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are we past it at 50??
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we are the only couple who are in our prime so we think..yes we are in our 50s..dont feel it & yes we all say that at our age..so is fab a site for younger folk.??we feel us future coffin dodgers can still give a treat ot too..when i wer just a young lad a more mature lady gave me many a sleepless night..so where is the ol genuine folk gone..is it their maker.??& wer the last of brave few..  |
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"we are the only couple who are in our prime so we think..yes we are in our 50s..dont feel it & yes we all say that at our age..so is fab a site for younger folk.??we feel us future coffin dodgers can still give a treat ot too..when i wer just a young lad a more mature lady gave me many a sleepless night..so where is the ol genuine folk gone..is it their maker.??& wer the last of brave few.. "
I am 72 and still having plenty of meets so you are talking tosh. I will stop meeting or fun when they put me in a box. Amen |
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Age isn't an issue. My buddy of 5 years is 62 (I'm 31) and I've had the best sex ever with him. Only reason I have an age limit on my profile is so that I can try people around my age again as its been 8 years since I had a bit of younger stuff. My age limit is not set in stone & willing to meet older people if they came along and caught my eye.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think something very sexual happens with ladies in their 40s and 50s. I am now hornier than when I was 30 and can last longer as well ..lol
Seriously age is a total nothing for me and it always makes me wonder how many lovely people have others missed by limiting their age preferences.
I meet a couple 2 or 3 times a month and it is some of the most amazing sex I ever had ...he is 64 and she is 63. Both fit as f**k and hornier than me so go figure.
I just try to see the personality rather than the reference number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age isn't an issue. My buddy of 5 years is 62 (I'm 31) and I've had the best sex ever with him. Only reason I have an age limit on my profile is so that I can try people around my age again as its been 8 years since I had a bit of younger stuff. My age limit is not set in stone & willing to meet older people if they came along and caught my eye. "
Heeellooooo haha xx
None of us gettin any younger, I normally look up in age rather than down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The young stud says "look at all those hot chicks... Lets run over and fuck one..."
The mature lover says "lets wander over, introduce ourselves, and make love to them All....;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"good for you bud.!!so their is genuine meets out there..or that is another forum talk are older folk better at sex..??"
.... not better, just more practiced.  |
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I think the "problem" is a lot of profiles have 50 as a cut of point.
I daresay it's disheartening for some to come across someone they want to play with only to be unable to contact them as their filters prohibit it. I don't think someone is "missing out" playing with me no more than I am with a thirty something.
It's sweet, confirmation by other oldies that we can still move like Jagger in the bedroom and give the contestants on Britain and Ireland's Next Top Model a run for their money, but let's enjoy what we have and not worry about those that exclude us.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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so let me get this straight...
young people complain that others think they are too young...
now we have older people complaining that others think they are too old....
at this rate I am wondering if anyone is actually playing with anyone.... jeez....
if you were to practice what you are preaching to the masses... you wouldn't have the age range that you do....
so basically it is okay to have your preference... but be damned if others have theirs.......
glass houses anyone????  |
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Past it? Absolutely not! We started serious swinging as a pair when nearly 50 and have had lots and lots of fun regularly since. We think when you get to our age you have lost any inhibitions. Sex is fun at any age but it's GREAT when you're our age! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I am 51 and still going strong, just struggling to meet anyone lately that I wanted to take things further with, am considering dropping my minimum age down to 35 but as from that being 16 years younger than me, the last time I did that, all I got was a load of idiots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are in the SAGA/PENSION (nearly) group while the fem has quietened down we are still active even if more refined in what we do. Nothing to prove and pleasure to have.
Never to old as long as the bits function |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we are the only couple who are in our prime so we think..yes we are in our 50s..dont feel it & yes we all say that at our age..so is fab a site for younger folk.??we feel us future coffin dodgers can still give a treat ot too..when i wer just a young lad a more mature lady gave me many a sleepless night..so where is the ol genuine folk gone..is it their maker.??& wer the last of brave few..
I am 72 and still having plenty of meets so you are talking tosh. I will stop meeting or fun when they put me in a box. Amen"
didnt someone write a song about you??
'the oldest swinger in town'
top man. keep it going mate... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good God No! Some of the sexiest people I have met have been in their 50s  same here
Put the kettle on - we'll be round in half an hour!!! Lol!
Will leave the key in the door. "
Corrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr !!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone on here says he 72 on a single profile but 64 on a couples. And men wonder why gals on here have trust issues. But he not the only one I have met who's profiles I havee spotted who makes out younger on different profiles. They say age is a number but to some its a bingo card full of numbers which ever number seems to suit at the time to get a shag. There's some fantastic men and couples on here but they struggle as they tarred with the same brush as those who can't even decide how old they are today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had more fun since I turned 50 than I've had in my whole life
I'm more confident in my aging body, have fewer inhibitions and yes I will say it I love having sex"
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over a year ago
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"I've had more fun since I turned 50 than I've had in my whole life
I'm more confident in my aging body, have fewer inhibitions and yes I will say it I love having sex "
well i can see why you are confident you are absolutley georgous and any one be very lucky to meet you |
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"I've had more fun since I turned 50 than I've had in my whole life
I'm more confident in my aging body, have fewer inhibitions and yes I will say it I love having sex
well i can see why you are confident you are absolutley georgous and any one be very lucky to meet you"
Thank you, it's comments like that from a lady that make you feel so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had more fun since I turned 50 than I've had in my whole life
I'm more confident in my aging body, have fewer inhibitions and yes I will say it I love having sex"
+1
Totally agree with you - and LOVE your boudoir pics - great!!
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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago
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no way - we know couples of similar ages who are as hot as hell and we know younger couples who are always looking for the more experienced couples. in fact just been messaging another amazing hot couple in your age bracket!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think the more mature ladies on here are beautiful (cant spell) and i only meet older men so i very glad that so many of u feel confident it gives us 'older lovers' more to meet , i hope in years to come i look as good as the ladies on here , yunger is NOT better in body or in mind we are mostly just a trophy shag for some guys who feel the need to proclaim to the world they 'still have it' so ladies enjoy urselves u have the upper hand to us younger ones |
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I've just turned 50 and Jack is also in his fifties - I've enjoyed reading this thread because I was wondering if we are getting "past it". However, I do gets loads of positive comments about my photos, my boobs aren't heading south just yet ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wondering what i gonna do wen in a few years i cant get men older than me anymore i wont give up sex u might as well shoot me for that to happen lol so will have to go for men my age or younger then but be such a mind messing experience as i have ALWAYS gone for older right form my very first man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think the more mature ladies on here are beautiful (cant spell)
Got for news for you - yes you can. Spell, that is
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oh right i spelt it three different ways before posting i had a mind block n just couldnt think how to spell it lol |
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over a year ago
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i wondering what i gonna do wen in a few years i cant get men older than me anymore i wont give up sex u might as well shoot me for that to happen lol so will have to go for men my age or younger then but be such a mind messing experience as i have ALWAYS gone for older right form my very first man lol"
 yer only 27! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
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How well said ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i wondering what i gonna do wen in a few years i cant get men older than me anymore i wont give up sex u might as well shoot me for that to happen lol so will have to go for men my age or younger then but be such a mind messing experience as i have ALWAYS gone for older right form my very first man lol"
Just a guess here but as you appreciate (even look for) the extra qualities us older guys can bring to the way you enjoy your fun then as you get older those qualities won't change. So maybe its not really the age difference itself, which of course will reduce, but more a style of play that you can continue to enjoy regardless of your own age?
Oh and there will always be someone older than you who you will find very sexy. I still do... |
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i wondering what i gonna do wen in a few years i cant get men older than me anymore i wont give up sex u might as well shoot me for that to happen lol so will have to go for men my age or younger then but be such a mind messing experience as i have ALWAYS gone for older right form my very first man lol
Just a guess here but as you appreciate (even look for) the extra qualities us older guys can bring to the way you enjoy your fun then as you get older those qualities won't change. So maybe its not really the age difference itself, which of course will reduce, but more a style of play that you can continue to enjoy regardless of your own age?
Oh and there will always be someone older than you who you will find very sexy. I still do... "
Thanks thats definitely food for thought. There is something very special for me about older men and its not just the age thats a number so what you say makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Re:-are we past it at 50??
hope not or we have outlived our usefulness!  "
Reading your fabulous profile I am quite convinced you have many years use left in you...
Sadly my Weekend Vacancy Job Application hit an age barrier ...  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"The young stud says "look at all those hot chicks... Lets run over and fuck one..."
The mature lover says "lets wander over, introduce ourselves, and make love to them All....;-)"
Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
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How well said ..."
So are you saying that those of us with hang ups about age are not entitled to a preference? Or are we supposed to meet everyone who sends us a message no matter what?
And I also want to meet those stimulate my mind, I just happen to prefer my own age group, simple as that, that is my right but I wouldn't turn someone down if they were a little below or above my own age preference as I am not that strict |
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we are more mature and he says sh has a body most 30 year olds would die for lol, those that want to meet welcome those that dont "have fun cos we damn well do" too many folk get hung up on too much on here lol |
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"OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
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How well said ...
So are you saying that those of us with hang ups about age are not entitled to a preference? Or are we supposed to meet everyone who sends us a message no matter what?
And I also want to meet those stimulate my mind, I just happen to prefer my own age group, simple as that, that is my right but I wouldn't turn someone down if they were a little below or above my own age preference as I am not that strict"
KinkyKytten - Of course I was not suggesting you should meet any old 'person' and be grateful!! Gawd no!! I think the OP was getting at the perception among 'some' - note that everyone... SOME!!! - younger swingers, that those of us who have crossed the rubicon into the 'maturing disgracefully' stage have outlived there usefulness to the 'under 50's' SOLELY due to passing that milestone.
It's all down to perception, isn't it? The point I was making is that if you allow yourself (as an UNDER 50) to be blinded by the perception that ANYONE over that age couldn't possibly teach them anything about sex/swinging, then look at what you could be missing out on!!!!
Personally, if I ever got to within striking distance of Sharon Stones ass, I would be in 7th heaven - even if I was 21!!!! And I am sure it is a similar thing for ladies much younger than 50 when it comes to the debonair charms of said Mr Brosnan?????
Does that explain it?????
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"OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
and
How well said ...
So are you saying that those of us with hang ups about age are not entitled to a preference? Or are we supposed to meet everyone who sends us a message no matter what?
And I also want to meet those stimulate my mind, I just happen to prefer my own age group, simple as that, that is my right but I wouldn't turn someone down if they were a little below or above my own age preference as I am not that strict"
No I was just agreeing with the statement that for those who do have an age preference then fine let them get on with it. So where does that come out to be I am saying no one is entitled to that and you have to meet everyone? Nowhere and there was no need to imply that either.
And I don't think I ever said anything about who you choose to engage with. But its interesting to see you back off from your own age preferences when it suits you. So why publish them? Just confused.com here now. |
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"OP - age is but a number....
To illustrate the point, if you had no other info on a couple (they are not actually together - this is to prove a point) other than that the Man is 59 and the Woman is 54, would you expect them to be turned down by those who have a problem with age??? Probably, yes.....
If I then told the unlucky loser that they have just turned down Pierce Brosnan and Sharon Stone........?????? Well?????
Like so many people have said in numerous threads on here, those who have an issue with age - let them get on with it. Those who don't and want to meet people who stimulate and turn them on regardless of age - Hellllloooooooooo!!!!!!!
Life's too short to get hung up about the shortcomings of others. Your glass is half full - not half empty....
and
How well said ...
So are you saying that those of us with hang ups about age are not entitled to a preference? Or are we supposed to meet everyone who sends us a message no matter what?
And I also want to meet those stimulate my mind, I just happen to prefer my own age group, simple as that, that is my right but I wouldn't turn someone down if they were a little below or above my own age preference as I am not that strict
No I was just agreeing with the statement that for those who do have an age preference then fine let them get on with it. So where does that come out to be I am saying no one is entitled to that and you have to meet everyone? Nowhere and there was no need to imply that either.
And I don't think I ever said anything about who you choose to engage with. But its interesting to see you back off from your own age preferences when it suits you. So why publish them? Just confused.com here now. "
Because I wouldn't want to miss out on someone who is say 39 or 56? And I wasn't backing off from my age preference, if I am at a party or a club, I don't ask how old someone is; they may look my age preference but be slightly below or above it. And lets face it, people moan enough on here about how strict those with an age are that they maybe missing out on something, just said it to please them so maybe I should just stick to 40-55 year old |
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When I had a single profile on here I fibbed about my age (knocked 6 years off) and very nearly missed out on meeting the love of my life - his preference was for ladies his own age! Thankfully we met, I came clean & 2 & half years on we are happier than ever! Now 51 & if anyone thinks 51 is 'past it' their loss not ours! |
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Loads of age ranges on profiles stop at age 50.
I'm 55 and don't lie about it but certainly don't look my age or even act my age!!
Was in PC World yesterday and they had a range of books specifically aimed at the over 50's as if we were all senile and din't know how to work a computer. |
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"Because I wouldn't want to miss out on someone who is say 39 or 56? And I wasn't backing off from my age preference, if I am at a party or a club, I don't ask how old someone is; they may look my age preference but be slightly below or above it. And lets face it, people moan enough on here about how strict those with an age are that they maybe missing out on something, just said it to please them so maybe I should just stick to 40-55 year old "
In an odd way we are sort of agreeing here! We both see the person not the age especially in a socila / party / club environment (as I posted a story before). It is difficult and the selecton of a an age range shouldn't be seen as 'fixed' or 'arbitrary' but more a guideline as you have said. Oh and never change your mind to please others ..
For me the first two things I look at are location and age range and then quickly click on the 'Send Message' button. Not to send a message but to see if the site warning message comes up or I get blocked! This tends to indicate how people would view me and so I don't waste their time by sending a pointless message or mine by reading further. Maybe the age range tab should have an additional button to select the filters? |
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"we are the only couple who are in our prime so we think..yes we are in our 50s..dont feel it & yes we all say that at our age..so is fab a site for younger folk.??we feel us future coffin dodgers can still give a treat ot too..when i wer just a young lad a more mature lady gave me many a sleepless night..so where is the ol genuine folk gone..is it their maker.??& wer the last of brave few.. "
would say a big resounding NO..
fab is for all despite their 'ages', as its more a state of mind, attitude etc
not in denial on the 'numbers'...
dont want to and in some cases cant do some of the things one did in 20's, 30's and 40's..
but we move on .. |
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"Been a right numptie and deleted a PM from someone about this thread. Teach me to use my iPhone!
Whoever you were please resend . . ? "
oooo a look at me post
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads of age ranges on profiles stop at age 50.
I'm 55 and don't lie about it but certainly don't look my age or even act my age!!
Was in PC World yesterday and they had a range of books specifically aimed at the over 50's as if we were all senile and din't know how to work a computer."
Hope you've written to PC Worlds CEDO and told him he (or she) is heading an blatantly ageist company???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loads of age ranges on profiles stop at age 50.
I'm 55 and don't lie about it but certainly don't look my age or even act my age!!
Was in PC World yesterday and they had a range of books specifically aimed at the over 50's as if we were all senile and din't know how to work a computer.
Hope you've written to PC Worlds CEDO and told him he (or she) is heading an blatantly ageist company???? "
That should have been CEO - bloody keyboard never works right before 9am......
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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No you're not past it at 50!
There are lots of happy swingers in their 50s, try browsing Fab's database.
Age is a criterion used by swingers to select potential meets but not the only one.
"Ol genuine folk" exist on Fab, I've met a few! Good luck and don't give up!
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