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Do we need to lighten up???
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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
a block away from heaven |
Hi all,
I have been speaking to a few ex members of fab on another site, and am quite disappointed that some have left. They are genuine people with nice attributes and are proving elsewhere that they have a lot to offer the lifestyle.
Some have said that they dislike some of the conflict on forums. I myself like to speak my mind and offer my opinion on various topics. It is the thing that I enjoy most about the site. I like reading what people have to say, but then question myself. Am I right to say that another persons opinion, likes or dislikes are wrong? This lifestyle is exciting to me as I think the rule book goes out of the window (to a certain extent). However, should I say that someone who likes to conduct their fun in a different way to mine mean that I should put the person down in an open forum if their opinion differs to mine?
Some people enjoy bareback, unprotected sex and have many verifications on their profiles, meaning that there are people who enjoy the same. Is it fair to cut the person down regarding their choice and express my thoughts on their choice or is it better to just roll my eyes and pass on by?
I only ask as I have recently read a post where the OP had a lot of smiley faces and lol's in his post. I interperated this as a light hearted subject, yet some of the posters later on really cut the person down, some even calling the OP names. Is this the same behaviour that scares some away froim the site, and have you ever felt wary of commenting because of this? |
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"Hi all,
I have been speaking to a few ex members of fab on another site, and am quite disappointed that some have left. They are genuine people with nice attributes and are proving elsewhere that they have a lot to offer the lifestyle.
Some have said that they dislike some of the conflict on forums. I myself like to speak my mind and offer my opinion on various topics. It is the thing that I enjoy most about the site. I like reading what people have to say, but then question myself. Am I right to say that another persons opinion, likes or dislikes are wrong? This lifestyle is exciting to me as I think the rule book goes out of the window (to a certain extent). However, should I say that someone who likes to conduct their fun in a different way to mine mean that I should put the person down in an open forum if their opinion differs to mine?
Some people enjoy bareback, unprotected sex and have many verifications on their profiles, meaning that there are people who enjoy the same. Is it fair to cut the person down regarding their choice and express my thoughts on their choice or is it better to just roll my eyes and pass on by?
I only ask as I have recently read a post where the OP had a lot of smiley faces and lol's in his post. I interperated this as a light hearted subject, yet some of the posters later on really cut the person down, some even calling the OP names. Is this the same behaviour that scares some away froim the site, and have you ever felt wary of commenting because of this? "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
Sorry mate but this comes round every few days and threads like this only serve to end up rowing / name calling and a licence to slag off other users.
The best thing to do for everyone is check out the summary that Admin posted on the top of the forum rules...report any posts that you think have broken ruls and ignore anyone that piss you off...as Admin ask.
Oh and have fun while doing all the above  |
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