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What does 'black' mean to you?
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over a year ago
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I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT "
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol |
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol"
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?"
And more to this when you say African do you include North Africa such as Egyptian or Moroccan men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?"
Well I guess its about attraction. If I was attracted to him then yes I guess I would. At the end of the day its really about physical attraction |
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"Depends on his cock size . Haven’t seen too many small black cocks. "
Now thats where the ignorance sets in. You obviously havnt been with many. Im assuming you have as you wouldn't know otherwise. They are notmal human beings with normal cock sizes. I really laugh at guys who say this. Its ridiculous |
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
And more to this when you say African do you include North Africa such as Egyptian or Moroccan men? "
True yes they are African but I mean Nigerian. Etc. Not Egyptian or morroccan. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Well I guess its about attraction. If I was attracted to him then yes I guess I would. At the end of the day its really about physical attraction"
That's at the core of it, yes.
Thanks for your replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Well I guess its about attraction. If I was attracted to him then yes I guess I would. At the end of the day its really about physical attraction
That's at the core of it, yes.
Thanks for your replies. "
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?"
Surely black Jamaican’s are of African origin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Surely black Jamaican’s are of African origin?"
Not all. Some are some arent |
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Surely black Jamaican’s are of African origin?
Not all. Some are some arent"
Where else then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Surely black Jamaican’s are of African origin?
Not all. Some are some arent
Where else then? "
What I was doing with the Jamaican example, was teasing out whether it was about origin, skin tone or both. It seems, it can’t be reduced to either and is more about culture and attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it interesting, when I see a profile that says black men only - no white or mixed race guys. I have absolutely no problem with this. As some of you know, I'm not keen on the fetishisation of colour or blackness, but people fancy who they fancy and there's nothing wrong in that. However, it did lead me to wonder: what does 'black' mean in this context? How dark exactly? When does darker skin become pale enough that it is also a turn off?
Again, I merely pose the question for discussion, not to stir up an already bubbling pot.
TLT
As a black only meter. Maybe I can tell you from my point of view. I like an African man. I dnt meet Asian or mixed or white. Not because I dislike them its through my experiences of African men. That is who I choose to meet. I find them good lovers. I love the colour contrast nothing to do with how big they are. Hope that helps lol
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It does.
Very interesting.
What if the man was dark but not African in origin - say, Jamaican for example?
Surely black Jamaican’s are of African origin?
Not all. Some are some arent
Where else then? "
Im not getting into a culture debate. Go look it up then you can see for yourself if you are really interested you will see for yourself |
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