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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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They probably just want to do something totally different on their days off.
Like have sex with people they actually find attractive and who will at least try and give them a good time too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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Dangerous ground my friend! Expect the wrath of those who have duality! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?"
Do the drive a prius or a veyron?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what they do for a living and what they do for fun are totally separate
meet them for free on here or go AW to pay your choice  "
aaahhgg but what if they cross over..
now its not me before anyone says anything, but a friend i know, who avails himself on occasion with our lady sex workers, usually due to not getting any meets on here, arranged a meet with a lady on a swingers site, not this one i add, not realising that he had seen her about 4 weeks prior as an escort. pics looked different and address wa different
when they met she said she wouldnt play for free as he was one of her 'paying clients'.
what i would ask is, if he had met her first as a swinger for free, would she have offered a free service if he then met her later as an escort???
interesting point dont you think.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?"
i would politely decline.... if i accomm i woudl expect a visitor to pay their own travel. i would never ask someone to pay for mine if i visit them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say alot of these girls are on here hoping to get men to pay for their services when meeting, its just they wont declare that until you request a meeting, stay clear and meet the ones who do it for enjoyment like the majority on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
Dangerous ground my friend! Expect the wrath of those who have duality!"
no point directing their wrath at me, i only posed a question. As i say have neither positive nor negative opinion on it.
just interested in others opinions.
stimulating debate on a slow day.... |
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"what they do for a living and what they do for fun are totally separate
meet them for free on here or go AW to pay your choice "
exactly.
what people do for work is non of my business.
if they are on here, and we are all attracted, then we meet, and maybe play.
i find people that work in slaughter houses a little horrible (having delivered to them, and hearing the screams of the animals as they are killed haunts my waking moments, well, when i think about it anyway, before i tuck into a nice lamb cutlet lol)
but its a job, and everyone earns money in different ways.
fuck it, each to their own.
would hope that someone that is having sex as a job AND as a hobby would be bloody good at it though lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say alot of these girls are on here hoping to get men to pay for their services when meeting, its just they wont declare that until you request a meeting, stay clear and meet the ones who do it for enjoyment like the majority on here."
i do that and there are some on here that both meet for free and also advertise for money elsewhere. i have met people on here for free and i know they advertise and charge elsewhere.
and i have had women ask me for payment on here once i have got chatting. the profiles are usually too ridulous to be true and disappear very quickly for another one to pop up. we can all le those ones out
but there are people who genuinely meet for free on here and also meet for money.
just interested to know how they seperate the two..
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if they are playing on here for pleasure rather than financial gain... all good
if they ask for money, report them.
that being said, some are very, very subtle in their approach and often first contact happens here then it progresses off site text, msn or f2f.
or camouflaged under the titles of gifts, services, contributions etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what they do for a living and what they do for fun are totally separate
meet them for free on here or go AW to pay your choice
aaahhgg but what if they cross over..
now its not me before anyone says anything, but a friend i know, who avails himself on occasion with our lady sex workers, usually due to not getting any meets on here, arranged a meet with a lady on a swingers site, not this one i add, not realising that he had seen her about 4 weeks prior as an escort. pics looked different and address wa different
when they met she said she wouldnt play for free as he was one of her 'paying clients'.
what i would ask is, if he had met her first as a swinger for free, would she have offered a free service if he then met her later as an escort???
interesting point dont you think.."
pretty simple.
report, only through mail proof.
I'd say..most women would that state they arent 'for hire' but still get the desperate offers from men willing to pay without even knowing if they are escorting or not...
escorts etc can start a new profile anytime...much as those who are arseholes to others do frequently.
a blank female profile receives instant mail...that tells u something
I've nothing against any of it, I'm always skint anyway and even if I wasnt...my backbones more important than my front bone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The ones that always make me chuckle are the single guys advertising a hotel gangbang with a female 'FB' - and ask for contributions for the accommodation - say £20 each, looking for a dozen guys!
In a travelodge?? What did they do? Book the whole sodding hotel? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?"
Asking for expenses / money etc isn't allowed. Report the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if they are playing on here for pleasure rather than financial gain... all good
if they ask for money, report them.
that being said, some are very, very subtle in their approach and often first contact happens here then it progresses off site text, msn or f2f.
or camouflaged under the titles of gifts, services, contributions etc etc.
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now that is a different thing because if they use the site to find clients for paid services its against site rules.
i am on about people who play for free on here and play for money elsewhere.
it does sometimes cross over as many guys on here also see escorts that are members of Fab.
i never mix my business with my swinging lifestyle, but in those cases they are very much linked.
as i said i am not knocking anyone, they are free to do what they wish, just stimulating debate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ones that always make me chuckle are the single guys advertising a hotel gangbang with a female 'FB' - and ask for contributions for the accommodation - say £20 each, looking for a dozen guys!
In a travelodge?? What did they do? Book the whole sodding hotel? "
Some openly advertise parties on FAB with contributions to costs! Seems like a money making scam to me? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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Tbh, if Escorts who use this site come along to let people know they are escorts then it will look like advertising. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The ones that always make me chuckle are the single guys advertising a hotel gangbang with a female 'FB' - and ask for contributions for the accommodation - say £20 each, looking for a dozen guys!
In a travelodge?? What did they do? Book the whole sodding hotel? Some openly advertise parties on FAB with contributions to costs! Seems like a money making scam to me?"
report them for breach of site rules.
they are not the ones that this thread is about. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"if they are playing on here for pleasure rather than financial gain... all good
if they ask for money, report them.
that being said, some are very, very subtle in their approach and often first contact happens here then it progresses off site text, msn or f2f.
or camouflaged under the titles of gifts, services, contributions etc etc.
now that is a different thing because if they use the site to find clients for paid services its against site rules.
i am on about people who play for free on here and play for money elsewhere.
it does sometimes cross over as many guys on here also see escorts that are members of Fab.
i never mix my business with my swinging lifestyle, but in those cases they are very much linked.
as i said i am not knocking anyone, they are free to do what they wish, just stimulating debate."
not always, I have never used an escort but I have met someone on a swingers site at a social who I gave my mobile number to and I received a text asking if I want to go to a hotel in Glasgow for £100. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
Tbh, if Escorts who use this site come along to let people know they are escorts then it will look like advertising."
The OP is about people who genuinely swing for free on FAB yet escort elsewhere.
i have met people on here with no mention of money, yet i have found out later that they also escort elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if they are playing on here for pleasure rather than financial gain... all good
if they ask for money, report them.
that being said, some are very, very subtle in their approach and often first contact happens here then it progresses off site text, msn or f2f.
or camouflaged under the titles of gifts, services, contributions etc etc.
now that is a different thing because if they use the site to find clients for paid services its against site rules.
i am on about people who play for free on here and play for money elsewhere.
it does sometimes cross over as many guys on here also see escorts that are members of Fab.
i never mix my business with my swinging lifestyle, but in those cases they are very much linked.
as i said i am not knocking anyone, they are free to do what they wish, just stimulating debate.
not always, I have never used an escort but I have met someone on a swingers site at a social who I gave my mobile number to and I received a text asking if I want to go to a hotel in Glasgow for £100."
then you learn and move on if it doesnt interest you.
i saw a girl off another site before joining fab and money was never mentioned once. Yet i knew she escorted as she had adverts on many escort pages. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"if they are playing on here for pleasure rather than financial gain... all good
if they ask for money, report them.
that being said, some are very, very subtle in their approach and often first contact happens here then it progresses off site text, msn or f2f.
or camouflaged under the titles of gifts, services, contributions etc etc.
now that is a different thing because if they use the site to find clients for paid services its against site rules.
i am on about people who play for free on here and play for money elsewhere.
it does sometimes cross over as many guys on here also see escorts that are members of Fab.
i never mix my business with my swinging lifestyle, but in those cases they are very much linked.
as i said i am not knocking anyone, they are free to do what they wish, just stimulating debate.
not always, I have never used an escort but I have met someone on a swingers site at a social who I gave my mobile number to and I received a text asking if I want to go to a hotel in Glasgow for £100.
then you learn and move on if it doesnt interest you.
i saw a girl off another site before joining fab and money was never mentioned once. Yet i knew she escorted as she had adverts on many escort pages."
I did move on, I just tried to answer your OP  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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The OP is about people who genuinely swing for free on FAB yet escort elsewhere.
i have met people on here with no mention of money, yet i have found out later that they also escort elsewhere."
I know, and why I answered how I did. |
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Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned."
i agree entirely advertising on fab is against site rules.
but as said in previous posts, i know people who escort and they are also members of fab and other swinging sites and no mention of money takes place and they swing for free. They dont use the site to advertise for business but the both swing and escort and keep each activity to different websites.
The OP posed the question as how they seperate the two activites?
and also for the opinions of members of those who do both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned."
yeahh, I'm starting to get the feeling its cold and functional too...luckily my RobOwhore3000 does exactly what i tell her..or him to do...suck my dick robobitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what they do for a living and what they do for fun are totally separate
meet them for free on here or go AW to pay your choice "
This is precisely my _iews....I know plenty of ladies that do both... And fab is there fun and other things there is the other sites.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned."
To be fair it shows how little you know on this.... I think you would find little difference between paid sex and swinging sex.. even more so if they are paying for the girl friend experience...
Can't see how its degrading either... I will happily pay for a girl for master and know that we can get exactly the girl we want. No hassles. No strings and for that time she will be all we want of her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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My first time in a club the woman I went with met a friend who was an escort in the club.
I later went on a (fucking fantastic) meet with another girl who was upfront about the fact that she was an escort.
It bothers me not a jot. What they do for a living is their profesion. They enjoy it (even though they get the occasional no show etc). Swinging is different to working, but they are still empowered in the work place, they do get a choice to do things or meet people........
We meet people on here cos we fancy em (and yes, even as a single guy, I exercise discresion, if I don't fancy some one, I won't mail them). |
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?
Asking for expenses / money etc isn't allowed. Report the profile."
I totall agree so, slightly off topic but in a similar vein, why then is it ok for organised meets to request 'contributions' without fear of reprisal?
Gangbang organisers, for example purposes only I'm not singling them out, almost consistently ask for money to 'gain access' (for want of a better phrase). Is that not expecting cash for service in the same way as an escort?
Something that has always been roling around in my head so figured I'd hijack and ask. |
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"The ones that always make me chuckle are the single guys advertising a hotel gangbang with a female 'FB' - and ask for contributions for the accommodation - say £20 each, looking for a dozen guys!
In a travelodge?? What did they do? Book the whole sodding hotel?
Some openly advertise parties on FAB with contributions to costs! Seems like a money making scam to me?"
Not necessarily - we booked a hotel last year (not Travelodge) for some fun and asked for £10 contribution from attendees - we didn't cover our costs (room, condoms, alcohol and soft drinks, etc) They're not always a money making scam
Back to the OP - as long as they're not advertising in any way on here then fair enough - I know people who do it both for money and for fun. Entirely up to them. No idea how they choose - haven't got the guts to ask that question! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Simple answer to how they choose..... Depends which site they get contacted via.
Some will have different criteria for swing meets and paid meets... But in essence I'd say most choose in similar ways... One is work.. one isn't..
Difference is if its work they get paid and can kick them out when time is up.
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?
Asking for expenses / money etc isn't allowed. Report the profile.
I totall agree so, slightly off topic but in a similar vein, why then is it ok for organised meets to request 'contributions' without fear of reprisal?
Gangbang organisers, for example purposes only I'm not singling them out, almost consistently ask for money to 'gain access' (for want of a better phrase). Is that not expecting cash for service in the same way as an escort?
Something that has always been roling around in my head so figured I'd hijack and ask."
I would imagine asking for a fiver towards nibbles at a party is a bit different to asking for £100 for a gangbang and probably dealt with differently....so my advice would be to report anyone asking for money/ expenses and let Admin check it out.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what is your _iew on a couple who chat on here then offer to come over for 3 some but only if you give them petrol money?
Asking for expenses / money etc isn't allowed. Report the profile.
I totall agree so, slightly off topic but in a similar vein, why then is it ok for organised meets to request 'contributions' without fear of reprisal?
Gangbang organisers, for example purposes only I'm not singling them out, almost consistently ask for money to 'gain access' (for want of a better phrase). Is that not expecting cash for service in the same way as an escort?
Something that has always been roling around in my head so figured I'd hijack and ask.
I would imagine asking for a fiver towards nibbles at a party is a bit different to asking for £100 for a gangbang and probably dealt with differently....so my advice would be to report anyone asking for money/ expenses and let Admin check it out.
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£100..I'd just pay myself a £5 and have a wank...and feel dirty afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know its slightly off topic but people have mentioned gangbangs asking for costs and yet how many people on here have paid to go into a swingers club? |
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"I know its slightly off topic but people have mentioned gangbangs asking for costs and yet how many people on here have paid to go into a swingers club? "
I tend to hold my group things at clubs... It's easier for me... I think It's a fair way to do it... I do think asking lots up front is wrong. However I was recently approached.. (not on here) to attend a gangbang and was told there would be 3 girls and would we do it at 400quid.
I declined as I like to pick my guys and not share with other girls.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clubs are comercial, profit making, organisations and, while I don't like being charged lots of money to get in, I can understand that a financial limit will discourage hords of single guys swamping the place, while single girls going free seems only reasonable........
I think that's a seperate circumstance to a gangbang wherever it's organised........ |
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If it's a contribution towards costs incurred holding the "event" then fine and even if a little is being made for profit then the £20 mentioned earlier is still cheaper for single guys at than the admission into a swingers club.
As for the OP I can only guess some nights they want a night off from work as long as noboby asks me to pay after contacting them for sex as I'm skint at the moment.
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"I know its slightly off topic but people have mentioned gangbangs asking for costs and yet how many people on here have paid to go into a swingers club? "
worlds apart topics...apart from a sexual connection
paying into anything would not guarantee getting a shag(s)
and if I attended a GB and was asked to pay, and didnt use the facilities(the woman(women) is not the facilities!),I'd have my money back i'm sure. |
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"I know its slightly off topic but people have mentioned gangbangs asking for costs and yet how many people on here have paid to go into a swingers club?
worlds apart topics...apart from a sexual connection
paying into anything would not guarantee getting a shag(s)
and if I attended a GB and was asked to pay, and didnt use the facilities(the woman(women) is not the facilities!),I'd have my money back i'm sure."
*have to add, i meant not being chosen to play/asked to leave.If i stayed of course i would contribute.*sorry for using the word 'pay,-unnintentional |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol @ facility word
I am guessing if it is guarenteed sex at a gang bang for money thats a different kettle of fish."
I doubt it with fishy cocks that might try joining in lol...heres yer money back mate...thanks for comin...she just wasnt into u...
*it happened to a friend...honest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What you doing on escorting web sites ?
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why, is that not allowed??????
i am a browser... i browse ebay but have never bought anything on there!!!!!! |
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i agree anyone charging for money ie petrol or expenses is well out of order we used to be the hosts of the millswingers partys on fab under the northwest section on the clubs page we never once asked or even hintted for any payment as we think those who want to host the parties are getting just as much enjoyment out of it as those who attend
i have nothing wrong to say about escorts be it male or female lets face it there only making a living but doing it on a swingers site they should be banned |
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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I have done both, just because i do escort work that does not mean i dont have the rights to choose who i have sex with in my spare time and i have as much rights to be here as any other woman
I have never used fab to look for punters, i dont need to, i use fab for my own personal pleasure only
How you choose who you meet for paid sex and free sex is simple
I am lots more picky about who i meet off here, on here i only meet guys i like and are sexually attracted to, that dont always work if your doing sex work, if you only fucked men you fancied for money the chances are you'd never make any more so you must let your standards fall a little, bit i think its because of that im much more fussy about guys i have sex with for pleasure, i do love sex but if im havinmg sex with someone i dont like i can easy switch off and go almost mecanical, if i felt the need to do that with guys i met off here i wouldnt have sex with them, so it is so much more important for me to be atracted to guys i meet off here
what makes me laugh is the amount of threads and people who think women on escort site should not be on swingers sites, yet its ok for men who use escort sites to be here 
Just remember befor you judge it takes two to tango
saying that i dont use escort sites most of my work is done thro sex clubs |
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"what makes me laugh is the amount of threads and people who think women on escort site should not be on swingers sites, yet its ok for men who use escort sites to be here
Just remember befor you judge it takes two to tango
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
I have done both, just because i do escort work that does not mean i dont have the rights to choose who i have sex with in my spare time and i have as much rights to be here as any other woman
I have never used fab to look for punters, i dont need to, i use fab for my own personal pleasure only
How you choose who you meet for paid sex and free sex is simple
I am lots more picky about who i meet off here, on here i only meet guys i like and are sexually attracted to, that dont always work if your doing sex work, if you only fucked men you fancied for money the chances are you'd never make any more so you must let your standards fall a little, bit i think its because of that im much more fussy about guys i have sex with for pleasure, i do love sex but if im havinmg sex with someone i dont like i can easy switch off and go almost mecanical, if i felt the need to do that with guys i met off here i wouldnt have sex with them, so it is so much more important for me to be atracted to guys i meet off here
what makes me laugh is the amount of threads and people who think women on escort site should not be on swingers sites, yet its ok for men who use escort sites to be here
Just remember befor you judge it takes two to tango
saying that i dont use escort sites most of my work is done thro sex clubs"
well thank you NN for you forthright answer. i have no problem with any of it i was only interested in how people handle that and you answered that question for me.
i suppose it is about detachment and being able to seperate the 2 activities.
its easy for me to seperate work and pleasure because they are two different things.
would still love to meet you one day tho seen you in chat many times... |
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned.
To be fair it shows how little you know on this.... I think you would find little difference between paid sex and swinging sex.. even more so if they are paying for the girl friend experience...
Can't see how its degrading either... I will happily pay for a girl for master and know that we can get exactly the girl we want. No hassles. No strings and for that time she will be all we want of her.
Cali "
May know more than you think actually, 'paying for a girl' is not the same as buying a pint or a ride at the fair ground. Human beings are not commodities.
It maybe a fantasy for you but is it always the same for the person you brought?
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i suppose it is about detachment and being able to seperate the 2 activities.
its easy for me to seperate work and pleasure because they are two different things.
would still love to meet you one day tho seen you in chat many times..."
i dont class what i do as work to be honest
I have what i call a proper job, i work full time i just do the club work to make extra money, to be honest i got into it by accident, but when the offer was put to me i thought why not?
I did find it hard at first when guys i really wasnt attracted to came over for a blow job but i did find it easy to switch of while playing, i mainly do gang bangs and to to be fair its easy to avoid guys you dont like when in a group situation as you just put your attantion to the guys you do like, tho on a quite night sometimes you cant avoid playing with guys your not attracted to
But to me it is just a job, i sometimes cum while playing at 'work' but not offen as i dont feel im there for my pleasure i feel im there to provide other peoples pleasure and thats the main difference between that and meeting guys off here |
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i suppose it is about detachment and being able to seperate the 2 activities.
its easy for me to seperate work and pleasure because they are two different things.
would still love to meet you one day tho seen you in chat many times...
i dont class what i do as work to be honest
I have what i call a proper job, i work full time i just do the club work to make extra money, to be honest i got into it by accident, but when the offer was put to me i thought why not?
I did find it hard at first when guys i really wasnt attracted to came over for a blow job but i did find it easy to switch of while playing, i mainly do gang bangs and to to be fair its easy to avoid guys you dont like when in a group situation as you just put your attantion to the guys you do like, tho on a quite night sometimes you cant avoid playing with guys your not attracted to
But to me it is just a job, i sometimes cum while playing at 'work' but not offen as i dont feel im there for my pleasure i feel im there to provide other peoples pleasure and thats the main difference between that and meeting guys off here "
and so goes a lady with her head firmly screwed on....my kind of girl...
its always a pleasure watching you on cam. you must let me know when you are next 'working' might pop along and see what all the fuss is about.. |
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned.
i agree entirely advertising on fab is against site rules.
but as said in previous posts, i know people who escort and they are also members of fab and other swinging sites and no mention of money takes place and they swing for free. They dont use the site to advertise for business but the both swing and escort and keep each activity to different websites.
The OP posed the question as how they seperate the two activites?
and also for the opinions of members of those who do both."
When I was still active on here as a single guy, I came across a couple who I messaged and was a little taken aback by the reply from the fem. "Sorry, but I don't fuck single guys for free anymore.." So what was the inference I was to take from that, then??????????
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned.
To be fair it shows how little you know on this.... I think you would find little difference between paid sex and swinging sex.. even more so if they are paying for the girl friend experience...
Can't see how its degrading either... I will happily pay for a girl for master and know that we can get exactly the girl we want. No hassles. No strings and for that time she will be all we want of her.
Cali
May know more than you think actually, 'paying for a girl' is not the same as buying a pint or a ride at the fair ground. Human beings are not commodities.
It maybe a fantasy for you but is it always the same for the person you brought?
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i dont find it degrading at all
Ok i admit i have played with some guys id sooner not have, based on their looks only, anyone who is rude or disrespectful towards me will get told to fuck off, im a person firstly and i expected to be treated as such as i treat others with respect
You dont buy a person, i find that a little odd to say that, noone has ever bought me just a very small amount of mt time, when im with someone who had paid for my time i am still me and i still control what i do, i wont do anything for money that i wouldnt do for free so i do not feel i have been bought
I agree its not for everyone and yes course people will judge me for this and im sure ive now added myself to loads of peoples block lists after my posts but i am who i am, im not going to lie about me to get more poeple to like me, if people see me as degrading to women i make no apologies for that
Just remember prostitution is the older profession in the world and it will never go away so people are going to have to accept it here to stay
All escort do it thro choice and its their body and theirs to do what they like with
Ok i know there are women who are forced to have sex for money but they are not sex workers they are victims of sexual abuse...dont mix up the two |
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Think you have nailed the issue exactly, no offense was intended to any people who escort but their a difference and its good to know people can get their head round the difference between escorting and swinging and enjoy swinging
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"Paying for sex is a cold and functional act and in a lots of ways a degrading activity and nothing to do with the swinging lifestyle and anyone found using this site to promote this, should be banned.
To be fair it shows how little you know on this.... I think you would find little difference between paid sex and swinging sex.. even more so if they are paying for the girl friend experience...
Can't see how its degrading either... I will happily pay for a girl for master and know that we can get exactly the girl we want. No hassles. No strings and for that time she will be all we want of her.
Cali
May know more than you think actually, 'paying for a girl' is not the same as buying a pint or a ride at the fair ground. Human beings are not commodities.
It maybe a fantasy for you but is it always the same for the person you brought?
i dont find it degrading at all
Ok i admit i have played with some guys id sooner not have, based on their looks only, anyone who is rude or disrespectful towards me will get told to fuck off, im a person firstly and i expected to be treated as such as i treat others with respect
You dont buy a person, i find that a little odd to say that, noone has ever bought me just a very small amount of mt time, when im with someone who had paid for my time i am still me and i still control what i do, i wont do anything for money that i wouldnt do for free so i do not feel i have been bought
I agree its not for everyone and yes course people will judge me for this and im sure ive now added myself to loads of peoples block lists after my posts but i am who i am, im not going to lie about me to get more poeple to like me, if people see me as degrading to women i make no apologies for that
Just remember prostitution is the older profession in the world and it will never go away so people are going to have to accept it here to stay
All escort do it thro choice and its their body and theirs to do what they like with
Ok i know there are women who are forced to have sex for money but they are not sex workers they are victims of sexual abuse...dont mix up the two "
Again thanks for that, its the last point that that raises the big problem either through abuse (which is very much higher than people think - that carries on in later years) or drug issues.
Do you mind saying why you occassionally escort as you can clearly have a very good sex life with swinging - is their something about the power of getting men to pay? Or something else? Financial or helping men with poor sex lives? |
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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago
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We met a couple from a swinging website and we went out for a night on the town and all when back to there hotel and had a wonderfully night and they even paid for brekky EXCELENT
We then found them on a escort site offering a overnight stay and u had to pay for the hotel for £1000....
WELL WE DEFO GO A GREAT DEAL AND A GREAT NIGHT FOR FREE WOOP WOOP  |
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Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it. |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it."
Wondered when the subject of eacorts spreading stuff would come up
I personally dont know any erscort that will do bareback and i doubt there are many
Most escorts take their sexual healthy even more serious than most as to be blunt their minge is there wage earner, if its out of order they cant make no money so it makes no sence to be off work for a few weeks because of one unprotected shag!
One of the places i work we have to get tested every 4 weeks, no ifs no buts if you dont get tested and get the all clear every 4 weeks you dont work simple as, i doubt theres any none working worman gets tested that regular, infact most of the girls i work with wont even do blow jobs without a condoms and i have on many occasion used protection for oral myself when working
To blame escorts of spreading stuff is pretty naive
To go bare back is a individual choice there are many none working women on here who fuck without condoms, your just as likely to catch something off a swinger than a escort |
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May know more than you think actually, 'paying for a girl' is not the same as buying a pint or a ride at the fair ground. Human beings are not commodities.
It maybe a fantasy for you but is it always the same for the person you brought?
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To be fair unless you have done this for a job you can't know... It's also pretty easy to tell if a girl enjoys what she does... And It's not buying a person... It's buying their services.. I see it same as when I pay a mechanic for their time...
The girls I know totally love their jobs... And have a great time...
It can be hard if you don't fancy a guy but you can learn to get over that...
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it."
Check some escorts profiles.. you will find that most won't even do oral without a condom...
Your average escort gets tested every 4 weeks so its unlikely they will have anything...
It always amazes me how people seem to think that escorts are some bottom end of the pond... You would think on here or sites like this that there would be more acceptance.
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Check some escorts profiles.. you will find that most won't even do oral without a condom...
Your average escort gets tested every 4 weeks so its unlikely they will have anything...
It always amazes me how people seem to think that escorts are some bottom end of the pond... You would think on here or sites like this that there would be more acceptance.
Cali "
I think this site seems to have as many narrow minded people as the 'vanilla' world. And unfortunately also people that are totally unsafe, yet assume they are fine because it's some other group of people that are at risk.... not them?!?!?! 
Makes my mind boggle. |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Check some escorts profiles.. you will find that most won't even do oral without a condom...
Your average escort gets tested every 4 weeks so its unlikely they will have anything...
It always amazes me how people seem to think that escorts are some bottom end of the pond... You would think on here or sites like this that there would be more acceptance.
Cali
I think this site seems to have as many narrow minded people as the 'vanilla' world. And unfortunately also people that are totally unsafe, yet assume they are fine because it's some other group of people that are at risk.... not them?!?!?!
Makes my mind boggle. "
there are both swingers and escorts who bareback..
if its not for you then you stay away from them...
its a free world.
persoanlly i say its up to them to choose.
but, yes, there are narrow minded people who think that its escorts that are the worst for it and it simply isnt true. |
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In answer to your original question kenny,
I like to think that escorts will make the client the priority when they are 'working'. So i guess their own enjoyment/orgasm isnt important.
Then their playtime on swingers sites, is their 'me' time.
I like to imagine them just lieing back and enjoying being pleasured, doing positions that increases their own orgasms.
As apposed to them sucking and fucking and generally working hard to get the guy off.
Id also like to think that they wouldnt want to mix clients and their swing partners up, but keep them separate.
9-5 working
evenings and weekends swinging!! lol
I also imagine im being totally naive and havent a clue what im thinking actually happens!  |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Check some escorts profiles.. you will find that most won't even do oral without a condom...
Your average escort gets tested every 4 weeks so its unlikely they will have anything...
It always amazes me how people seem to think that escorts are some bottom end of the pond... You would think on here or sites like this that there would be more acceptance.
Cali "
Well said Cali!! I agree |
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I wish people wouldnt 'bash' escorts/prostitutes.
If they arnt for you, then fine.
My personal opinion is they do a tricky job, dealing with complicated people who the rest of us on here might quite probably say no to!!!!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I wish people wouldnt 'bash' escorts/prostitutes.
If they arnt for you, then fine.
My personal opinion is they do a tricky job, dealing with complicated people who the rest of us on here might quite probably say no to!!!!
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Unfortunately there are plenty of members on here who enjoy bashing anyone who they disapprove of. |
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"In answer to your original question kenny,
I like to think that escorts will make the client the priority when they are 'working'. So i guess their own enjoyment/orgasm isnt important.
Then their playtime on swingers sites, is their 'me' time.
I like to imagine them just lieing back and enjoying being pleasured, doing positions that increases their own orgasms.
As apposed to them sucking and fucking and generally working hard to get the guy off.
Id also like to think that they wouldnt want to mix clients and their swing partners up, but keep them separate.
9-5 working
evenings and weekends swinging!! lol
I also imagine im being totally naive and havent a clue what im thinking actually happens! "
i agree thats probably what it is, but it must be hard in a way to seperate the 2.
its easy for me because my work doesnt involve sex, and to date it hasnt involved anyone i have met via swinging, so my work life and swinging life never the twain shall meet. hopefully.
but as i said, my friend met a girl through both avenues and she refused to swing for free with him because she said he was 'a paying client' even tho the second meet was arranged via a swinging site and as far as he was concerned wouldnt involve money. Neither realised, at the time of arranging the meet, that they had met previously via an escort site.
i have no problems with people doing both and its been interesting reading the comments from those that do, and how they handle it.
so i suppose my OP has been answered. |
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I went on a few escorting jobs in my mid-twenties till I fell out with the lady who organised the whole she-bang. I never stopped enjoying sex at all recreationally and found it easy to separate the two.
Did I enjoy my work? On all occasions but one, yes.
Conversely I've had meets on here with ladies who escort as well, but they don't use fab to find clients and I was under no illusion that our meetings were purely for fun!
Live and let live I say. |
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It's easy to separate work and pleasure.. and you know it isn't much different..
Most men want to make sure a woman has a good time and feel good if she has pleasure.. be it swinging or paid..
I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
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"Most men want to make sure a woman has a good time and feel good if she has pleasure.. be it swinging or paid..
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To be honest cali thats the only thing you have put that i have to disagree on
in my experience men do not hire women to make sure she has a good time
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali "
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same. |
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"Most men want to make sure a woman has a good time and feel good if she has pleasure.. be it swinging or paid..
To be honest cali thats the only thing you have put that i have to disagree on
in my experience men do not hire women to make sure she has a good time
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i think you are right NN but as ever there will be exceptions. i know a guy who regularly pays for sex as he works very long hours and frankly doesnt have the time for dating etc, but sees escorts to satisfy his sexual needs. He does however see a small number of girls and has very good sex with them all, both for him and her. But in the main most guys pay for sex for their own satisfaction. |
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"Most men want to make sure a woman has a good time and feel good if she has pleasure.. be it swinging or paid..
To be honest cali thats the only thing you have put that i have to disagree on
in my experience men do not hire women to make sure she has a good time
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I'm not so sure about this point my delightfully nymphomatic friend as most men would probably like the thought of bringing a woman to orgasm.
Also to flip it round, on most of the limited number of jobs I went on the ladies I attended to wanted me to cum. On two occasions on them so they could feel it against their skin, once on myself before the lady in question requested that she wanted to watch me eat it, and on a further two occasions the ladies merely wanted to see my cock erupt in front of them! There was only two meetings where the women weren't much fussed about my orgasm at all and wanted me merely to get them off so to speak.
Still perhaps women seek something differetn when hiring an escort than men, so I wouldn't take it as read. |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same."
Maybe I've just got lucky... As I'd say I've only had one person that wasn't bothered..
I get pleasure from sex acts even if I don't fancy the guy... Mind is a powerful thing.. I just let them be in my mind someone I do fancy.
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?"
On the contrary it could. But for different reasons than normal. And entirely dependant upon the mental abilities of the sex worker in question. |
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?
On the contrary it could. But for different reasons than normal. And entirely dependant upon the mental abilities of the sex worker in question."
I don't see how it can be really.....
I can totally understand the whole " switch off " thing that prostitutes no doubt do when it is someone you wouldn't normally have sex with and just think in your head " think of the money instead" but I can't see how that is pleasurable at all.
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?
On the contrary it could. But for different reasons than normal. And entirely dependant upon the mental abilities of the sex worker in question.
I don't see how it can be really.....
I can totally understand the whole " switch off " thing that prostitutes no doubt do when it is someone you wouldn't normally have sex with and just think in your head " think of the money instead" but I can't see how that is pleasurable at all.
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"Think of the money" is a motivational tool for other areas of work, but not in the sex industry unless the worker in question gets actually turned on by piles of cash which isn't likely.
Instead the thoughts are either on a particular trait of the person you are having sex with that you actually like to the exclusion of all others (probably trickier with women than with men as they are hard-wired to look for the whole package) or you focus upon having sex with someone entirely different, which can make the experience pleasurable for a lot. The imagination is an extremely powerful tool.... |
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?
On the contrary it could. But for different reasons than normal. And entirely dependant upon the mental abilities of the sex worker in question.
I don't see how it can be really.....
I can totally understand the whole " switch off " thing that prostitutes no doubt do when it is someone you wouldn't normally have sex with and just think in your head " think of the money instead" but I can't see how that is pleasurable at all.
"Think of the money" is a motivational tool for other areas of work, but not in the sex industry unless the worker in question gets actually turned on by piles of cash which isn't likely.
Instead the thoughts are either on a particular trait of the person you are having sex with that you actually like to the exclusion of all others (probably trickier with women than with men as they are hard-wired to look for the whole package) or you focus upon having sex with someone entirely different, which can make the experience pleasurable for a lot. The imagination is an extremely powerful tool.... "
Exactly....using your imagination instead of enjoying what you are doing with the person who is paying....because you are not likely to be enjoying the experience with the person you wouldn't normally have sex with.
I think everyone who works at a job which might not be what they want at that minute does think to get them through the job " just think of the money at the end of it" to motivate them.
It doesn't have to mean that they are motivated by piles of cash, it just means getting through the day for a lot of us....and I doubt prositutes are the only people who "don't" think that at some point. |
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?
On the contrary it could. But for different reasons than normal. And entirely dependant upon the mental abilities of the sex worker in question.
I don't see how it can be really.....
I can totally understand the whole " switch off " thing that prostitutes no doubt do when it is someone you wouldn't normally have sex with and just think in your head " think of the money instead" but I can't see how that is pleasurable at all.
"Think of the money" is a motivational tool for other areas of work, but not in the sex industry unless the worker in question gets actually turned on by piles of cash which isn't likely.
Instead the thoughts are either on a particular trait of the person you are having sex with that you actually like to the exclusion of all others (probably trickier with women than with men as they are hard-wired to look for the whole package) or you focus upon having sex with someone entirely different, which can make the experience pleasurable for a lot. The imagination is an extremely powerful tool....
Exactly....using your imagination instead of enjoying what you are doing with the person who is paying....because you are not likely to be enjoying the experience with the person you wouldn't normally have sex with.
I think everyone who works at a job which might not be what they want at that minute does think to get them through the job " just think of the money at the end of it" to motivate them.
It doesn't have to mean that they are motivated by piles of cash, it just means getting through the day for a lot of us....and I doubt prositutes are the only people who "don't" think that at some point."
But that doesn't make the whole experience entirely unpleasurable at all. For example I much prefer sliding my penis into a delightful lady's pussy to gripping it firmly myself till I cum. However is masturbating pleasant? Yes! Because as well as the sensations involved I focus my mind on whatever excites me. It is merely tapping into this experience that would make the encounter pleasurable...treating it in my mind more like I would when masturbating than having actual connective sex.... |
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Yes, I get what you are saying Mr Lick....but it still means you are enjoying the experience because of what you are thinking in your head rather than with the person you are having sex with. |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same."
its not, but i have been honest and i have never said that i always get pleasure from when im working, i have also said that in order to make money you must let your standards drop, if you only meet guys you fancy thro work you would never make any money
I have on occasion played wth some really nice guy and had a good time and i have also had some good looking guys but over all what i do i do for their pleasure not mine thats what im paid for
for me escort work is being paid to give someone else pleasure, swinging is me meeting who i like to get mutual pleasure, theres a massive difference |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same.
Maybe I've just got lucky... As I'd say I've only had one person that wasn't bothered..
I get pleasure from sex acts even if I don't fancy the guy... Mind is a powerful thing.. I just let them be in my mind someone I do fancy.
Cali "
not lucky you idea of good sex is just diffferent to mine
Just from reading your posts in the past you have said that your not bothered about men giving to you, i am, your idea of good sex is just dishing out blow jobs, mine isnt, so to you meeting a guy who just wants to take pleasure is your idea of a good night its not mine, when i meet a guy i want pleasure back so guys who dont give it me i feel are selfish, you wont because thats what your after
So a guy paying you to just suck his cock and fuck him will see like a good night to you because your getting paid to do what you like anyway as you have said many times you dont like receiving oral and you dont care if you dont cum, where as i like all the kissing, oral, touching etc so when i get a guy who dont want to give that i do feel like he dont give a damn about what im getting out of it
If that makes sence lol |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same.
its not, but i have been honest and i have never said that i always get pleasure from when im working, i have also said that in order to make money you must let your standards drop, if you only meet guys you fancy thro work you would never make any money
I have on occasion played wth some really nice guy and had a good time and i have also had some good looking guys but over all what i do i do for their pleasure not mine thats what im paid for
for me escort work is being paid to give someone else pleasure, swinging is me meeting who i like to get mutual pleasure, theres a massive difference "
Nail on the head there. Though sometimes from my experience clients want to see their escort have pleasure also.... |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Check some escorts profiles.. you will find that most won't even do oral without a condom...
Your average escort gets tested every 4 weeks so its unlikely they will have anything...
It always amazes me how people seem to think that escorts are some bottom end of the pond... You would think on here or sites like this that there would be more acceptance.
Cali
I think this site seems to have as many narrow minded people as the 'vanilla' world. And unfortunately also people that are totally unsafe, yet assume they are fine because it's some other group of people that are at risk.... not them?!?!?!
Makes my mind boggle.
there are both swingers and escorts who bareback..
if its not for you then you stay away from them...
its a free world.
persoanlly i say its up to them to choose.
but, yes, there are narrow minded people who think that its escorts that are the worst for it and it simply isnt true."
I agree with you. I wasn't at all saying that people who bareback are 'bad'. In some ways (daft as it may seem) they are possibly safer than those who use condoms, sleep with tons of people, but never get tested.
Yes it is indeed a (mostly!) free world. |
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"So it can't be pleasurable if people have to blank out who they are with?"
Its a job
When i have sex with a guy whos paying me i dont expect to get pleasure
Hes paying me for my time for me to service him
Hes not paying me to give me pleasure but for me to give it to him
I have met some guys who have been very giving and want to have sex with me rather than from me but there are not many
Not many women go into this thinking they will have great sex and get money for it, its a job simple as
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same.
its not, but i have been honest and i have never said that i always get pleasure from when im working, i have also said that in order to make money you must let your standards drop, if you only meet guys you fancy thro work you would never make any money
I have on occasion played wth some really nice guy and had a good time and i have also had some good looking guys but over all what i do i do for their pleasure not mine thats what im paid for
for me escort work is being paid to give someone else pleasure, swinging is me meeting who i like to get mutual pleasure, theres a massive difference
Nail on the head there. Though sometimes from my experience clients want to see their escort have pleasure also...."
couse some do, for some its a ego boost to see you cum and they will happily pay for that boost
Theres one guy i meet regular whos very giving every time i meet him he spends loads of time pleasuring me, he gets off on that more than me giving to him, i lay there sometimes while he goes down on me, and hes very good by the way, and think.....fook me im getting paid for this lol
but men like that are rare |
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"i have noticed during my many aimless hours surfing the tinterweb that there are a number of swingers on here that also appear on escort websites advertising paid services.
They obviously meet people through Fab because they have verifications and they also meet for paid services because they also have feedback on escort sites
what are peoples opinions on this?
and to those that do both, how do you determine who you meet for free and who you meet for money?
just interested. personally, i offer no opinion.
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I think good for them. No reason why bus drivers can't go on bus holidays, so why should escorts be any different?!
I don't understand why people should find it offensive. |
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"I don't understand why people should find it offensive. "
I don't either. People are just people and make their own choices... what they do in their daily life should never have any impact in swinging.
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A job is a job, just because its a sexual job doesnt make any difference. Also why should they disclose what they do for a living, you dont here other people shouting about what they do for a living so why should escorts.
My only problem would be is if they came on here touting for business. Once someone has finished work for the day, they can choice to do what they like socially |
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"A job is a job, just because its a sexual job doesnt make any difference. Also why should they disclose what they do for a living, you dont here other people shouting about what they do for a living so why should escorts."
Erm....firemen, squaddies, porn stars and glamour models tend to.... |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same.
its not, but i have been honest and i have never said that i always get pleasure from when im working, i have also said that in order to make money you must let your standards drop, if you only meet guys you fancy thro work you would never make any money
I have on occasion played wth some really nice guy and had a good time and i have also had some good looking guys but over all what i do i do for their pleasure not mine thats what im paid for
for me escort work is being paid to give someone else pleasure, swinging is me meeting who i like to get mutual pleasure, theres a massive difference "
Thanks NN an answer that I was sort of getting at in my questions.
It isn't always pleasurable for most I would imagine and probably shouldn't be glamorised as such. |
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I think that the women that swing and escort are the ones that just love what they do... So do it for their own pleasure too.. yes sometimes its a guy you wouldn't say yes to on here... But not always.
Cali
A question....how is that pleasurable if you wouldn't normally have sex with the person?
The question is to NN too as I think she mentioned the same.
its not, but i have been honest and i have never said that i always get pleasure from when im working, i have also said that in order to make money you must let your standards drop, if you only meet guys you fancy thro work you would never make any money
I have on occasion played wth some really nice guy and had a good time and i have also had some good looking guys but over all what i do i do for their pleasure not mine thats what im paid for
for me escort work is being paid to give someone else pleasure, swinging is me meeting who i like to get mutual pleasure, theres a massive difference
Thanks NN an answer that I was sort of getting at in my questions.
It isn't always pleasurable for most I would imagine and probably shouldn't be glamorised as such."
I offered a drink for a bj..she refused.I said, I wouldnt buy her one anyway!!!! |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Wondered when the subject of eacorts spreading stuff would come up
I personally dont know any erscort that will do bareback and i doubt there are many
Most escorts take their sexual healthy even more serious than most as to be blunt their minge is there wage earner, if its out of order they cant make no money so it makes no sence to be off work for a few weeks because of one unprotected shag!
One of the places i work we have to get tested every 4 weeks, no ifs no buts if you dont get tested and get the all clear every 4 weeks you dont work simple as, i doubt theres any none working worman gets tested that regular, infact most of the girls i work with wont even do blow jobs without a condoms and i have on many occasion used protection for oral myself when working
To blame escorts of spreading stuff is pretty naive
To go bare back is a individual choice there are many none working women on here who fuck without condoms, your just as likely to catch something off a swinger than a escort"
I didn't blame escorts nor was I trying too.
I know full well that it takes 2 to tango but lets be honest here, a woman sending messages out to men on FAB with the message of "want a bit of bareback fun?" will do a lot more to spread stuff than a man trying to do the same.
Also the escorts you might know don't do it, but there are plenty who do. |
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"Ive come across 3 of them on here.
They do bareback, both pleasure and paid services. The guys they have met have also met other women on here so yeah, good to know whats swimming around.
Like some questionable object floating in a swimming pool, avoid it.
Wondered when the subject of eacorts spreading stuff would come up
I personally dont know any erscort that will do bareback and i doubt there are many
Most escorts take their sexual healthy even more serious than most as to be blunt their minge is there wage earner, if its out of order they cant make no money so it makes no sence to be off work for a few weeks because of one unprotected shag!
One of the places i work we have to get tested every 4 weeks, no ifs no buts if you dont get tested and get the all clear every 4 weeks you dont work simple as, i doubt theres any none working worman gets tested that regular, infact most of the girls i work with wont even do blow jobs without a condoms and i have on many occasion used protection for oral myself when working
To blame escorts of spreading stuff is pretty naive
To go bare back is a individual choice there are many none working women on here who fuck without condoms, your just as likely to catch something off a swinger than a escort
I didn't blame escorts nor was I trying too.
I know full well that it takes 2 to tango but lets be honest here, a woman sending messages out to men on FAB with the message of "want a bit of bareback fun?" will do a lot more to spread stuff than a man trying to do the same.
Also the escorts you might know don't do it, but there are plenty who do."
true but there are also lots of none working girls who play bare
Playing bareback has nothing to do with wether your a escort or not its down to the individual not what job they do |
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true but there are also lots of none working girls who play bare
Playing bareback has nothing to do with wether your a escort or not its down to the individual not what job they do"
Yes I know, they usually rant at me for telling them where to go. |
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not lucky you idea of good sex is just diffferent to mine
Just from reading your posts in the past you have said that your not bothered about men giving to you, i am, your idea of good sex is just dishing out blow jobs, mine isnt, so to you meeting a guy who just wants to take pleasure is your idea of a good night its not mine, when i meet a guy i want pleasure back so guys who dont give it me i feel are selfish, you wont because thats what your after
So a guy paying you to just suck his cock and fuck him will see like a good night to you because your getting paid to do what you like anyway as you have said many times you dont like receiving oral and you dont care if you dont cum, where as i like all the kissing, oral, touching etc so when i get a guy who dont want to give that i do feel like he dont give a damn about what im getting out of it
If that makes sence lol"
actually to be fair the way I like sex is a big reason it works for me.. but what I actually meant is when I was working too.. I was getting guys that wanted me to be pleasured... They wanted to give oral.. to make sure I had pleasure.. now to be fair I would actually refuse most of them because my thing is more the quickie bj and I get off on that...
but even at that.. I have found most want to get me off first..
Maybe I just as I said got lucky... to be fair swinging is for mine and Masters pleasure.. other things were for paying for lifes little extras and I found it fun.
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