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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Interested to hear from cuckold couples, and particularly the husband,how they deal with the fallout (if at all) when she becomes too attached to her bull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as the fem in the cuckold couple i can say it will never happen cuckolding is about fun and sex im still 100% committed to my marriage and husband just not his cock |
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I'd personally hate it if my involvement with a couple contributed to any complications in their relationship.
That's why there have always been lines that I try not to cross. Although I absoloutly looooove it when cuckolds get jealous it only works for me if its within a dynamic that enhances the fun that everyone is having. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
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"I'd personally hate it if my involvement with a couple contributed to any complications in their relationship.
That's why there have always been lines that I try not to cross. Although I absoloutly looooove it when cuckolds get jealous it only works for me if its within a dynamic that enhances the fun that everyone is having."
Well said.
Mixture of feelings is part of the excitement for the cuckold fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met people that have developed an emotional attachment to a swinging partner and brought them into the relationship, 3 way, one had kids, can’t understand it my self but each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as the fem in the cuckold couple i can say it will never happen cuckolding is about fun and sex im still 100% committed to my marriage and husband just not his cock "
Same for me. I've never had any emotional connection with all the men I've had sex with since swinging. My connection with hubby is deep and absolute, he'll always come first xx |
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is there a touch of guilt with two emphatic replies so far as they seem to take offence at the question.
there are bound to be some out there who will take it to heart when the female makes strong feeling to the bull, these are the one that the question is aimed at |
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"Interested to hear from cuckold couples, and particularly the husband,how they deal with the fallout (if at all) when she becomes too attached to her bull."
I find this quite a sexist question! Lol why would a woman get attached to her bull when she most likely has a wonderful husband whom she respects? The couples I’ve had conversation with about this are grounded and boundaries are set at the start.
Ridiculous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interested to hear from cuckold couples, and particularly the husband,how they deal with the fallout (if at all) when she becomes too attached to her bull.
I find this quite a sexist question! Lol why would a woman get attached to her bull when she most likely has a wonderful husband whom she respects? The couples I’ve had conversation with about this are grounded and boundaries are set at the start.
Ridiculous! "
I (mrs) don't want any emotional strings with people that we play with..it's just sex. If emotional connections start to form i would start to question why..my husband is the only one i want that connection with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as the fem in the cuckold couple i can say it will never happen cuckolding is about fun and sex im still 100% committed to my marriage and husband just not his cock "
well said |
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Happened to me a couple of years ago. The wife of the couple I used to see on a regular basis got really close to me. Too close that it almost ended their marriage. Things got ridiculously awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened to me a couple of years ago. The wife of the couple I used to see on a regular basis got really close to me. Too close that it almost ended their marriage. Things got ridiculously awkward "
Blimey you’re brave saying this, dontcha know that couples on fabs are stronger than superglue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened to me a couple of years ago. The wife of the couple I used to see on a regular basis got really close to me. Too close that it almost ended their marriage. Things got ridiculously awkward
Blimey you’re brave saying this, dontcha know that couples on fabs are stronger than superglue."
as many bad relationships on fab as in the real world that won't change.. people doing things for the wrong reason wont change either... |
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"Happened to me a couple of years ago. The wife of the couple I used to see on a regular basis got really close to me. Too close that it almost ended their marriage. Things got ridiculously awkward
Blimey you’re brave saying this, dontcha know that couples on fabs are stronger than superglue.
as many bad relationships on fab as in the real world that won't change.. people doing things for the wrong reason wont change either... "
Exactly true. |
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"I'd personally hate it if my involvement with a couple contributed to any complications in their relationship.
That's why there have always been lines that I try not to cross. Although I absoloutly looooove it when cuckolds get jealous it only works for me if its within a dynamic that enhances the fun that everyone is having.
Well said.
Mixture of feelings is part of the excitement for the cuckold fun."
Exactly my perspective mmmm |
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From my perspective as a single male it depends what a couple means by no emotional attachments.
To me emotional attachment at the level of a work colleague is just about the right balance. You really enjoy each others company at work, during lunch breaks and may even enjoy each other company on occasional nights out. But generally speaking its out of sight out of mind when you head home for the day.
Any level of connection lower than that would be of no interest to me unless it was a one off chance meet at a club.
We all have our own definitions but to my mind the whole point of cuckold play is flirting a teeny bit dangerously with emotions. But it has to be done responsibly with 150% transparency and the motives of everyone involved needs to be fully vetted and understood.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened to me a couple of years ago. The wife of the couple I used to see on a regular basis got really close to me. Too close that it almost ended their marriage. Things got ridiculously awkward
Blimey you’re brave saying this, dontcha know that couples on fabs are stronger than superglue."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my perspective as a single male it depends what a couple means by no emotional attachments.
To me emotional attachment at the level of a work colleague is just about the right balance. You really enjoy each others company at work, during lunch breaks and may even enjoy each other company on occasional nights out. But generally speaking its out of sight out of mind when you head home for the day.
Any level of connection lower than that would be of no interest to me unless it was a one off chance meet at a club.
We all have our own definitions but to my mind the whole point of cuckold play is flirting a teeny bit dangerously with emotions. But it has to be done responsibly with 150% transparency and the motives of everyone involved needs to be fully vetted and understood.
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Love this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are not a cuck couple, but both agreed that once any emotional attachment starts to form with a partner outside of our relationship, then it needs to stop. "
Isn't that too late? |
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