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"THE ALPHA MALE CUCKOLDED The Cuckoldess is a sexually liberated wife who has had her best sexual adventures outside of her marriage. Like most others she was unaware over the years that sex could be more fulfilling than that she had had with her husband. Once they started to explore the swinging world a whole new sexual awakening took place; slowly at first with MMFF club fun, then home meets, then the intensity of separate room pleasure and eventually the knowledge that meeting with the right lover on a 1-1 basis could and did give her the best sex she has had in her life. The Cuckold husband has an average cock. He adores his wife and only wants to please her. Swinging for them both has been awesome for many years, again developing to separate rooms and the intense feeling of being 1-1 with another man’s wife. He has also encouraged his cukoldress with MMF meetings which were very fulfilling for both. However, it was when the cuckold sat back at times and watched the other man making love to his wife that the first signs of stimulation were aroused in his body and importantly also in his mind. This then led to MMF where the cuckold would leave the room, listening to the pleasure his cuckoldress was receiving and slowly realising that that heightened pleasure was something he was only rarely able to take her to himself. She was clearly on another level with certain lovers, the secret being finding the right lover with sexual prowess that takes her repeatedly to those levels. Quite by chance on one such meet the cuckold sat back and watched his wife and witnessed a connection and chemistry between his cuckoldress and one such lover. Shortly afterwards and after much talking it was decided that the cuckoldress would meet alone in a hotel with this new lover. This was when the awakening of the cuckold took place. The cuckold is an “Alpha male” himself and this statement may be difficult to reconcile for some. It is the very fact that he is alpha that the cuckold role is so sexually stimulating; it allows and forces him to be submissive to what is effective a greater lover/alpha male sexually and this plays with his mind and stimulates him to a point he cannot get with any other scenario. It was at first confusing for the cuckold, trying to understand his thoughts that others could take his wife to a place he was simply not capable. 2 years down the line he/they both actively seek the perfect BULL to take the role of the third party in their sexual adventure. The Bull is a special lover. He needs to have natural chemistry with the cuckoldress; a deep desire to please her, to satisfy her and effectively repeatedly make love to her. It is easy to find a third party for a MMF but a true Bull is rare. We could describe in much greater detail what we seek but descriptions mean nothing, the chemistry and sexual tension will either be there or it will not. The bull will slip naturally into the role and become the third party in this 3 way relationship. The cuckoldress will yearn to please him as he will yearn to please her. The cuckold will be grateful to the bull that he takes his wife where he cannot. He will facilitate everything they sexually desire together. He will help the cuckoldress choose her clothes, buy them for her to wear, ask her to wear his favourite perfume, help her dress, fasten her stockings, straighten her seams, watch her shower and shave in preparation, choose her heels and watch her put her lipstick on; not to kiss him but to kiss her lover. He will welcome the bull to his home or take the cuckoldress to her meets, provide drinks and watch if allowed. He may be restrained by his cock cage; most likely, with the key held by the cuckoldress. He will sit quietly and leave the room if told to do so; perhaps being allowed to look through the crack in the door as the two lovers explore each other. He will enter and watch if allowed. He will help the cuckoldress to undress if instructed to. He will willingly kiss the cuckoldress after she has sucked the Bulls juices; only though if she wills him to. He will hold and brace his cuckoldress if needed, he will, if instructed, guide the Bulls cock into his cuckoldress, he will lay underneath his cuckoldress with his face against her pussy watching the prowess of the Bull gently gently pound his married wife’s pussy, juices dribbling onto his face. He will if instructed, clean the Bulls cock of its juices; this is the ultimate submissive action from the cuckold to the Bull. The cuckold will most likely not be allowed to release his own cock. The cuckoldress and the Bull may decide to go out for an evening together; to all intense and purposes as a couple. Perhaps a pub or even a club where the Bull will show off his cuckoldress as his own. The cuckold will if told, drop them or her off and pick them up as required, watch them in his rear view mirror; cock straining in its cage. The cuckoldress will return to the cuckold when ready smelling of sex juices and perfume, a big smile on her face and a story to tell. She may or may not divulge her pleasures but maybe she will allow the cuckold to lick her tender pussy. This 3 way relationship is delicate, with the pleasure of the lady the gel that will ultimately hold it together. The cuckoldress receives the pleasure she yearns for, the Bull gets to make regular passionate love to another man’s wife and the cuckold gets.............the strange pleasure of knowing his lovely innocent wife is sexually fulfilled. The search continues and it is fun looking xx " Simply genius. This should be required reading for anyone interested in this space. Thank you. | |||
"THE ALPHA MALE CUCKOLDED The Cuckoldess is a sexually liberated wife who has had her best sexual adventures outside of her marriage. Like most others she was unaware over the years that sex could be more fulfilling than that she had had with her husband. Once they started to explore the swinging world a whole new sexual awakening took place; slowly at first with MMFF club fun, then home meets, then the intensity of separate room pleasure and eventually the knowledge that meeting with the right lover on a 1-1 basis could and did give her the best sex she has had in her life. The Cuckold husband has an average cock. He adores his wife and only wants to please her. Swinging for them both has been awesome for many years, again developing to separate rooms and the intense feeling of being 1-1 with another man’s wife. He has also encouraged his cukoldress with MMF meetings which were very fulfilling for both. However, it was when the cuckold sat back at times and watched the other man making love to his wife that the first signs of stimulation were aroused in his body and importantly also in his mind. This then led to MMF where the cuckold would leave the room, listening to the pleasure his cuckoldress was receiving and slowly realising that that heightened pleasure was something he was only rarely able to take her to himself. She was clearly on another level with certain lovers, the secret being finding the right lover with sexual prowess that takes her repeatedly to those levels. Quite by chance on one such meet the cuckold sat back and watched his wife and witnessed a connection and chemistry between his cuckoldress and one such lover. Shortly afterwards and after much talking it was decided that the cuckoldress would meet alone in a hotel with this new lover. This was when the awakening of the cuckold took place. The cuckold is an “Alpha male” himself and this statement may be difficult to reconcile for some. It is the very fact that he is alpha that the cuckold role is so sexually stimulating; it allows and forces him to be submissive to what is effective a greater lover/alpha male sexually and this plays with his mind and stimulates him to a point he cannot get with any other scenario. It was at first confusing for the cuckold, trying to understand his thoughts that others could take his wife to a place he was simply not capable. 2 years down the line he/they both actively seek the perfect BULL to take the role of the third party in their sexual adventure. The Bull is a special lover. He needs to have natural chemistry with the cuckoldress; a deep desire to please her, to satisfy her and effectively repeatedly make love to her. It is easy to find a third party for a MMF but a true Bull is rare. We could describe in much greater detail what we seek but descriptions mean nothing, the chemistry and sexual tension will either be there or it will not. The bull will slip naturally into the role and become the third party in this 3 way relationship. The cuckoldress will yearn to please him as he will yearn to please her. The cuckold will be grateful to the bull that he takes his wife where he cannot. He will facilitate everything they sexually desire together. He will help the cuckoldress choose her clothes, buy them for her to wear, ask her to wear his favourite perfume, help her dress, fasten her stockings, straighten her seams, watch her shower and shave in preparation, choose her heels and watch her put her lipstick on; not to kiss him but to kiss her lover. He will welcome the bull to his home or take the cuckoldress to her meets, provide drinks and watch if allowed. He may be restrained by his cock cage; most likely, with the key held by the cuckoldress. He will sit quietly and leave the room if told to do so; perhaps being allowed to look through the crack in the door as the two lovers explore each other. He will enter and watch if allowed. He will help the cuckoldress to undress if instructed to. He will willingly kiss the cuckoldress after she has sucked the Bulls juices; only though if she wills him to. He will hold and brace his cuckoldress if needed, he will, if instructed, guide the Bulls cock into his cuckoldress, he will lay underneath his cuckoldress with his face against her pussy watching the prowess of the Bull gently gently pound his married wife’s pussy, juices dribbling onto his face. He will if instructed, clean the Bulls cock of its juices; this is the ultimate submissive action from the cuckold to the Bull. The cuckold will most likely not be allowed to release his own cock. The cuckoldress and the Bull may decide to go out for an evening together; to all intense and purposes as a couple. Perhaps a pub or even a club where the Bull will show off his cuckoldress as his own. The cuckold will if told, drop them or her off and pick them up as required, watch them in his rear view mirror; cock straining in its cage. The cuckoldress will return to the cuckold when ready smelling of sex juices and perfume, a big smile on her face and a story to tell. She may or may not divulge her pleasures but maybe she will allow the cuckold to lick her tender pussy. This 3 way relationship is delicate, with the pleasure of the lady the gel that will ultimately hold it together. The cuckoldress receives the pleasure she yearns for, the Bull gets to make regular passionate love to another man’s wife and the cuckold gets.............the strange pleasure of knowing his lovely innocent wife is sexually fulfilled. The search continues and it is fun looking xx Simply genius. This should be required reading for anyone interested in this space. Thank you. " Thank you. X | |||
"Maybe i'm crossing into Stag & Vixen territory but is it possible for an alpha male to be a stag &/or cuck?" depends 9n ya mind set | |||
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"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. " I don't think it's wrong but it's not right either. It's all about the mindset for all involved. The bull could be smaller, cock size isn't the issue. It's the dynamic of another male being given access to or use of a wife, or pleasuring her, or being pleasured by her. What one person finds erotic, teasing, filthy etc, another doesn't. Even just having the opportunity of something happening without anything actually happening can "do the job" for a cuck, at least to some degree. It would work really well if the cuck wasn't there and only heard the wife's account after. She might not even go into detail about cock size at all, just describing the build up, and how she let him do anything. Less is more and i think imagination fills in gaps how you want them filled in which is often better than the truth. 
If a wife weren't obliging, a cuck (or at least potential cuck) could get very aroused by simply finding a condom in hiswife's bag, car, pocket, ora phone number on a piece of paper. Her coming home late when she's gone out dressed sexy, and any hesitation in her explanation for being late could set his mind racing and turn him on rotten.
Before any complaints, rather than looking to catch her out due to jealousy, there's also the fact he might want to catch her out because he likes the idea and wants to discover she's actually doing it. | |||
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"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. " That's one aspect. On the whole I (he) thought that was a very good insight into the male perspective on cuckolding which I sort of dismissed and distanced myself away from as I didn't identify with it with me being a 'stag' in a stag and vixen swinging set up. A great insight into how that dynamic works and all the better for knowing tbh. | |||
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"En point and fabulous writing. Thank you" thank you xx | |||
"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. I don't think it's wrong but it's not right either. It's all about the mindset for all involved. The bull could be smaller, cock size isn't the issue. It's the dynamic of another male being given access to or use of a wife, or pleasuring her, or being pleasured by her. What one person finds erotic, teasing, filthy etc, another doesn't. Even just having the opportunity of something happening without anything actually happening can "do the job" for a cuck, at least to some degree. It would work really well if the cuck wasn't there and only heard the wife's account after. She might not even go into detail about cock size at all, just describing the build up, and how she let him do anything. Less is more and i think imagination fills in gaps how you want them filled in which is often better than the truth.
If a wife weren't obliging, a cuck (or at least potential cuck) could get very aroused by simply finding a condom in hiswife's bag, car, pocket, ora phone number on a piece of paper. Her coming home late when she's gone out dressed sexy, and any hesitation in her explanation for being late could set his mind racing and turn him on rotten.
Before any complaints, rather than looking to catch her out due to jealousy, there's also the fact he might want to catch her out because he likes the idea and wants to discover she's actually doing it."Is this something that you want to explore in your life Born slippy ? | |||
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"I see some agree and others don't- but I think this is inevitable. The truth is that we are all different and this is just as true of cuckold couples (and their gentleman friends) as anyone else. I think our friend offers a compelling account of what his relationship is like and what it does for them. Others will be similar but with, perhaps, different emphasis; still others will have quite a different take on things - that's what is so great - there is a place for all of us - if we have the patience and commitment to find it!" Good explanation | |||
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"THE ALPHA MALE CUCKOLDED The Cuckoldess is a sexually liberated wife who has had her best sexual adventures outside of her marriage. Like most others she was unaware over the years that sex could be more fulfilling than that she had had with her husband. Once they started to explore the swinging world a whole new sexual awakening took place; slowly at first with MMFF club fun, then home meets, then the intensity of separate room pleasure and eventually the knowledge that meeting with the right lover on a 1-1 basis could and did give her the best sex she has had in her life. The Cuckold husband has an average cock. He adores his wife and only wants to please her. Swinging for them both has been awesome for many years, again developing to separate rooms and the intense feeling of being 1-1 with another man’s wife. He has also encouraged his cukoldress with MMF meetings which were very fulfilling for both. However, it was when the cuckold sat back at times and watched the other man making love to his wife that the first signs of stimulation were aroused in his body and importantly also in his mind. This then led to MMF where the cuckold would leave the room, listening to the pleasure his cuckoldress was receiving and slowly realising that that heightened pleasure was something he was only rarely able to take her to himself. She was clearly on another level with certain lovers, the secret being finding the right lover with sexual prowess that takes her repeatedly to those levels. Quite by chance on one such meet the cuckold sat back and watched his wife and witnessed a connection and chemistry between his cuckoldress and one such lover. Shortly afterwards and after much talking it was decided that the cuckoldress would meet alone in a hotel with this new lover. This was when the awakening of the cuckold took place. The cuckold is an “Alpha male” himself and this statement may be difficult to reconcile for some. It is the very fact that he is alpha that the cuckold role is so sexually stimulating; it allows and forces him to be submissive to what is effective a greater lover/alpha male sexually and this plays with his mind and stimulates him to a point he cannot get with any other scenario. It was at first confusing for the cuckold, trying to understand his thoughts that others could take his wife to a place he was simply not capable. 2 years down the line he/they both actively seek the perfect BULL to take the role of the third party in their sexual adventure. The Bull is a special lover. He needs to have natural chemistry with the cuckoldress; a deep desire to please her, to satisfy her and effectively repeatedly make love to her. It is easy to find a third party for a MMF but a true Bull is rare. We could describe in much greater detail what we seek but descriptions mean nothing, the chemistry and sexual tension will either be there or it will not. The bull will slip naturally into the role and become the third party in this 3 way relationship. The cuckoldress will yearn to please him as he will yearn to please her. The cuckold will be grateful to the bull that he takes his wife where he cannot. He will facilitate everything they sexually desire together. He will help the cuckoldress choose her clothes, buy them for her to wear, ask her to wear his favourite perfume, help her dress, fasten her stockings, straighten her seams, watch her shower and shave in preparation, choose her heels and watch her put her lipstick on; not to kiss him but to kiss her lover. He will welcome the bull to his home or take the cuckoldress to her meets, provide drinks and watch if allowed. He may be restrained by his cock cage; most likely, with the key held by the cuckoldress. He will sit quietly and leave the room if told to do so; perhaps being allowed to look through the crack in the door as the two lovers explore each other. He will enter and watch if allowed. He will help the cuckoldress to undress if instructed to. He will willingly kiss the cuckoldress after she has sucked the Bulls juices; only though if she wills him to. He will hold and brace his cuckoldress if needed, he will, if instructed, guide the Bulls cock into his cuckoldress, he will lay underneath his cuckoldress with his face against her pussy watching the prowess of the Bull gently gently pound his married wife’s pussy, juices dribbling onto his face. He will if instructed, clean the Bulls cock of its juices; this is the ultimate submissive action from the cuckold to the Bull. The cuckold will most likely not be allowed to release his own cock. The cuckoldress and the Bull may decide to go out for an evening together; to all intense and purposes as a couple. Perhaps a pub or even a club where the Bull will show off his cuckoldress as his own. The cuckold will if told, drop them or her off and pick them up as required, watch them in his rear view mirror; cock straining in its cage. The cuckoldress will return to the cuckold when ready smelling of sex juices and perfume, a big smile on her face and a story to tell. She may or may not divulge her pleasures but maybe she will allow the cuckold to lick her tender pussy. This 3 way relationship is delicate, with the pleasure of the lady the gel that will ultimately hold it together. The cuckoldress receives the pleasure she yearns for, the Bull gets to make regular passionate love to another man’s wife and the cuckold gets.............the strange pleasure of knowing his lovely innocent wife is sexually fulfilled. The search continues and it is fun looking xx " Perfectly put .. | |||
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"Maybe i'm crossing into Stag & Vixen territory but is it possible for an alpha male to be a stag &/or cuck?" Yes! | |||
"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. " exactly its a state of mind and a role within the dynamic | |||
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"no two cuckold couples are the same..." | |||
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"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. " Physical has nothing to do with it from my perspective, it has come across to me, more creating a lack of worth in the cuck, the derogation of power, the weak haplessness of his pedestal pinnacle being taken in ways he dare not. Then cognitively being made aware of it. Added to that an immense respect outside the cuck scene. | |||
"no two cuckold couples are the same..." | |||
"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. Physical has nothing to do with it from my perspective, it has come across to me, more creating a lack of worth in the cuck, the derogation of power, the weak haplessness of his pedestal pinnacle being taken in ways he dare not. Then cognitively being made aware of it. Added to that an immense respect outside the cuck scene." | |||
"Couldn’t disagree more. The Bull has a larger cock? Don’t think so. You’ve missed the dynamics totally. Physical has nothing to do with it from my perspective, it has come across to me, more creating a lack of worth in the cuck, the derogation of power, the weak haplessness of his pedestal pinnacle being taken in ways he dare not. Then cognitively being made aware of it. Added to that an immense respect outside the cuck scene." | |||
