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By *hynotts OP Couple
over a year ago
nottingham |
now we know that most do not like them. but what we are asking who shud bring them. we have had a few meets where males turn up with out any hopeing to get a fuck with out them. we all ways have some with us but why do we need to give a sigel male or another cpl ours. if a profile says safe sex only why would you not bring any with you . do others have the same problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always bring my own, and have a selection of brands & sizes! Would say at least 95% of meets either bring or at least ask if I have any before turning up. I don't think it should be one persons responsibility (ie the guys!) as we're all responsible for our own sexual health...although if he does have a preferred brand that fit better for him then it would be a good idea to carry them x |
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As I look after my own sexual health and not others, I always have a good supply either in the house or on me if I'm out.
Have had a few guys moan about them, but I never play without.
I've even invested in some latex free ones just incase |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met guys in the past and due to the fact they have truned up empty handed it has put me off playing with them
As far as i can see the only reason you would turn upto a meet without condoms is because you have no intentions of using them
And i find that level of presumption a turn off |
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I always tell them now not to bother bringing them as i have tons plus it means i can put them out at easy to reach places lol, instead of fumbling about. But if i was at a club even though i use my own there if a guy didnt have a condom with him i wouldnt shag him. If he isnt carrying a condom in a club ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have loads of my own as I like latex free.. but sometimes if a guy has his own I prefer them to wear the ones that they are comfortable with.. as I have very little full sex anyway.
Cali |
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By *atex twoCouple
over a year ago
near plymouth |
so am i wrong asking a male i never met before to wear a condom during oral sex as yes im not going to swallow his spunk when its yes its also a way of getting a std ,yes girls we can get it by sucking cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have loads as I have a latex allergy but im still responsibe for me so would have loads regardless
As much as id think its a cheek if guys turn up with none im still taking care of me anyway and not leaving it up to them |
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On all my meets I have taken my own yet only three were willing to use condoms and only one of the three had his own. I'd rather walk away having no sex than to walk away pregnant or with and STD. |
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"Does it matter if he doesnt bring any? After all there free so just stock up lol"
It does matter to me... If he doesnt bring them... No sex.
A guy who shows up for a meet without condoms.... I will assume doesnt use them |
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I know it's a horrible opinion to have, but I am a firm believer that the only person you can trust is yourself. - It is YOUR responsibility to take care of your sexual health, and for that reason we will always have some to hand whether our meet brings condoms or not.
- Amy. x |
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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago
oldbury |
We have a box of them we keep fairly full but have had numerous meets turn up and just expect us to provide them and in clubs we have gone to play with couples who expect Sir to wear a condom but dont seem to have any of their own so i end up putting a halt on things at that point. Ive had a few guys turn up try to use them and be unable to perform which also tells me they arent used to them which concerns me. So in answer to the question everyone should provide them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"now we know that most do not like them. but what we are asking who shud bring them. we have had a few meets where males turn up with out any hopeing to get a fuck with out them. we all ways have some with us but why do we need to give a sigel male or another cpl ours. if a profile says safe sex only why would you not bring any with you . do others have the same problem "
totally emathise with your frustrations - when used to swing with my ex we always insisted on people bring own condoms - we had an occasion to refuse sex once because this guy hadnt got any and was pleading "im clean honest - i have un protected sex with wife really" as if that would convince us -
The whole subject of BB sex has been explored many times but we all still need to be mindful of its pit falls and stick by our choices
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always take my own as I know what fits comfortably - and sadly that's often hard to find!
On the occasions someone's forgotten to mention a latex allergy I'm happy to use theirs - or forgo any penetration and just enjoy a seriously long foreplay session - and arrange a second visit!! |
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