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Could be a variety of things but im guessing from experience the most common is fear of rejection. Also if you've had a great build up, might not turn out to be as great as you expected  |
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"Just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on why people get nervous before a meet?
I've not had one yet and would be nervous but no idea why haha"
You’re a human being with natural feelings and emotions, not a robot. Nerves are perfectly normal  |
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"Just wondering if anyone has any thoughts on why people get nervous before a meet?
I've not had one yet and would be nervous but no idea why haha
You’re a human being with natural feelings and emotions, not a robot. Nerves are perfectly normal "
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I get nervous when I'm meeting people in a normal situation. We haven't met anyone yet but I'd be nervous that we didn't have a connection or I wouldn't fancy them as much as I was hoping etc.
My brain can generally make up anxiety about most situations. I guess it depends on what you're like in normal life to. |
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Will they like me.What if I say something stupid.Will the conversation flow naturally or will there be empty spaces.What if there weird.What if I don't like them.Are they dangerous.This list can go on and on  |
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I get nervous because it doesn’t matter how long I’ve been talking to them or if we’ve had a social, I still don’t know how the meet itself will go. There’s no way of knowing if the sex will be good, or even if I might come to harm, so yes I’m always nervous beforehand.
Of course, there’s the nervous excitement of anticipation as well, and I get those butterflies when meeting my FWB even after how long we’ve been meeting. |
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I’ve only been actively nervous before 2 meets, and both of them I’d been speaking to for a while.
I think random meets with no connection don’t give me any nerves. But if I feel any connection outside of just lust with the person (potential fwb type thing) then the nerves kick in. |
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It's natural to be nervous before a meet. Will they like me? Will I like them? Will I be able to perform? Will we be able to chat in person? All worries that usually melt away as soon as you meet but still will haunt you pre meet. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Getting nervous before a meet is all part of the anticipation of meeting, it makes little difference whether we have met them before or not. We feel if/when that nervousness and anticipation goes the meets become routine and loose their edge. |
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