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Ladies - FFM thoughts ??
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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We have had an orgy, which was fantastic, yet a fMf has a rather gorgeous dynamic.
L has a sensual love for ladies, me too.
Odd, I lead in B/d play, she takes the lead in fMf play, or should I say Fmf play.
If the parties click....stunning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a bit nervous before my first mff.I had already had sex with him and his gf had already had sex with other girls.So I soon relaxed and let myself go and it was better than I expected.I have no nerves now going that with them as I have got close to them and enjoy the sexual experience of just going for it and enjoying myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For those that loved it, can you offer any advice where it comes to keeping all 3 people involved? unlike 2 couples I imagine there is a higher risk of one person feeling leftout/sidelined if the other 2 people have all their attention on eachother, would be good to know how to avoid that |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"For those that loved it, can you offer any advice where it comes to keeping all 3 people involved? unlike 2 couples I imagine there is a higher risk of one person feeling leftout/sidelined if the other 2 people have all their attention on eachother, would be good to know how to avoid that "
This is really down to the emotional intelligence of the people involved. As a simple rule of thumb, the couple should be focussing on giving the woman who has joined them their full attention (except where she gets pleasure from being ‘ignored’ in the scenario, which is sometimes the case). She is likely to have some nerves with a new couple at first while she gushed the dynamic, so showering with attention is important to soften that. If a couple can’t do this while giving each other sufficient attention, they are probably getting a bit ahead of themselves in swinging terms.
And this onus is also on the woman who joins the couple. She should have the emotional intelligence not to give too much attention to one partner rather than the other - unless, once again, that is part of the previously agreed dynamic of the scenario. that the three wish to enjoy.
The problem comes when these feelings come up during and in the heat of the moment the person concerned can’t or doesn’t want to express it - discuss afterwards openly and honestly is then all you can really do.
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so that is my preference to be honest. 
Still looking for our first one on here