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"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,
She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one  "
Never felt the need - alcohol impairs your judgement reduces your ability to consent and makes you more vulnerable. |
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If it helps maybe but it’s wise not to. As long you are not paraplegic at the meeting lol!
I had play with two who liked to do it while d*unk but it was more for a kinky kind of play which I can’t say it on here |
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I very rarely get a chance to have a drink so I treat a meet like a social night, and enjoy a glass of wine while we chat.
Husband drinks maybe 4 times a year so tends to stay sober, so I don't mind having a drink or maybe two, because I know I'll be safe. Meeting on my own though I tend to stick to a small over an hour or so |
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Drink
"it provokes the desire but it takes away the performance
More alcohol means less aware
Less aware means less consent.
D*unk means NO consent.
A fine line to assess. Best way is to consider
Can't legally drive through drink? shouldn't be doing anything else with a stranger...  |
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I won’t play with anyone who is under the influence, I can understand one or two. But if they are a little tipsy then it’s a no from me.
Understand that everyone is different but it’s one of my lines in the sand |
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Drink actually lowers my sex drive, really can’t finish if I’m having sex with someone. Admittedly that’s great for my partner but often leaves me fairly flustered afterwards. Although next morning I’m really randy 
On a serious note, I won’t entertain anyone who turned up full of the drink  |
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Sometimes its nice to have few drinks and just see how it goes
Especially if its a social, just have a good time you know, can always meet for a play again sometime |
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"at quest in Leeds my mrs would do 2 bottles of wine before play
each to their own but it suited us"
Jeezus! I wouldn't be able to stand let alone fuck after 2 bottles of plonk  
Lu |
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over a year ago
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A social drink in a club but I'm normally driving.
I always offer alcohol to guests at home but very few take it. Not sure if I attract tee total couples, or if they are terrified of being slipped something! |
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"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,
She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one "
Dunno, but the need for a stiff drink doesn't sound entirely consistent with the professed enthusiasm? |
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Legally if you are too d*unk you cannot consent as you are impaired!
I will only drink if I am with my dom or a trusted friend but even then only a couple as I want to keep a clear head and stay safe |
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That's how we usually meet ,but the last meet she had a couple of large vodkas,I was just thinking now ,what do other men think would they be put off by someone who's about more than merry,not legless |
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I don't like to play with or around people that have been drinking...the only exception being having a couple over the course of a social evening/dinner with a trusted friend. It's one of the main reasons why I'm not keen on clubs (or at least the ones that I've been to), too many people that have been drinking. |
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"She's always with me on meets ,I just wondered how many women on here take a drink before or during a meet"
I male don’t drink but wife do and she allways has a drink before a meet to help with nerves  |
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"How many women on here,take a drink or 3,of the hard stuff before a meet,Louise my other half on our last meet said she wanted a drink before hand,me not knowing they were a couple of large vodkas,and this is before we were meeting a friend we knew not a complete stranger,
She loves meeting different men,as she puts it fab is like a sweet shop for a kid,so many to choose ,but which one "
I don’t drink and don’t meet apart from in a social capacity but my wife likes a couple of glasses of red beforehand and any more than that is dangerous territory for the chap we are meeting.
Once in Hong Kong after a meal and a few drinks she wanted to take on half of the American Navy that were ashore at the time bless her.
Shy church mouse sober and devil slut d*unk.
T |
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