Going to the club as a single guy is not a bad idea. Most clubs allows this on Fridays.
And believe me, men are wanted there.
You just need to freely talk to the people... so if you are stressed, get a few drinks, but do not get d*unk.
If you have an experienced friend... go with him. |
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Most people assume its gonna be a free for all fuck fest. It's not. They're very social places with lots of wonderful people.
On your own or with a friend they are great places to meet people.
J  |
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If she is only a friend, you both go on Friday and not Saturday. Many couples will quickly spot that you are not a real couple. You might be kicked out.
But if you go on Friday, then you have freedom.
She can help you with a conversation to the other people. |
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It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.
Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more.  |
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"It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.
Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more. "
Is it strange to admit its a bit scary? Lol |
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"It’s a pub, with an extra area for fun on site, if you should meet anyone.
Don’t go with the expectation that you’ll meet and have sex. Look at it as a way to make some new friends and a possibility that in the future, those friendships may lead to something more.
Is it strange to admit its a bit scary? Lol"
No, it’s quite normal to be a bit anxious, I go in a dress imagine how I feel
However I do go to clubs that have bi nights and admittedly a Tgirl can be quite popular on those events / parties.
I used to go to Fetish clubs and they were a lot more standoffish than swingers clubs. So go with the intention to make new connections and maybe a verification or two, then you’ll be fine. |
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"Im not fishing for compliments but what if no one wants to connect with you? Maybe thats what im anxious about lol"
On the way home you can curse me or thank me. It’s the night and whoever turns up.
I will guarantee one thing if you don’t go, you’ll always think about what could’ve happened  |
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not had anyone to go with 