"Advice on how to get over nerves mrs is sex mad but nervous"
Don’t rush your first meet, and make sure you click fully. Set your own ground rules and make sure your partner/s who join you also know them. Your relationship comes before you do! Happy Fabbing |
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Chat for a while, enjoy the relaxed side, meet socially (when we're allowed) with no promises of taking anything further.
If there's a connection or an attraction then you'll both know.
If there isn't just walk away after a pleasent time.
If you choose to take it further then hopefully you'll be more relaxed by this point |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I so want to do it but scared I'll freeze hubby's helps but still scared"
Take it slowly, best place to start, for us, was a club, your pace.
Find a girlfriend who has knowledge of the scene and laugh, it’s fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven’t joined the forum before and it’s v interesting we are a couple that really wants to take the next step although our ultimate fantasy is a private threesome with another man we had set on going to a club first as felt it would be easier to test the water and see if it was for us? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"How do most couples dress in a club is going commando the done thing"
The clubs in Leeds are both dress down, which means the play area’s are sensually dress (lingerie/boxes or commando). The bar area (both are BYO)) you can remain fully dressed, however the play rooms do spill into the bar.
Your imagination could be your stumbling block, there is no need to “perform”, however there is a tremendous amount of sexual tension and fun.
Equally, if you are not doing it for yourself, walk away.
Meeting people face to face will help.
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Slightly different for me being a single guy but was nervous, went to a naturist spa during the day for the first time, was quiet which suited me. Got chatting to the regulars and escalated from there. Now quite experienced. Just go at your own pace and don’t feel rushed to do anything. By the way you look gorgeous. Jim x x |
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I think once you realise that you're in control of the situation you feel less nervous. You can refuse anything you don't want to do and there really is no right way to do this. Proceed at the pace you want, explain to anyone you're thinking of meeting that you're nervous and there are no guarantees.
We were all new to this once and I think most of us were nervous at first.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Advice on how to get over nerves mrs is sex mad but nervous"
Find someone who puts you at ease over the messages, if you feel there’s a connection and think there would be in person, meet them for a social, few drinks and pub/bar and take it from there!
After the initial meet I’m sure the worries will disappear |
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"Advice on how to get over nerves mrs is sex mad but nervous"
You could quell most of your worries in one move.
We were nervous newbies and also didn't know how clubs worked so we arranged a social meet with a couple on Fab in a club.
It was understood by all that it was just a social so no anxiety to perform.
They were experienced clubbers and "held our hands" and gave us a guided tour. Oddly enough it was in Pandora's in your part of the world. Like many other clubs you can stay in the bar full clothed or if you want to have a wander round the play rooms, dress from naked to sexy lingerie to wrapped in a towel. Again there is no expectation to perform, it's all up to you.
Enjoy
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"Haven’t joined the forum before and it’s v interesting we are a couple that really wants to take the next step although our ultimate fantasy is a private threesome with another man we had set on going to a club first as felt it would be easier to test the water and see if it was for us?"
That's are thoughts on starting. A club would give us a clearer view if this is for us, plus it'd be less pressure. |
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