interest

By *cottish..1234 OP Man over a year ago

annan

what intrigues people to each other to decide to meet after all the first message is hard to send to try to find a connection

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually turned on by the others pictures

By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan over a year ago

reading

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan over a year ago

reading

make your first message relevant and interesting to them will be a decent start don't you think.

Actually reading the profile and picking up on shared interest perhaps.

questions like have you tried this or that, what do tou feel about doing it this way. ..

Invite exchange of ideas...

By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

First message should be not only interesting but catchy and maybe little humour same as if you have approached them in person just be yourself.

By *addyBabygirl2020Couple over a year ago

norwich

for us a first message doenst have to be long, simple, forward but not pushy and seedy.

But if the guy doesnt have the right look that's as far as it will go.

Photos are a must.