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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ever had any swinging regrets like missed a party or missed a couple, we missed a club night once because of an argument and from all reports was one of the best nights there
We have a rule now, no regrets life is short
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Loads.
Meeting my ex. I would never want any harm to come of him but my life ain't gonna be the same again and my hopes of having another relationship are down the shitter. The damage done is too deep.
I've put myself in a fair few dodgy situations that I was a complete fucking tool to do so.
Watching friends relationships turn to dust due to 3rd party infiltration. I regret not being able to help or knock some sense into them.
Mainly I regret trusting people. |
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No, not really. I very occasionally wonder how different things would have been if I'd been less cautious but then I see some of the awful things that have happened to people and feel glad I wasn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads.
Meeting my ex. I would never want any harm to come of him but my life ain't gonna be the same again and my hopes of having another relationship are down the shitter. The damage done is too deep.
I've put myself in a fair few dodgy situations that I was a complete fucking tool to do so.
Watching friends relationships turn to dust due to 3rd party infiltration. I regret not being able to help or knock some sense into them.
Mainly I regret trusting people."
My regrets have been more the negatives rather than things I’ve missed too. I’ve left some swinging situations wonder why I’ve done it |
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Not meeting a couple together but instead meeting mf and mf at the same time at 2 different locations.
Wife and him got along fantastically
Myself and her... She turned up late and said "thought I'd just say thank you for covering for me. I'm off for a date with my bf that hubby doesn't know about"
I called wifey to tell her and she had her phone on loudspeaker... He found out... |
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I don't want to regret anything I've done swinging and I've been fairly out there. I move on from things I no longer want and it can soon seem like a distant dream. There's always a lot more that I'd like than I've changed interests from. There are always more people to get to know too. If things can seem not quite so positive in the short term, there can be gains too, even if I'm scratching my head trying to work out what they are. Freedom to be yourself is priceless |
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This is two years ago when my time on the site was in its nascency. Was invited by a two women to join them at a club for a hot tub party. It would've been my very first club visit and I suppose I got cold feet (oddly enough) about going in at the deep end. Sometimes I wonder if I missed the boat on that one. |
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"This is two years ago when my time on the site was in its nascency. Was invited by a two women to join them at a club for a hot tub party. It would've been my very first club visit and I suppose I got cold feet (oddly enough) about going in at the deep end. Sometimes I wonder if I missed the boat on that one. "
Who knows, there's not much point in wondering what if? It might have been awful and you'd be telling us how much you regretted doing it |
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Oh for sure. I was kicking myself for a bit. But eventually I got over it. The one that Does sometimes come across as a regret is this one particular member who I really was rather smitten with tbh. We had plentiful contact, in fact still do stay in touch cordially. Came within a whisker of meeting if it weren't for locations not working out. Then I ended up meeting my now partner so that former wish has been parked, a what if that is the only one probably I wish had happened. Oh well, can't complain. Everything happens for a reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Telling vanilla dates I'm a swinger
get judged either way but it doesn't get me a second date"
Can't believe anyone wouldn't want a second date with a gorgeous person like you. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not meeting a couple together but instead meeting mf and mf at the same time at 2 different locations.
Wife and him got along fantastically
Myself and her... She turned up late and said "thought I'd just say thank you for covering for me. I'm off for a date with my bf that hubby doesn't know about"
I called wifey to tell her and she had her phone on loudspeaker... He found out..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loads.
Meeting my ex. I would never want any harm to come of him but my life ain't gonna be the same again and my hopes of having another relationship are down the shitter. The damage done is too deep.
I've put myself in a fair few dodgy situations that I was a complete fucking tool to do so.
Watching friends relationships turn to dust due to 3rd party infiltration. I regret not being able to help or knock some sense into them.
Mainly I regret trusting people."
Felt some sadness there.
Hope things improve for you or have already.
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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Regret only comes if you are unhappy in the place you are now. We have had the odd meet that was not particularly enjoyable but we use them as a learning experience. We are both very much in love with each other and up until lockdown both enjoy our liberated sex life. So would not change a thing x |
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"Not meeting a couple together but instead meeting mf and mf at the same time at 2 different locations.
Wife and him got along fantastically
Myself and her... She turned up late and said "thought I'd just say thank you for covering for me. I'm off for a date with my bf that hubby doesn't know about"
I called wifey to tell her and she had her phone on loudspeaker... He found out...
How did you feel about being the ‘cover’? "
Not gonna lie I was pissed off. This was before we were on fabs and they were people we'd known in real life for a while.
They came to us and it was her that offered the whole situation. She'd thought through the whole thing |
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"Not meeting a couple together but instead meeting mf and mf at the same time at 2 different locations.
Wife and him got along fantastically
Myself and her... She turned up late and said "thought I'd just say thank you for covering for me. I'm off for a date with my bf that hubby doesn't know about"
I called wifey to tell her and she had her phone on loudspeaker... He found out...
How did you feel about being the ‘cover’?
Not gonna lie I was pissed off. This was before we were on fabs and they were people we'd known in real life for a while.
They came to us and it was her that offered the whole situation. She'd thought through the whole thing"
Not following really - you arranged to swap and the other lady turned up and said it’s not happening? While your wife carried on?  |
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