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change of message manner

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ok maybe a couples thing but how many of you have noticed a change in message manner when they find out they are talking to the male half

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They never find out, as we answer in a non unidentifiable way. Unless they just address one of us. Then they get the full wrath of our disgust.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

No change, most just assume it is Mrs responding or online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"They never find out, as we answer in a non unidentifiable way. Unless they just address one of us. Then they get the full wrath of our disgust.

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this

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By *_weadenMan over a year ago

Near Hull

Always assume it’s the Mr. As often the wife is “at work”. Which usually turns out to be 25 hours a day 8 days a week

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

We've had a few that start off all flirty and sexy and then switch to being pretty gruff when they find out it's Rob on the line.

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By *REYTIMBERWOLFMan over a year ago

reading

what about. .........

asking! !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what about. .........

asking! !!!!!"

This is exactly what I do. Address both initially and if I get a reply, ask who I’ll generally be chatting with. It doesn’t make much difference to the messages that follow really, but is always nice to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always state which one of us is replying to a message. Stops any presumptions that way.

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By *rink Me xxWoman over a year ago

Shropshire

I always assume its the male half messaging tbh.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

"We always state which one of us is replying to a message. Stops any presumptions that way.

V "

Nah it's fun to see the presumptions

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By *tickler2000Man over a year ago

St Agnes

I tend to no assume who is typing.

Once I know which one is, then I would aim the conversation at them.

Only natural isn't it?

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By *aughtycp1Couple over a year ago

Leicestershire

A lot of guys assume it's Mr N and only address him in the initial message. I find that very annoying as it's usually me Mrs N x

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By *ovelock4Man over a year ago

Croydon

It’s only polite to address any messages to both members of a couple. If you were speaking to people in person you would.

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

"A lot of guys assume it's Mr N and only address him in the initial message. I find that very annoying as it's usually me Mrs N x"

We have this a lot. It can be amusing when I (John) reply after they’ve said they find me sexy, lots of back tracking!

We always sign off with our names at the end of the message, we feel that’s the easiest war for the guy to know who he’s talking to, and shows we both use the site.

- John

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone assumes it's Mr when in fact it's very rarely him. We try to speak as vaguely as possible most times

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