foreplay stimulation but she decided to suddenly push down on it after a few minutes. By the time she'd cum, she decided the next move was to replace the finger.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never on a first date, unless she makes it clear she wants it. That's a bonus, of course, for those of us who come here to find something different from home life. (I know you'll be shocked by that thought...) |
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Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality.
Bloke going on about it being "expected" has mixed up his PornHub and Fab accounts. No-one should expect that "ever holes a goal" and in reality, the owner of the arsehole is in charge. If they say it's shut shop, it's shut. If they are inviting in, then play on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality.
Bloke going on about it being "expected" has mixed up his PornHub and Fab accounts. No-one should expect that "ever holes a goal" and in reality, the owner of the arsehole is in charge. If they say it's shut shop, it's shut. If they are inviting in, then play on."
At last a sensible responce  |
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So far we have never had anal sex in any of our meets. It has happened outside of Fab, but so far it hasn’t been something that I felt comfortable about in a Club. I can imagine it happening in the right circumstances, but it certainly isn’t a given!  |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
Cleethorpes |
I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,
few first meets where I'd take anal   |
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"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,
few first meets where I'd take anal "
Hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? XxI've had anal once with a guy I've met via here ... It takes to much care and consideration for me to just do it randomly. "
Exactly this , douche and douche some
More  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
So far I had only one "anal only" meet, while most of my meets involved anal play of some sort (either fingering or full penetrative anal sex). I have also met ladies who were not into anal sex at all...so it's a mixed experience, to summarize. |
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"I would always prep just incase, when I used to meet as a couple with fwb he was in charge so if he thought a guy was good enough he'd let them have my arse,
few first meets where I'd take anal "
Super hot |
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Always ready because I just think you should be if your going to meet someone haha!
Never done anal only meet and I wouldn’t.
But I do love anal... i tend to look for the “rougher the better” in the bedroom kinda guys so if they can play nice I like anal and not if they are big ha x |
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no?
Blimey
Ok? Some people are already on the vino and take everything to the first degree. Soooo
It’s in my preferences so they should know about it. That’s if you read people profile of course
Totally agree! Like I said before its a deal breaker if they are against anal."
Its a deal breaker for me too, just preference I guess. It would be discussed beforehand though |
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Never had the pleasure of anal with any meet from fab beyond a little finger teasing...
And just to add that despite Anal, DP and other things being on my interests I obviously don’t expect any of them on a meet! |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
It is about something rare with a new person. It will be niceif it was half of the time. Ed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John. |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx
I think it depends on the lady you are playing with. Even if she loved anal i think it would lose its kinkyness if you did it everytime you met her. Unless it is a main kink that she insists on when you have sex. John. "
It really doesn't lose it's kinkyness no matter how often the pair of you enjoy anal |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . |
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Vaginal can be tricky enough to get in
I find anal is one of those things where the idea can be better than the reality. Its very horny. It’s VERY tight, but in quite a localised way. I wouldn’t want it every time.
That said, I aim to please.  |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal . "
Obviously not looking in the right places  |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx I am yet to find a woman that likes anal .
Obviously not looking in the right places "
This is definitely the right place lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met a few arseholes over the years,though thankfully not many.
As for anal sex,sweet only trusts myself for that,though we have enjoyed a few dp sessions with first time meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best "
And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements. |
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"Every time. Just ram it in and hope for the best
And could then have a r charge put against you. Then jail, once there big raymond will sort out your anal requirements. "
Do you know what a joke is? |
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Great thread! Thinking about my experiences has gotten me very worked up.
Personally, I would never suggest anal on a first meet, but would never turn a woman down 
There have been two occasions in my time when anal was included spontaneously, but with lots of booze. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't ever expect it but if the lady likes and wants to give it a go then I'd love it.
Either we speak of it before hand or we play in that area and see how she feels |
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"Porn kind of expects that girls do anal. If you watch any porn vid, the girl is switch holes constantly.....but hey, that's porn, that's not reality. "
Not your reality maybe. I used to do that regularly with a primary partner with no problems. It's not generally advisable however, as for a lot of women it's a guarantee of getting a UTI. |
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"We have met a few arseholes over the years,though thankfully not many.
As for anal sex,sweet only trusts myself for that,though we have enjoyed a few dp sessions with first time meets"
Thanks, makes perfect sense. |
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I had a meet 2 years back the lady put a status with postcode saying door on latch message for door number I did and sure enough she was there waiting on all fours plug in arse I took it out and fucked her arse till I exploded init pulled out put plug in and left best meet ever |
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Me first ever meet up was off another site many years ago, I was a virgin at the time and met a girl who was just my type (I can be very picky) after weeks of talking I invited her round and we fucked for hours, she then begged for anal which blew my mind and ive been hooked ever since. Maybe having anal on the night of loosing my virginity made it a solid kink for me haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on and off fab for almost 10 years now, and I would say about 90% of my meets there is anal sex. For me if the guy doesnt anal then I am unlikely to meet him. As I orgasm far more with anal. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been on and off fab for almost 10 years now, and I would say about 90% of my meets there is anal sex. For me if the guy doesnt anal then I am unlikely to meet him. As I orgasm far more with anal. x"
My mrs orgasams hard off anal. Gushes lots aldo. |
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I've done anal with people from fab about 3 or 4 different females over the years, I have never had an anal only meet and never done it on first meet.
I always feel that I am there to please the person/people I'm planning with. Provide the lady or couple are comfortable I don't push anything and go with the flow, if they are having a good time then I am enjoying myself.
But I would love to meet a lady or a couple where the lady enjoyed receiving anal as much as I enjoy giving, as it's my preference if given the choice, and a pure anal meet is at the top of my wish list  |
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"This is embarrassing, I've never done anal. And at my age too! 
Me neither.
44 and never had the chance to try anal "
In all honesty you have probably built it up in your head to be such an amazing thing that when you actually do it you will probably be like, is that it. |
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
Can we meet up to make it more often? |
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I certainly dont expect anal...but im sure its discussed through chat...if she enjoys it im game...not sure its a first time thing cause it certainly takes trust...im not a huge guy so i think i have the perfect cock for it...lol just saying |
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Most of my gloryhole meets are oral only but occasionally if a lad asks for anal in advance I’ll get myself douche and ready for some anon fun. My gloryhole has hand slots in it so feeling a strangers hands on my hips as he fucks and takes pleasure from my hole is pretty hot
I appreciate that won’t be everyone’s cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had three meets from fab and every one of them included anal on the first meet. I’ve also met two woman off tinder who did anal the first time we had sex as well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have had three meets from fab and every one of them included anal on the first meet. I’ve also met two woman off tinder who did anal the first time we had sex as well"
Oh wow, this thread is back.
Yeah, it seems that while anal is not a given expectation on all meets, it's pretty common to do it, including first meets xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you were able to meet, how often do you have anal sex on a meet with a new person? Is it something rare, something that you usually do, half the time? Xx"
If she wants it then i oblige but not really a fan of giving it tbh.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would expect anal from them. I think most do it no? "
And that quote will earn you zero meets on here. Nothing should be expected or guaranteed on here ever! |
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