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Not overly fussed about a 69
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Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.
Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.
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"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.
Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.
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I dislike it, I prefer to either concentrate on what I'm doing or relax and enjoy being pleasured  |
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Current girlfriend made it clear at the start she’s not keen on 69. Loves me to go down on her - demands it in fact a couple of times a week, especially when I’m clean shaven.
Oh yeah, she also enjoys sucking me. So, no I don’t miss 69 |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
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Can't actually remember having one, I must have at some point.
Usually prefer to concentrate on one thing at a time, but then I am a man!
Although I enjoy a BJ it's not the be all and end all. |
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I enjoy it occasionally but I think we both get more from taking our time doing one thing at a time, i find it hard to function when I’m being pleasured so it’s a half hearted attempt and he deserves more.
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"I enjoy it occasionally but I think we both get more from taking our time doing one thing at a time, i find it hard to function when I’m being pleasured so it’s a half hearted attempt and he deserves more.
Lou x "
I look forward to you sucking my cock later
Love you,
Ed x |
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"Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it  "
I think me being short is part of the issue and also being a bigger girl I don't like being on top |
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"I'm not a fan either, too uncomfortable and I can't concentrate lol xx
I never assumed that concentration was involved thought minds just went blank and rolled with it  "
it does take thought
. And I love to concentrate on what I'm doing when I suck cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah, not a fan. I'm a short girl, so find I can never get a good angle haha. I like taking turns and enjoying it
Well I'm a short arse too so it's not a good excuse and I do ok  "
Well maybe I just stop picking 6ft guys..  |
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I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69. |
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"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69. "
Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly. |
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Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing! Likewise if there's a mirrored ceiling and you can see your partner next to you also in a 69 |
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"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing! Likewise if there's a mirrored ceiling and you can see your partner next to you also in a 69 "
never managed to have an orgasm at the same time during a 69. As can not relax enough to do so |
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We love it. Admittedly the angle isnt always perfect when we are with others but together Lynn and I fit perfectly and it is very erotic and fun. She gets turned on when I am on top and can thrust into her mouth, which is her preferred 69 position but on our sides runs a close second. |
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All I can think is that you’re doing wrong. A 69 is amazing wether you’re on top or the bottom. Can’t get enough of it.
"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.
Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.
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"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!"
I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’  |
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"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.
Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly. "
And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh! |
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By *nooshWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Am I alone here in thinking that while nice for a short while or for the visual of it.. that a 69 is a bit neither here nor there for oral.
Neither party can lay back and relax and enjoy... and its not always the most comfortable position either and if there is a difference in height it can become difficult to reach properly.
Views.. thoughts "
I like to concentrate on giving or receiving, I totally agree with you. No issue with it for a little bit but not the be all and end all. And sometimes it's a challenge to get the right angle! |
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"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.
Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.
And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!"
I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not. |
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"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!
I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’ "
We've only managed simultaneous a couple of times. Last time we missed it by about 2 minutes. Very very satisfying though |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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You're not alone. It's not just the concentration aspect for me (one of us won't be able to focus at least!), it's also because a big part of the enjoyment I get from giving someone oral sex is their reaction - seeing their look on the face, hearing all those sexy moans and gasps and pants and grunts. You don't really get the full effect of their response to you if you're 69ing, you can sort of based on them stopping what they're doing or the muffled groans of pleasure but not for me. Give me a man who I can watch enjoying every little thing I'm doing to him, rather than one who is muffled by quim. |
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"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.
Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.
And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!
I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not. "
You are indeed entitled to your opinion.... not sure "few men can give oral correctly" is able to be backed up with scientific evidence though. |
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My (P) all time favourite position! Not much better than being able to tease and taste T while I'm in her mouth. The feeling whiles she's cumming and I'm deep in her mouth is indescribable |
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"I always get super turned on when giving oral so in a 69 my orgasm is very intense. Always happy to focus on the lady afterwards to ensure she is happy. Maybe the guys just get more out of a 69.
Yes they do, they get more out of receiving oral because few men can give oral correctly.
And all women are great at giving blow jobs? Seems like you've had some bad experiences but tarring every guy with the same brush is a bit harsh!
I’m allowed to have an opinion whether you like it or not.
You are indeed entitled to your opinion.... not sure "few men can give oral correctly" is able to be backed up with scientific evidence though. "
As I said previously which I will remind you of, I am allowed to have an opinion and it’s from my experience and I have the evidence to back it up. Enjoy the rest of your evening. |
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"Surprised some don't like 69s! Giving and receiving at the same time To have simultaneous orgasms is amazing!
I can’t remember ever having a simultaneous orgasm through a 69, or to be fair, actually cumming myself this way, as I rarely cum through oral, but I’ve definitely taken women to orgasm while in 69. It’s a great way to play, and build the excitement before ‘the main event’
We've only managed simultaneous a couple of times. Last time we missed it by about 2 minutes. Very very satisfying though "
Sounds fantastic, and glad you both enjoyed! I think my issue is I just love fucking a pussy right after she’s had an orgasm (ie, from my tongue), and either I haven’t met enough women determined to give me oral pleasure to completion, or I just don’t have the ‘hair trigger’ many men appear to have  |
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