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Definitely not. Need to have contact with ex due to the child but can’t help myself looking at his life and thinking thank god I’m not still with you. Doesn’t drive, still lives with his mum and he can’t seem to hold down a job. I do sometimes find myself wishing I had waited on having kids because things would be so much simpler if hubby was the kids dad |
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"Definitely not. Need to have contact with ex due to the child but can’t help myself looking at his life and thinking thank god I’m not still with you. Doesn’t drive, still lives with his mum and he can’t seem to hold down a job. I do sometimes find myself wishing I had waited on having kids because things would be so much simpler if hubby was the kids dad"
You sure we weren’t with the same man  |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"I would rather staple my genitals together. Though maybe one as we had some great deviant sex  "
I agree with your sentiment for one particular girlfriend who I bought a house and moves in with. In fact she was the catalyst that pushed me towards the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex-wife? There isn't a barge pole long enough!
But there is one ex-girlfriend with whom, in the early stages of our relationship, I had some amazing and inedible sexual experiences, and a part of me wishes we had explored more together, if I'd known about fab at the time. She'd be a definite maybe, lol.
But since then the sexual experiences I've had have surpassed those, and so a part of me just remembers that they are an ex for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sharon C; one of my teenage girlfriends. We had loads of naughty fun and pushed our boundaries. Would love a hook up and see what she is into now
If you’re reading this, send me a message on Facebook |
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By *ratos1Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
"I would rather staple my genitals together. Though maybe one as we had some great deviant sex
I agree with your sentiment for one particular girlfriend who I bought a house and moves in with. In fact she was the catalyst that pushed me towards the lifestyle. "
Towards which lifestyle ? This lifestyle? |
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By *ratos1Man
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
So im going through a "no contact" after breaking up.
I cant seem to stop myself wwnking over over all the time, thinking about swinging scenarios etc involving her.. I hope to god that doesn't carry on.
But no as muxh as I have been playful im now at the stage where I woukdnt go back |
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Not my ex wife, but an ex girlfriend certainly. She was the woman I should’ve married but as she didn’t want children, we both knew it wouldn’t last. I’m happy for her now as she is married and the guy has a daughter from a previous relationship but true to her word never had children herself.
Will love her till the day I die.  |
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"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "
One of my ex's is my brother in laws sister so see her now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of my exes...
One I am friends with on FB and I'm still good friends with her brother
One I have cut ties with completely. The relationship as friends turned out way more toxic than the marriage was. So, we're better off apart
One I count amongst my best friends to this day
One I exchange occasional texts with on birthdays and Christmas
I wouldn't want a sexual relationship with any of them though. Ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One was an alcoholic and gambler , other was mentally abusive , so I’ll definitely take a hard pass on that one! 
I obviously have useless judgment, older and a bit wiser now x |
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"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "
If it's my ex-wife the fuck no. If I was single then there are some women from my past I would be up for seeing again, but I'm very happy as I am. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've often pondered on the idea as one ex meant alot. Would you look back on an ex and say one last sexual experience for old times? "
If you truly are in to the swinging lifestyle then I’m sure that you would.
Me hell yes and have done and still would if I physically could.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it depends on the situation. How you split. What type of relationship you had and what you expect to come of it again. But yes with one I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a weak moment... yes.
Any other time, no. It would confuse things too much and it’s far to recent for it to end in anything other than further heartache.
Thankfully my weak moments I intentionally distract myself with ANYTHING else. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance. She was narrow minded bigot and had her views on things. We slept in separate rooms.for 2 years before I gave up and moved out. Divorce followed another year of trying to make things work. So it's a big no from me about her. Now the one previous to her that's a different matter. Yes I would have one last night of passion with her and not regret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex was a great fuck but bad temperd n impossible too live with, as mum said you can have great sex 3hrs a day but youve got another 21hrs too get on and live with each other xx |
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I had a sexual fling with my ex wife, shortly after getting together with my current wife. We did lots of things that we didn't do while we were married, such as anal and her wearing some very sexy clothes and boots (my fetish). We eventually realised that it really was just sex, she didn't want me back and I was in love with someone else. But we agreed that it had been fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance at all, after 10 years and both very much in love she committed a cardinal sin and betrayed my trust. She hadn't strayed it was something else, but it hit a switch that change it from love, passion and lust to hatred. I couldn't get hard for her if I tried. 10am we were in each others arms post shag, 10.30am we were done. |
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"Yes in my case as my now partner was my boyfriend at 16 years old and we re met 20 years later ... and 7 years on its ace!!!! as for going back to my ex husband gosh no! "
I had a similar opportunity when the girlfriend I had at the age of 16 and dated for 6 years contacted me when she found out I had divorced asking to meet (not necessarily for sex btw). However, I thought about it and eventually said no to which her response was "Hey, no problem. Look after you" 
I suppose that's exactly what I did. In hindsight, I have no regrets and my current lifestyle (and relationship) may never have fully evolved if I had agreed to see her again. Life is too much of an amazing adventure to retrace old tracks.
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