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Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
^ mostly this......but I wouldn't want or expect him/her to want to spend whole days or nights together. |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx
^ mostly this......but I wouldn't want or expect him/her to want to spend whole days or nights together."
I’d agree with this. |
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"Again... the female perspective is spot on... seems I'm flogging a dead horse... stallion or gelding is neither here nor there lol  "
Then its time to move on. I get its meant to be what both ppl want so if theres no room for how you want things to go why bother? |
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"Again... the female perspective is spot on... seems I'm flogging a dead horse... stallion or gelding is neither here nor there lol
Then its time to move on. I get its meant to be what both ppl want so if theres no room for how you want things to go why bother? "
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"Again... the female perspective is spot on... seems I'm flogging a dead horse... stallion or gelding is neither here nor there lol "
When I was active on the scene I used to look for this. Pointless. Their interest in me rarely extended beyond the bedroom.
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Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material. "
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material? |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person"
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person"
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person"
So FWBs have no commitment of responsibility for each other. That's just casual sex isn't it? |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
This just me personally but as fwb i dont mind who else they sleep with but if its a relationship then i’d want full exclusive commitment. If swinging came up later on in our relationship then we’d have to try and work through the process of doing that. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
This just me personally but as fwb i dont mind who else they sleep with but if its a relationship then i’d want full exclusive commitment. If swinging came up later on in our relationship then we’d have to try and work through the process of doing that. "
Ok, I can understand that as long as it's mutual. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person
So FWBs have no commitment of responsibility for each other. That's just casual sex isn't it?"
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person
So FWBs have no commitment of responsibility for each other. That's just casual sex isn't it?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve been lucky enough to have some amazing fwb. A fwb is someone I am completely open with, they know all about me. We are friends first and foremost and enjoy doing things together such as going for a walk or cooking together etc and then the sex is a major bonus. Kind of like a relationship but without the commitments. A lot get fwb and fuck buddys mixed up |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person
So FWBs have no commitment of responsibility for each other. That's just casual sex isn't it?"
I guess as a friend but nothing to heavy emotionally |
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"I’ve been lucky enough to have some amazing fwb. A fwb is someone I am completely open with, they know all about me. We are friends first and foremost and enjoy doing things together such as going for a walk or cooking together etc and then the sex is a major bonus. Kind of like a relationship but without the commitments. A lot get fwb and fuck buddys mixed up "
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"I’ve been lucky enough to have some amazing fwb. A fwb is someone I am completely open with, they know all about me. We are friends first and foremost and enjoy doing things together such as going for a walk or cooking together etc and then the sex is a major bonus. Kind of like a relationship but without the commitments. A lot get fwb and fuck buddys mixed up "
So no expectation of it lasting longer than a limited period? |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
Some level of commitment and, responsibility for the other person
So FWBs have no commitment of responsibility for each other. That's just casual sex isn't it?
I guess as a friend but nothing to heavy emotionally "
I think the reason I struggle to understand the concept is that I see it as ascribing less "value" to a fwb. What's "heavy emotionally" ? If someone requires their feelings to be taken in to account or when they start looking at wedding venues? Is it that both people expect the relationship to end at some point? |
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Have had 2 Fwb we could meet and have a laugh over a drink
We could also have pure sex meets just depended on how we felt ?
Above all we had trust between us so that we could experience new things together that they didn’t want to do first time with a stranger ?
Also could invite to meet with couples or go to parities with so all in all it worked |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
I really should have proof read this, many autocorrect typos, sorry xx |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
You fancy them but don’t trust them to be faithful / have the same ambitions in life? Many aspects to a relationship to consider but having a laugh and fucking is far more simplistic. Xx |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
Yes exactly that. One way to tell is by the messaging in what’s app , if there’s long periods of no chatting then a flurry of sexting, arranging to meet up , often not even the whole night, and a few ‘how great was that’ messages a day or two after, it’s a FB. With a FWB you talk regularly and personally and do many other things together other than just have sex |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx
I really should have proof read this, many autocorrect typos, sorry xx"
It reads find to me  .
What would you expect from a "relationship" that was different to your description? |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
You fancy them but don’t trust them to be faithful / have the same ambitions in life? Many aspects to a relationship to consider but having a laugh and fucking is far more simplistic. Xx"
OK, I thought it was accepted that a fwb would have sex with other people. |
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"I’ve been lucky enough to have some amazing fwb. A fwb is someone I am completely open with, they know all about me. We are friends first and foremost and enjoy doing things together such as going for a walk or cooking together etc and then the sex is a major bonus. Kind of like a relationship but without the commitments. A lot get fwb and fuck buddys mixed up "
Agree with this. 8 years I’ve had a fwb. Neither of us want a relationship. Talk most days, meet when life allows. Closest friend ever had and the sex is amazing. Certainly not a FB. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
For me, circumstances. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
For me, circumstances."
Ok. What I'm understanding from all this is that it means different things to different people. |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
Yes this x |
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I see a FWB as a sort of relationship but without commitment. Friends, lovers and not without rights but not a wife.
I would like this as exploring sexually needs trust and understanding which I would be unlikely to find in one night. Not wanting to replace marriage though.
That's my interpretation! |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx
^ mostly this......but I wouldn't want or expect him/her to want to spend whole days or nights together."
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Yes please and believe it or not. most the time it doesn’t have to be about sex
It’s more about the person you’re with and how heavily they make you laugh. Also the moment where you look at the time and say where has all hours gone. Now that is great |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?"
I am not sure it's about being the right material, but the right frame of mind. I want a FWB. As stated above, go out, chat, friendly...and have sex.
The difference I see between relationship and FWB is that there is NO drama involved.
In a relationship, there are the day to day things to sort out...who does dishes, upset that the other didn't do x, y, or z.
FWB is the relationship part without any of that. Drama? move on. Don't like it? leave.
It can be close, but is not a thing where I'm in love so will put up with the little things I ordinarily would get pissed off at over time (ie--underwear on the floor, drinks milk out of the jug, etc).
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"Yes please and believe it or not. most the time it doesn’t have to be about sex
It’s more about the person you’re with and how heavily they make you laugh. Also the moment where you look at the time and say where has all hours gone. Now that is great "
Totally agree with you, it's like having a naughty self to laugh with and you often find them without ever looking. |
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
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For me its what it says on the tin. Its someone im friends with, who I also have a sexual connection with.
Its not just a fuck and go. We talk about life and get along in general, outside of sexual activities. We spend a bit more time together to generate a better connection, understanding and comfort level with each other so we can explore fantasies that require that extra bit of depth. |
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"Someone to have laughs with, talk with, just a regular friend however there's a big sexual attraction between you two but for whatever reasons you're not in that frame of mind to be in a relationship or you probably don't see each other as relationship material.
This is what I don't get. What's the difference between FWB material and relationship material?
For me, circumstances.
Ok. What I'm understanding from all this is that it means different things to different people. "
Exactly this, the fundamental foundations between both parties is to communicate your expectations of fwb. Everybody has different prepectives and fwb is not defined unless you both communicate with each other. |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
Yup, I agree |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx
^ mostly this......but I wouldn't want or expect him/her to want to spend whole days or nights together."
Sounds like marriage if u ask me |
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Being married, another fulltime relationship would be kind of complicated but an ideal is a fwb who I can chill and socialise with and enjoy all the couples stuff with but both knowing theres a dividing line of falling for each other is to be avoided. |
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"Someone I talk to regularly about general life a not just sex, someone who I enjoy meeting for the social aspect as much as the sex, someone I'll spend whole days or nights with. They not personal things about me and my life, but we still have sex regularly as well.
As opposed to a fuck buddy where it's just a booty call every few weeks to turn up, exchange pleasantries, fuck, and go home. Xx"
Exactly this. The idea is FRIENDS with benefits not just the benefits. Myself and mine enjoy each others company, we know we can both reach out to each other if we need an ear, it's the ideal FWB scenario. We also go out for food and drinks and have even been on holiday together 
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