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I’ve wanted to have a threesome with two women for as long as I’ve been interested in sex, like most men I suppose ??.
I’m yet to do anything on the swinging scene, as a single man on here how do I get lucky enough to carry out my ultimate fantasy with two ladies? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I’ve wanted to have a threesome with two women for as long as I’ve been interested in sex, like most men I suppose ??.
I’m yet to do anything on the swinging scene, as a single man on here how do I get lucky enough to carry out my ultimate fantasy with two ladies?"
Have you written a letter to Santa, asking for this yet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are you friend, when and if they reopen. I’ve had numerous threesomes at clubs, outside of clubs they’ve been with ladies I meet separately then I’ve suggested we meet up as a three. To be honest, I preferred one on one!
But in current climate as Tina says, a letter to Santa is your best hope |
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A lot of guys moan on here getting one lady to meet is almost impossible, so two who are both available at the same time and close to where you live (or where they live) is really difficult in my opinion.
Better bet in a club or meeting them at a social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve wanted to have a threesome with two women for as long as I’ve been interested in sex, like most men I suppose ??.
I’m yet to do anything on the swinging scene, as a single man on here how do I get lucky enough to carry out my ultimate fantasy with two ladies?
Have you written a letter to Santa, asking for this yet? "
I thought u had to write it to a couple haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had the pleasure of doing this twice!
First time the couple had posted a status on here which I messaged about, spoke to them for a while and then after building some chemistry was asked to meet
Second time was in a club, I approached them near the bar seating area, got chatting and then when it was time to head upstairs and play, they invited me to join 
I think you just have to stand out when you are approached and be respectful when approaching, if things click then something may come of it and if it doesn’t click, then leave it |
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"A lot of guys moan on here getting one lady to meet is almost impossible, so two who are both available at the same time and close to where you live (or where they live) is really difficult in my opinion.
Better bet in a club or meeting them at a social "
And who also fancy each other and want to meet him together. |
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One thing you shouldn’t do, because we get it all the time, is ask a bi woman if she “has any friends” (wink wink). I’ve lost count of the number of men who’ve asked me that, usually before we’ve even had a social. It would take a pretty special man for me to say to a friend “would you like to meet this guy with me”. |
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"A lot of guys moan on here getting one lady to meet is almost impossible, so two who are both available at the same time and close to where you live (or where they live) is really difficult in my opinion.
Better bet in a club or meeting them at a social
And who also fancy each other and want to meet him together."
Excellent point that also would be a factor |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am quite lucky to have had quite a few FFM threesomes.
There are a few ways my friend
Have a bi sexual play mate. Never bang on about FFM, just spol the hell out of her sexually, she will return the play I promise you that.
Also go to clubs and network an socialise. Just makes loads of friends with no agenda. A lot of threesome and group play is just friends having a laugh and falling ass over cock into a room. Next thing you know you have to ladies on you!!
Give give give, you get loads in return
God speed my friend |
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You mean with a mankini like that, women haven't been throwing themselves at you?
Here is how it has happened for me (Luke) in the past and how we think it will happen for us in the future.
We do not prioritise our sexual fantasies. If we like somebody, we'll make an effort to get to know them. Every now and again we find a person or a couple we get on really well with. In this community, once you have established connections like that, doors open by themselves.
If we have some banter with somebody we like but they are not interested in us sexually, we really don't care at all. It's not a disappointment. We know lots of people who (as far as we know) don't want to have sex with us. That's normal. Does that mean knowing them isn't worthwhile? Obviously not. If we only wanted to be friends with people who wanted to have sex with us, we would have virtually no friends at all.
So prioritise making friends with people. Don't have an agenda. They are not there to help you get your end away or fulfill your fantasies. You are not a charity. Most people want to be treated as people, not sex objects.
Make enough friends and one day something might just click and something amazing happens, especially with this pervy lot on here. But nobody is going to want to spend time with you, let alone have sex with you or with you and a friend, if they don't like you.
Don't approach people talking about sex and what you want to do. Just be cool and make friends. Be happy with that. Show them you like them for who they are, not what you can get out of them. That's what I have always done, and it leads to things. We have had invitations to meet women whose profile says they aren't interested in couples, but they are interested to meet us. Why? Because they feel comfortable with us. Because they don't sense us having an agenda. Because they can tell that if they don't want to jump into bed with us, we're still pleased to know them.
I think there are a lot of Fabbers who could benefit from learning that lesson. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"You mean with a mankini like that, women haven't been throwing themselves at you?
Here is how it has happened for me (Luke) in the past and how we think it will happen for us in the future.
We do not prioritise our sexual fantasies. If we like somebody, we'll make an effort to get to know them. Every now and again we find a person or a couple we get on really well with. In this community, once you have established connections like that, doors open by themselves.
If we have some banter with somebody we like but they are not interested in us sexually, we really don't care at all. It's not a disappointment. We know lots of people who (as far as we know) don't want to have sex with us. That's normal. Does that mean knowing them isn't worthwhile? Obviously not. If we only wanted to be friends with people who wanted to have sex with us, we would have virtually no friends at all.
So prioritise making friends with people. Don't have an agenda. They are not there to help you get your end away or fulfill your fantasies. You are not a charity. Most people want to be treated as people, not sex objects.
Make enough friends and one day something might just click and something amazing happens, especially with this pervy lot on here. But nobody is going to want to spend time with you, let alone have sex with you or with you and a friend, if they don't like you.
Don't approach people talking about sex and what you want to do. Just be cool and make friends. Be happy with that. Show them you like them for who they are, not what you can get out of them. That's what I have always done, and it leads to things. We have had invitations to meet women whose profile says they aren't interested in couples, but they are interested to meet us. Why? Because they feel comfortable with us. Because they don't sense us having an agenda. Because they can tell that if they don't want to jump into bed with us, we're still pleased to know them.
I think there are a lot of Fabbers who could benefit from learning that lesson. "
Or go to a club. |
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"I am quite lucky to have had quite a few FFM threesomes.
There are a few ways my friend
Have a bi sexual play mate. Never bang on about FFM, just spol the hell out of her sexually, she will return the play I promise you that.
Also go to clubs and network an socialise. Just makes loads of friends with no agenda. A lot of threesome and group play is just friends having a laugh and falling ass over cock into a room. Next thing you know you have to ladies on you!!
Give give give, you get loads in return
God speed my friend"
Good advice. Thought it was the thing of fantasies but after making a few friends I have had the pleasure of ffm and fmf a few times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve wanted to have a threesome with two women for as long as I’ve been interested in sex, like most men I suppose ??.
I’m yet to do anything on the swinging scene, as a single man on here how do I get lucky enough to carry out my ultimate fantasy with two ladies?"
Clubs. Definitely absolutely clubs. I had my first ffm 3 sum and fffm 4sum in club. Probably no other way that would have happened easily.
Best nights of my life lol |
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Tabitha xx
That can work too. 
You will be lucky to get a woman