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We are not a couple, we meet up for very sexy fun whenever we can which at the moment is impossible due to the current circumstances.
Our question is 'Does not being a couple put people off?'
We feel honesty is the best option as there are no surprises.
Sue and Tom X
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It will some and not others. Not us as we play separately and as a couple.
Some feel that a non 'real' couple have less vested interest so might try it on with one side (normally the other guy to the Mrs). But then, we feel strong enough to be completely open and tell them to politely sling their hook if that happens. |
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We aren't looking to meet a couple so this is probably an outsiders view.
I suspect it will turn some off but the main thing is you are being honest about it. We've been surprised at how many "single" women we have spoken to that suddenly mention they have a partner who wants to be involved as well  |
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"We aren't looking to meet a couple so this is probably an outsiders view.
I suspect it will turn some off but the main thing is you are being honest about it. We've been surprised at how many "single" women we have spoken to that suddenly mention they have a partner who wants to be involved as well "
Just as surprised for us when we start chatting to a couple to find out the lady is out, asleep or just not interested in chatting lol Men what are they like lol |
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Wouldn’t for me but then being male and on my own is probably more a turn off for meet ups. Me though I’ve always wanted to join a couple (obviously on their terms because it their comfortability that maters). However meeting a duo that are friends with benefits certainly isn’t a negative factor. I would probably be a little more relaxed meeting them tbh. Either way though, respect and good open dialogue is always going to ensure everyone is on the same level. |
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"We aren't looking to meet a couple so this is probably an outsiders view.
I suspect it will turn some off but the main thing is you are being honest about it. We've been surprised at how many "single" women we have spoken to that suddenly mention they have a partner who wants to be involved as well
Just as surprised for us when we start chatting to a couple to find out the lady is out, asleep or just not interested in chatting lol Men what are they like lol"
Some reeeaaaallllyyyyy sleepy ladies out there  |
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"We aren't looking to meet a couple so this is probably an outsiders view.
I suspect it will turn some off but the main thing is you are being honest about it. We've been surprised at how many "single" women we have spoken to that suddenly mention they have a partner who wants to be involved as well
Just as surprised for us when we start chatting to a couple to find out the lady is out, asleep or just not interested in chatting lol Men what are they like lol
Some reeeaaaallllyyyyy sleepy ladies out there "
Hahahaha honestly this made me laugh a litte too much haha |
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"No it wouldn't put me off, if meeting with my partner.
It puts me off those who are fwb, but married to other people.
Otherwise as long as there's attraction and we all get on, no problem. "
We are both single and have known each other for at least 15 years so we are very comfortable with each other  |
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"We aren't looking to meet a couple so this is probably an outsiders view.
I suspect it will turn some off but the main thing is you are being honest about it. We've been surprised at how many "single" women we have spoken to that suddenly mention they have a partner who wants to be involved as well
Just as surprised for us when we start chatting to a couple to find out the lady is out, asleep or just not interested in chatting lol Men what are they like lol"
Wow... amazingly you appear to be chatting to a lot of the same couples as me! |
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I don't think it would bother us how a couple run their relationship as long as they are reliable and we all get on well.
I remember being on here with a previous swinging partner a few years ago and it was very common to find people only wanted to meet romantic couples. FWBs was a real no-no for many. I don't find many people requiring that nowadays but we're romantically involved anyway so it wouldn't affect us. |
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