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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple  over a year ago

Birmingham

There have been a fair few concurrent threads about kissing whilst playing. So hopefully that in it's own right is done to death for a bit, but from some arguments about the motivations for some couples choosing to do or not do it, I wonder if there might be a hypocrisy at some point.

Whilst we find it weird to not kiss those we are penetrating / being penetrated by, we would absolutely not cuddle.

Looking at the difference, it feels that kissing is one of the elements of having sex in itself, but cuddling is not inherently. It's more the after care, the classical expression of love. Quite what defines a cuddle though, I don't know! Could it be about.. gentle, passive contact rather than active touching, squeezing etc?

As much as there are many different types of kiss, some arguably more meaningful than others, when something would become a cuddle that's when there's a risk of feeling a little uncomfortable I'd say.

Again, PLEASE don't just reply saying "I LUV KISSING" etc. Totally not the question being asked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree with your comments here.

Cuddling for me is an expression of love, comfort and protection.

I'd only spoon with someone I'm in love with.

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I kiss on meets, but only cuddle my partner Jack, that's just for us

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By *uncpl187Couple  over a year ago

Ramsgate

Kiss yes, Cuddle no.And no intercourse with opposite sex as we need to keep something for just us. Just our opinion nothing wrong with people that do full swap x

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