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"Afternoon all! We hope this is the right place to post this? We wanted to share our experiences and adventure of joining this lifestyle. We got into swinging after spending a night in the pub together. We got talking about having sex with other people and agreed we both got turned on thinking about seeing each other with other people. That night, we went on instinct to the attic, in Derby. We got a taxi and picked up some wine and arrived with excitement and a lot of nerves. We were shown around and found a quite place for a chat with each other. We both said, wow, this is full on, are we mad, are we attractive enough? We both said fuck it and went outside for a cigarette and got chatting. Our nerves calmed. Mrs got chatting to a guy from a couple, who she found really attractive and introduced us to his other half and they explained how it worked and to relax (we didn’t get their names, but they said fab was the place to meet people. They were genuinely friendly and showed us the ropes, thanks, whoever you are!). We joined them in the hot tub and hands started wandering. There was 4 of us and a single guy in the hot tub. Single guy started to touch Mrs and the guy from the couple told him to leave it, Mrs was really appreciative because she was not quite ready for multiple hands at the time. Eventually, all 4 of us went to a private room and started to play. Mrs went to find the toilet and was a bit freaked by a few of the single guys. We enjoyed ourselves with the other couple and then left the club. Mrs was not comfortable with single blokes trying to grab her without permission. It was a great experience, but we found it a bit overwhelming and therefore probably not quite ready for it. We did however, have great sex at home after! This didn’t put us off and we joined Fab the same night and got talking to couples. After chatting on here and WhatsApp we decided to meet a couple. They came to ours and we hit it off straight away. We went to the pub and had a few drinks and did a lot of flirting. It was great and we were all desperate to get home. We played the game nookii to get things going and it wasn’t long until we were all over each other. It was a great night and we all fucked in our big bed until the early hours. We have met the same couple again, in a hotel and it was even better than the first time and the girls really enjoyed each other. We have also met another couple a few times and the experience was very similar. Both couples have become good friends and have met socially as well as to play. We have struggled to find many other couples who want to get to know us first and just want to go straight to sex, but we have taken a break for a bit and not tried as hard as we could. Mrs has found that she gets really turned on by other women and playing together, but we have yet to meet the rare unicorn! Do they exist? We did meet a local couple and had a bit of a strange experience. We met in the pub and they came back to ours. In the pub Mrs said she didn’t feel quite right, but thought it was just the wine. At home, Mrs said she felt quite drowsy and the women in the other couple did seem out of it. We are not sure whether drinks were spiked, but we made our excuses and said bye. It did put us off looking for a while, until we met one of the couples we had previously met and our faith and desire to continue came back! Our experience has on the whole been great. It has opened up our sex life and enhanced it. We have met some great people and had mind blowing sex. We fancy trying a club again, but probably couples only nights. The one bad experience, did make us wary and in hindsight we should have gone with our first instincts in the pub and gone home. We are still very inexperienced, but hope other people can learn from our adventure. Happy fabbing people, stay safe and get in touch if you fancy getting to know us and hopefully meeting after lockdown. H and J xxx" The cpls only nights are better as no single guys who always try to cop a feel. But you do get fbs teaming up to act as proper cpls to play with you so something to watch out for. | |||
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"90% of single guys in clubs are a fucking nuisance, best make it clear before they get near, but they make the revenue up for the venue. Don’t be frightened of telling them the venue needs your business more, no couples or females no club. " Should be an instant ban for life touching without permission as by law it is assault. | |||
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"Lovely story, apart from the scary bit...! But we have all had bad experiences and you will learn from them. Unfortunately, if you get them early on, it can distort your view of swinging. Luckily you have recognised that and still want to continue in this strange hobby we all have here...! "Yes, it does make you more aware of why people act in different ways. Also interesting when it’s obvious one person in the couple is more up for swapping than the other! | |||
"90% of single guys in clubs are a fucking nuisance, best make it clear before they get near, but they make the revenue up for the venue. Don’t be frightened of telling them the venue needs your business more, no couples or females no club. " Thanks for the advice, the more experienced, the more confident you get, plus understanding the etiquette of the place. | |||
"Afternoon all! We hope this is the right place to post this? We wanted to share our experiences and adventure of joining this lifestyle. We got into swinging after spending a night in the pub together. We got talking about having sex with other people and agreed we both got turned on thinking about seeing each other with other people. That night, we went on instinct to the attic, in Derby. We got a taxi and picked up some wine and arrived with excitement and a lot of nerves. We were shown around and found a quite place for a chat with each other. We both said, wow, this is full on, are we mad, are we attractive enough? We both said fuck it and went outside for a cigarette and got chatting. Our nerves calmed. Mrs got chatting to a guy from a couple, who she found really attractive and introduced us to his other half and they explained how it worked and to relax (we didn’t get their names, but they said fab was the place to meet people. They were genuinely friendly and showed us the ropes, thanks, whoever you are!). We joined them in the hot tub and hands started wandering. There was 4 of us and a single guy in the hot tub. Single guy started to touch Mrs and the guy from the couple told him to leave it, Mrs was really appreciative because she was not quite ready for multiple hands at the time. Eventually, all 4 of us went to a private room and started to play. Mrs went to find the toilet and was a bit freaked by a few of the single guys. We enjoyed ourselves with the other couple and then left the club. Mrs was not comfortable with single blokes trying to grab her without permission. It was a great experience, but we found it a bit overwhelming and therefore probably not quite ready for it. We did however, have great sex at home after! This didn’t put us off and we joined Fab the same night and got talking to couples. After chatting on here and WhatsApp we decided to meet a couple. They came to ours and we hit it off straight away. We went to the pub and had a few drinks and did a lot of flirting. It was great and we were all desperate to get home. We played the game nookii to get things going and it wasn’t long until we were all over each other. It was a great night and we all fucked in our big bed until the early hours. We have met the same couple again, in a hotel and it was even better than the first time and the girls really enjoyed each other. We have also met another couple a few times and the experience was very similar. Both couples have become good friends and have met socially as well as to play. We have struggled to find many other couples who want to get to know us first and just want to go straight to sex, but we have taken a break for a bit and not tried as hard as we could. Mrs has found that she gets really turned on by other women and playing together, but we have yet to meet the rare unicorn! Do they exist? We did meet a local couple and had a bit of a strange experience. We met in the pub and they came back to ours. In the pub Mrs said she didn’t feel quite right, but thought it was just the wine. At home, Mrs said she felt quite drowsy and the women in the other couple did seem out of it. We are not sure whether drinks were spiked, but we made our excuses and said bye. It did put us off looking for a while, until we met one of the couples we had previously met and our faith and desire to continue came back! Our experience has on the whole been great. It has opened up our sex life and enhanced it. We have met some great people and had mind blowing sex. We fancy trying a club again, but probably couples only nights. The one bad experience, did make us wary and in hindsight we should have gone with our first instincts in the pub and gone home. We are still very inexperienced, but hope other people can learn from our adventure. Happy fabbing people, stay safe and get in touch if you fancy getting to know us and hopefully meeting after lockdown. H and J xxx The cpls only nights are better as no single guys who always try to cop a feel. But you do get fbs teaming up to act as proper cpls to play with you so something to watch out for. " Thanks for the tip. Any couples nights you can suggest? We are in Derby, but happy to travel, when we can. Also any clubs where you can stay over? | |||
"Lovely story, apart from the scary bit...! But we have all had bad experiences and you will learn from them. Unfortunately, if you get them early on, it can distort your view of swinging. Luckily you have recognised that and still want to continue in this strange hobby we all have here...!
Yes, it does make you more aware of why people act in different ways. Also interesting when it’s obvious one person in the couple is more up for swapping than the other!" | |||
"Thank you for sharing your story, we had a similar start to our lifestyle adventure. We’ve always taken things slowly, insisting on socials to get to know another couple when we haven’t been to club. Covid isn’t helping at the moment. H&C Lovely story, apart from the scary bit...! But we have all had bad experiences and you will learn from them. Unfortunately, if you get them early on, it can distort your view of swinging. Luckily you have recognised that and still want to continue in this strange hobby we all have here...!
Yes, it does make you more aware of why people act in different ways. Also interesting when it’s obvious one person in the couple is more up for swapping than the other!" | |||
"Afternoon all! We hope this is the right place to post this? We wanted to share our experiences and adventure of joining this lifestyle. We got into swinging after spending a night in the pub together. We got talking about having sex with other people and agreed we both got turned on thinking about seeing each other with other people. That night, we went on instinct to the attic, in Derby. We got a taxi and picked up some wine and arrived with excitement and a lot of nerves. We were shown around and found a quite place for a chat with each other. We both said, wow, this is full on, are we mad, are we attractive enough? We both said fuck it and went outside for a cigarette and got chatting. Our nerves calmed. Mrs got chatting to a guy from a couple, who she found really attractive and introduced us to his other half and they explained how it worked and to relax (we didn’t get their names, but they said fab was the place to meet people. They were genuinely friendly and showed us the ropes, thanks, whoever you are!). We joined them in the hot tub and hands started wandering. There was 4 of us and a single guy in the hot tub. Single guy started to touch Mrs and the guy from the couple told him to leave it, Mrs was really appreciative because she was not quite ready for multiple hands at the time. Eventually, all 4 of us went to a private room and started to play. Mrs went to find the toilet and was a bit freaked by a few of the single guys. We enjoyed ourselves with the other couple and then left the club. Mrs was not comfortable with single blokes trying to grab her without permission. It was a great experience, but we found it a bit overwhelming and therefore probably not quite ready for it. We did however, have great sex at home after! This didn’t put us off and we joined Fab the same night and got talking to couples. After chatting on here and WhatsApp we decided to meet a couple. They came to ours and we hit it off straight away. We went to the pub and had a few drinks and did a lot of flirting. It was great and we were all desperate to get home. We played the game nookii to get things going and it wasn’t long until we were all over each other. It was a great night and we all fucked in our big bed until the early hours. We have met the same couple again, in a hotel and it was even better than the first time and the girls really enjoyed each other. We have also met another couple a few times and the experience was very similar. Both couples have become good friends and have met socially as well as to play. We have struggled to find many other couples who want to get to know us first and just want to go straight to sex, but we have taken a break for a bit and not tried as hard as we could. Mrs has found that she gets really turned on by other women and playing together, but we have yet to meet the rare unicorn! Do they exist? We did meet a local couple and had a bit of a strange experience. We met in the pub and they came back to ours. In the pub Mrs said she didn’t feel quite right, but thought it was just the wine. At home, Mrs said she felt quite drowsy and the women in the other couple did seem out of it. We are not sure whether drinks were spiked, but we made our excuses and said bye. It did put us off looking for a while, until we met one of the couples we had previously met and our faith and desire to continue came back! Our experience has on the whole been great. It has opened up our sex life and enhanced it. We have met some great people and had mind blowing sex. We fancy trying a club again, but probably couples only nights. The one bad experience, did make us wary and in hindsight we should have gone with our first instincts in the pub and gone home. We are still very inexperienced, but hope other people can learn from our adventure. Happy fabbing people, stay safe and get in touch if you fancy getting to know us and hopefully meeting after lockdown. H and J xxx The cpls only nights are better as no single guys who always try to cop a feel. But you do get fbs teaming up to act as proper cpls to play with you so something to watch out for. Thanks for the tip. Any couples nights you can suggest? We are in Derby, but happy to travel, when we can. Also any clubs where you can stay over?" Chameleons in Darlaston they have rooms you can stay in as well, they don't tolerate bad behaviour and the staff are absolutely great | |||
"Afternoon all! We hope this is the right place to post this? We wanted to share our experiences and adventure of joining this lifestyle. We got into swinging after spending a night in the pub together. We got talking about having sex with other people and agreed we both got turned on thinking about seeing each other with other people. That night, we went on instinct to the attic, in Derby. We got a taxi and picked up some wine and arrived with excitement and a lot of nerves. We were shown around and found a quite place for a chat with each other. We both said, wow, this is full on, are we mad, are we attractive enough? We both said fuck it and went outside for a cigarette and got chatting. Our nerves calmed. Mrs got chatting to a guy from a couple, who she found really attractive and introduced us to his other half and they explained how it worked and to relax (we didn’t get their names, but they said fab was the place to meet people. They were genuinely friendly and showed us the ropes, thanks, whoever you are!). We joined them in the hot tub and hands started wandering. There was 4 of us and a single guy in the hot tub. Single guy started to touch Mrs and the guy from the couple told him to leave it, Mrs was really appreciative because she was not quite ready for multiple hands at the time. Eventually, all 4 of us went to a private room and started to play. Mrs went to find the toilet and was a bit freaked by a few of the single guys. We enjoyed ourselves with the other couple and then left the club. Mrs was not comfortable with single blokes trying to grab her without permission. It was a great experience, but we found it a bit overwhelming and therefore probably not quite ready for it. We did however, have great sex at home after! This didn’t put us off and we joined Fab the same night and got talking to couples. After chatting on here and WhatsApp we decided to meet a couple. They came to ours and we hit it off straight away. We went to the pub and had a few drinks and did a lot of flirting. It was great and we were all desperate to get home. We played the game nookii to get things going and it wasn’t long until we were all over each other. It was a great night and we all fucked in our big bed until the early hours. We have met the same couple again, in a hotel and it was even better than the first time and the girls really enjoyed each other. We have also met another couple a few times and the experience was very similar. Both couples have become good friends and have met socially as well as to play. We have struggled to find many other couples who want to get to know us first and just want to go straight to sex, but we have taken a break for a bit and not tried as hard as we could. Mrs has found that she gets really turned on by other women and playing together, but we have yet to meet the rare unicorn! Do they exist? We did meet a local couple and had a bit of a strange experience. We met in the pub and they came back to ours. In the pub Mrs said she didn’t feel quite right, but thought it was just the wine. At home, Mrs said she felt quite drowsy and the women in the other couple did seem out of it. We are not sure whether drinks were spiked, but we made our excuses and said bye. It did put us off looking for a while, until we met one of the couples we had previously met and our faith and desire to continue came back! Our experience has on the whole been great. It has opened up our sex life and enhanced it. We have met some great people and had mind blowing sex. We fancy trying a club again, but probably couples only nights. The one bad experience, did make us wary and in hindsight we should have gone with our first instincts in the pub and gone home. We are still very inexperienced, but hope other people can learn from our adventure. Happy fabbing people, stay safe and get in touch if you fancy getting to know us and hopefully meeting after lockdown. H and J xxx" Am not gonna lie. Swinging as a couple is initially a daunting and sometimes scary thing. As a single it was soooooo much easier. Only one person to consider and whomever you meet. To be honest the social aspect for us is a huge draw. The swinging has taken a lot of communication and being honest with each other, so we are finally on the same page. Am glad you didnt let your bad experience taint your opinion. And that you spotted it and had the sense to remove yourself from the situation. We love clubs and they are a great and non pressured way to meet new singles and couples that are on the same wavelength. We love jaydees, such a lovely enviroment. but attempt to try new clubs as often as we can. Curse the fucking rona!!!!!! Take your time. Be patient and honest and above all.....enjoy J  | |||
