... had a bearing on you choosing this lifestyle?
While we were out with another couple in the pub last night the conversation came round to our lifestyle choice. Although they are not swingers they know we do.
We came to the conclusion that both myself and the hubby, being brought up in the sixties/seventies by parents who were hippies had a lot to do with the the way we think about sex.
There was never any hang ups about nudity, sex was not regarded as an act of love, more a fun activity much the same way as dancing with someone else.
My parents never hid the fact that they enjoyed this sort of lifestyle I think has instilled this on me. |
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Yes it has to a certain extent as my dear old mum was a bit libertine even back in the fifties and that has rubbed off on me and my genes along with the addictive personality and mental health issues so thanks mum one out of three isn’t too bad I suppose.
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"Based on that then there is no correlation, as I had an upbringing which was the polar opposite to a hippy lifestyle!"
My parents made no secret of it and weekends as a teenager quite often there would be another couple sharing their bed who joined us for breakfast. Our kids have no idea how we live our life as far as we know and they are so different from us so much so that when I was on holiday with my daughter she was so shocked at me sunbathing topless |
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"Based on that then there is no correlation, as I had an upbringing which was the polar opposite to a hippy lifestyle!"
This was also true of my upbringing.My mother would have been horrified by my swinging antics!
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In a way yes me and my mum were very close, I could tell her anything and she would never judge me but try and guide me.
We used to have so many laughs as she had a very dirty mind, she even asked my advice on what you to get herself when she was single  I'll never forget that phone call.
When I told her me and my partner are in this lifestyle she said well I don't really understand it but as long as you are both happy and careful then carry on but don't let it break what you have she was so adorable  |
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My upbringing neither fostered nor inhibited my attitude to sex directly.
Circumstances and experiences played their part but ultimately my personality is mostly accountable.
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