Hey folks, I wish we could upload pics on the forums so you could see what I mean. On Google pic when you type in curvy ladys, they have 2 pics side by side..one pic has a lady with a completely flat stomach a bit of a curve round the hips and would say roughly a size 12, that pic quotes "this is curvy". The other pic has a lady with a filler tummy curvy hips and thighs and a few wobbly bits, and that pic quotes "this is fat"...it angered me so much so I want to know your definition on what you think curvy is?
I don't consider myself fat, but more curvy with a few lumps and bumps but as said according to Google...I'm fat lol...loads of ladies on here who have fuller bodies but are beautiful and very sexy, and I'm sick of us being made to feel the total opposite by media,society and other women shaming us. So let's here your views. |
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You should never feel like that ever by looking at ur pics your very beautiful and sexy
And please do go by google as there’s a lot off tricks to a pic
Ie you can get hour glass underbust corset type things that basically suck in the belly and make the hips seems wider
Also photo shops as well
Honestly woman have it so bad for body image even down to clothes
I have found this for my self shop one place and 10 fits me perfect fine for dress and stuff but if I shop in a nother place got to Order a 14 and some a 12
Honestly it’s so hard but hugs from me hopefully we can make you feel a little better about ur self xxx |
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"You should never feel like that ever by looking at ur pics your very beautiful and sexy
And please do go by google as there’s a lot off tricks to a pic
Ie you can get hour glass underbust corset type things that basically suck in the belly and make the hips seems wider
Also photo shops as well
Honestly woman have it so bad for body image even down to clothes
I have found this for my self shop one place and 10 fits me perfect fine for dress and stuff but if I shop in a nother place got to Order a 14 and some a 12
Honestly it’s so hard but hugs from me hopefully we can make you feel a little better about ur self xxx"
Meant don’t go by google can’t delete and re write |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's like saying define what attractive is, I saw a photo of Britney spears and it said this is hot and next to her was a picture of Taylor swift and it said this is not... That's the authors oppion and a lot of peoples opinions will be different somone wants to class themselfs as curvey than there curvy, wanna class yourself as athletic then that's what we will go with makes no difference to me what they call there body shape as long as there not deliberately miss leading people and altering there pics to catfish people |
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Curvy is classically a small waist, with hips and tits. This is what we regard as curvy. Lately it’s been taken as a way to describe bigger girls. We think there needs to be far more definitions for body types on this site especially. |
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"Anyone with strong proportions I think. Could be a slim hourglass or a full figured BBW xx"
Which is just utterly useless as a descriptor. Those two body types are not the same thing by a long way. So to use one word for both is not sensible on a swinging site. |
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"Anyone with strong proportions I think. Could be a slim hourglass or a full figured BBW xx
Which is just utterly useless as a descriptor. Those two body types are not the same thing by a long way. So to use one word for both is not sensible on a swinging site."
Do we need words to label ourselves with? There's pictures to look at of actual body shapes and if you're interested in a profile but it lacks pictures showing what you want to see, you can always ask nicely in a message. I'd assume anyone not wanting to show you what they look like before meeting isn't suited for meeting with. |
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I'm not curvy, I'm properly full-on fat. If someone wants to call that curvy then I don't have an issue (I certainly have curves), but it's not how I'd describe myself. Mind you, the body type scale on here seems to have "fabulous" as the largest end of the scale and I wouldn't describe myself as that either!
I have enough photos up for people to make up their own minds - as long as I'm not trying to catfish I'm not particularly concerned how someone else chooses to think of my body, either on here or on Google. |
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I'm really taken back by the lovely comments on here, so thankyou...I just think that labelling women adds a lot of pressure and anxiety when there shouldn't be, the term BBW really annoyes me but only because you don't ever see the term SBW ( skinny beautiful woman) its terms like these that make us feel different...we are just the same but with extra bits lol xx |
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"I'm really taken back by the lovely comments on here, so thankyou...I just think that labelling women adds a lot of pressure and anxiety when there shouldn't be, the term BBW really annoyes me but only because you don't ever see the term SBW ( skinny beautiful woman) its terms like these that make us feel different...we are just the same but with extra bits lol xx"
I hate BBW because I don't want to be fetishised for my weight. I want to be appreciated for who I am as a whole (but not just as a hole!) |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Curvy to me is, where are they on the curve of the binomial intellect distribution curve.
Purely physical sex, is... give me an metaphor?
Holistic sex, well.. let’s talk about loosing cognitive thought and all that involves. |
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I class myself as curvy (I’m a size 20 with serious bangers!!) I’m, I feel....in proportion all over but I can’t stand the term BBW.... I hate it! I feel like I should be in a fat section of a crap shop! Class yourself as whatever you feel comfortable with and at the end of the day if you have it, flaunt it and own it! X |
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"I'm really taken back by the lovely comments on here, so thankyou...I just think that labelling women adds a lot of pressure and anxiety when there
shouldn't be, the term BBW really annoyes me but only because you don't ever see the term SBW ( skinny beautiful woman) its terms like these that make us feel different...we are just the same but with extra bits lol xx
I hate BBW because I don't want to be fetishised for my weight. I want to be appreciated for who I am as a whole (but not just as a hole!)"
I love this, and your spot on...xx |
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"I class myself as curvy (I’m a size 20 with serious bangers!!) I’m, I feel....in proportion all over but I can’t stand the term BBW.... I hate it! I feel like I should be in a fat section of a crap shop! Class yourself as whatever you feel comfortable with and at the end of the day if you have it, flaunt it and own it! X"
Its taken me years to be comfortable with being completely naked in front of my hubby,used to hide my tummy with a vest during sex, but since joining fab my confidence is slowly coming out...taking the pics and vids is a huge deal for me, and although I might look confident, I'm bricking it lol...but it is getting better and thats thanks to many other women out there who flaunt it, so I'm teaching myself why can't I..and I'm sure there are still women on here who have a really hard time on here with confidence regardless of their size, so I hope they see this and realise they are beautiful.xx |
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"Curvy is classically a small waist, with hips and tits. This is what we regard as curvy. Lately it’s been taken as a way to describe bigger girls. We think
there needs to be far more definitions for body types on this site especially."
I have to disagree, I don't see anything about a small waist with hips and ties as curvy..if I had to be described or labeled with anything. I would prefer curvy....but what you would class me is bbw or just fat...you have a beautiful perfect figure, yes? Who's to say my figure or anyone else's fugure is not perfect and beautiful...oh thats right...media, society, fashion...have you any idea how it feels to walk into a shop that does up to size 18 from size 6....to find a whole selection of styles and colours for up to size 12, 14 if lucky...then anything bigger is bland and frumpy....these are the types of things that make us bigger ladies feel inferior to you smaller women who everything says that's the way you should look....its awful. |
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You can be 6 ft and a size 22 and be curvy. You can be 5ft0 and a size 8 and still have curves.
There is no exact.
Jo.Xx 
