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"Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF 
Same as us! "
If you're interested it has been written up as a story on here 'How it all started', followed by 'How it all continued' I know... imaginative titles huh!! |
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"Yes our first time was with a friend... MMF
Same as us!
If you're interested it has been written up as a story on here 'How it all started', followed by 'How it all continued' I know... imaginative titles huh!!"
We will have a read and let you know what we think  |
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We did and it did not work. It was with our friends MF. Half way through, a male stopped it as disliked that I was playing with his girlfriend and she enjoyed.
Where Kama also enjoyed playing with him and I had no issues with this. |
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over a year ago
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"I've spoken about this with my playmate recently and she was down to the idea where we each call 2 friends and whatever happens, happens "
Sounds like fun. |
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We are going to do our first mmf with one of my best mates.
We feel really comfortable with him and he gets this stuff.
We have been able to discuss it openly and all.admit our nerves ect.
Its been in the planning for ages now and we are gagging to make it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have had fun with an ex partner and her work collegue/friend. They were started it one night rhey were out on a works do by sending a couple of kissing photos...And then a vidoe of them in the bar. Thought it was horny for sure but just a bit of fun....I was wrong lol |
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Random evening 2019 summer. Husbands friend was over and been through a messy divorce. Always polite to me but flirty. Quite a lot of drink ended up him joining husband and I. Enjoyed it.
Felt a little awkward next day but all cool now. Grown ups and all that. |
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By *omeFreeMan
over a year ago
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20 years ago the Mrs and me had got d*unk at ours with a male friend and called him into the bedroom. Luckily he came and we had some horny fun but it was our first mmf and not knowing better I gave his cock a suck which he didn't appreciate. I still get grief over it to this day. It was the first of many mmfs Im happy to say, though not with him.  |
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Me and my ex wife used to have loads of dirty fun with my wife friends just one couple every weekend we used to go around there house and have a lovely nice drink and started playing spin the bottle and it just went on from there and my god it was fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife wanted a male friend to join us for mfm, all was good for a while,but she wanted him on his own more, until I was totally excluded. It was obvious that she had feelings for him. To cut a long story short,it turned out he was seeing other woman as well. Eventually he dumped my wife by texting me to say he didn't want to meet her anymore. My wife took it badly & said if she couldn't have sex with him anymore she didn't want anyone else, including me.
We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea. |
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By *ertngladCouple
over a year ago
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That should have been a big red flag to you when you were excluded and should have kicked her to the kerb straight away. Never stay in a sexless marriage, its not good for your health, leave her as you have the rest of your life to live, you need to be happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My wife wanted a male friend to join us for mfm, all was good for a while,but she wanted him on his own more, until I was totally excluded. It was obvious that she had feelings for him. To cut a long story short,it turned out he was seeing other woman as well. Eventually he dumped my wife by texting me to say he didn't want to meet her anymore. My wife took it badly & said if she couldn't have sex with him anymore she didn't want anyone else, including me.
We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea. "
Have to agree as feeling might creep in and destroy everything between you all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey,
Has anyone ever invited their real friends to play? Or played with their real friends?
Only asking as our first time was with a friend of his  "
Yes our 1st MMF was a pal of his, hoping after covid to find others to share with
Highly recommended MMF ??
Needs the right dynamics if you involve a friend. |
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Got into the swinging scene in my early 20's with my ex wife.
We were very vanilla friendly with another couple for several years when it suddenly turned sexual.
We'd meet at each other's houses every Saturday for drinks.
Started with the ladies being dared to flash a boob. The next week, the ladies were topless for the whole evening and over a period of a few months it developed into being dared to openly fondle the opposite partner and finally giving a blow job.
We'd sit around for hours watching telly while the ladies kept the guys happy,
One evening we took the next step and swapped partners for full sex. It continued for many years and later developed further with one husband making up a threesome at the other's house.
The next week, a threesome with the other husband....!
Happy days... |
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By *angerineMan
over a year ago
somewhere inbetween the right and wrong |
I've played with an ExGF and her sissy husband- found the profile on here but didn't realise it was her until we swapped face pics.
Was a fantastic night, wish we could do again but it'll be a while yet. |
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"My wife wanted a male friend to join us for mfm, all was good for a while,but she wanted him on his own more, until I was totally excluded. It was obvious that she had feelings for him. To cut a long story short,it turned out he was seeing other woman as well. Eventually he dumped my wife by texting me to say he didn't want to meet her anymore. My wife took it badly & said if she couldn't have sex with him anymore she didn't want anyone else, including me.
We're still together,but in a sexless marriage. So from my point of view, involving friends is not a good idea. "
That would be my fear, too close to home for me. Unfortunate that it’s now left you in a sexless meaningless marriage, maybe for your own mental health you should move on, I’m sure it would be difficult for a few months but you’d soon get your life back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know if I would swing with friends; there’s a fear that it may affect the friendship. That said I have people I have met through swinging and played with who have become friends (and playmates) |
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Even tho one of her mates has been in the scene before and has said she’d join us! X