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So how did you suggest swinging to your partner...?
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I was wondering if people met their partners in the scene..maybe suggested it and they also had secret fantasies etc...or even they ran away screaming at the thought of it..
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I haven't so I can't answer personally. But I am good friends with a couple from USA and I asked her how her hubby had got her to go swinging.
He first raised the subject about 5 years before they started. She was in her own words offended, hurt and thought that he had gone off her. Gradually over the next few years he kept bringing up the subject and finally convinced her to go to a swingers club on a New Years Eve, while she knew it was a swingers club, because she liked dancing he'd said they'd just go and dance and see what happens.
Later the same night a lady helped her out of her dress and a new swinger was born.
Now her hubby, while also taking part, loves watching his wife with other people and they often arrange meets where she goes alone, mainly to meet guys, and they video/photograph the meet for her hubby to watch later. She often makes me laugh as she blames him for getting her into swinging, but she slearly loves it and often takes the iniative. |
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i was in a 10 year rubbish abusive marriage when i had enough and started seeing my new husband now, we were just having naughty fun behind ex hubby back then i left him and ian (new hubby) moved in we were having sex one night when he mentioned swinging to me before he even had chance to finish off i was downstairs and logged on to fab have never looked back 3 years later and loving it xxxxxxxx  |
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"i was in a 10 year rubbish abusive marriage when i had enough and started seeing my new husband now, we were just having naughty fun behind ex hubby back then i left him and ian (new hubby) moved in we were having sex one night when he mentioned swinging to me before he even had chance to finish off i was downstairs and logged on to fab have never looked back 3 years later and loving it xxxxxxxx "
Pretty similar here, dead marriage, altho divorced before I met OH. He introduced the thought quite quickly & I was pretty shocked!! However, when he proposed, I had done a lot of thinking about it, & decided to give it a try with him for an 'engagement' gift! Lol! Have never looked back, although we don't get to play very often  |
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over a year ago
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"It was with us that Mark said That his boss liked me and his boss and wife were swingers . We all meet , Mark got promotion and l got a new kitchen "
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"I was wondering if people met their partners in the scene..maybe suggested it and they also had secret fantasies etc...or even they ran away screaming at the thought of it..
Any input would be a fun read "
I just asked her straight out, she's now living at her mother's! Hope this helps  |
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Man and a woman both stuck in sexually unfulfilled relationships find each other, fall in love, realise sex is actually great fun and is there to be enjoyed. All those years of crap or no sex means we let rip with as many filthy ideas as possible. Swinging was the one we stayed with. |
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"I was wondering if people met their partners in the scene..maybe suggested it and they also had secret fantasies etc...or even they ran away screaming at the thought of it..
Any input would be a fun read
I just asked her straight out, she's now living at her mother's! Hope this helps "
classic hahahaha |
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"I was wondering if people met their partners in the scene..maybe suggested it and they also had secret fantasies etc...or even they ran away screaming at the thought of it..
Any input would be a fun read
I just asked her straight out, she's now living at her mother's! Hope this helps
classic hahahaha"
It's true too! lol |
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I suggested it to my now ex wife, eventually talked her into it, she decided she wanted to see if she could have sex with an old friend of hers before going to a club. as I said, she is now my ex and her old friend is now her hubby, two children later. I guess swinging wasn't for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My (ex) wife asked me just after we started going out whether I'd ever thought about a threesome. Being a man I obviously had. Over time we build up courage and met a couple for soft swap, then after a man for a threesome, so much fun.
Marriage eventually went pear shaped, no sex or intimacy. Met a girl who was also married in a similar situation. We talked for hours every night, so knew about the swinging. Eventually her and I fell in love and got together, then she said she'd be up for trying swinging.
Boom! |
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Pork asked me about a year ago to go to a club with him, needless to say i wasn't happy at the time i was a one man woman that wouldn't share. Any we broke up ( not because of that) then after 3 months he told me that life was picking up for him as he had started swinging and i then told him that i wanted excitement.... We got back together and another swinger was born... the rest is history and may all cum in her .....  |
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My wife at the time had been feeling unattractive, I tried buoying her spirits by metioning I'd noticed admiring glances she would get. Role played being 'another' quite a bit and it all followed on from there.
I detailed our first time and added it to the stories recently if you want to read the long version! |
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over a year ago
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We were having text sex about me abusing Jo with my cock and a dildo,she replied that she could pretend she was getting fucked by two men,I asked if she would like that and was met with a resounding yes |
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"We were having text sex about me abusing Jo with my cock and a dildo,she replied that she could pretend she was getting fucked by two men,I asked if she would like that and was met with a resounding yes "
Sounds like a good opening - lucky you - go for it and let us know how it goes. |
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I (female) had always wanted a threesome and after lots of talking about it G joined us up to Fab. We had our first threesome within a few months and got greedy for more fun with couples, haven't looked back since |
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By *ncMan
over a year ago
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I caught my then fiancee with my mate, couldn't decide if I was more angry or more horny, so smacked him about, threw him out and had a heart to heart with her. Eventually decided that it had really turned me on, she liked a lot of cock and we loved each other, so we got married and the mate who I caught fucking her was my best man |
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On a break at Uni she had a 3 way with 2 guys and I had a 3 way with 2 girls, we got back together a week later and told each other about it, then we did a high five, decided that it was awsome and we wanted to do it all the time.
So we do. |
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