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who are swingers who aren't
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi i've got a professional job and meet lots of different people and i've often wondered with a few people i've met whether they were swingers or not. So i was wondering if there is any secret word or sign within the swinging commmunity to let others know they are swingers, I once found out someone at work was a swinger almost by accident, but today i met a couple and got the vibe they are swingers but was too unsure to say anything, which brings me to my question let me know please thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and a bullshit verification
Which to add isnt even spelt right and by another man. As convincing as 'brenda' from the bounty advert."
erm, correct me if i'm wrong here!
The op has stated on his profile that he is bi-curious, so whats your point of it being a guy that wrote the veri?? Lol.
And is it his fault the verifier can't spell? So, again, what point were you trying to put across as it seems to have went right over my head!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thre is a secret handshake but you have to have passed a 3 month probation period and have met 15 people before we can tell you "
Haha ... Sounds a bit Masonic |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"i ppear to have mised the request for a profile critique on here???  "
There are always those who just have to be arses!
To answer the question by the op! You did used to get badges, but it would only take one newspaper to "out" it and Aunty Maude would know just what you get up to!
Another was to ask if they are a friend of Ellis (L.S.= Lifestyle). But it is all very hit and miss.. We have on a couple of occasions slipped swinging into the conversation as a "we got asked once, we said no, but it was very exciting when we thought about it". It actually worked once!!
Just stick with the trouser leg rolled up (left hand side) and the T-shirt with "I am a Swinger" on it..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi i've got a professional job and meet lots of different people and i've often wondered with a few people i've met whether they were swingers or not. So i was wondering if there is any secret word or sign within the swinging commmunity to let others know they are swingers, I once found out someone at work was a swinger almost by accident, but today i met a couple and got the vibe they are swingers but was too unsure to say anything, which brings me to my question let me know please thanks xx"
That's a really good question. I sometimes get the feeling people are and really want to flirt with them. But decide best not to in case they think I'm nuts! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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exactly my point, there are swingers around today i was sure there was a sexual chemistry between this couple and me, but it remained un said, because you look a complete chump if youre wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in farmfoods other day and overheard a gal saying 'fab' to this guy! Thought to myself, your in here son, made my move and turned out she was telling her hubby to get the fab ice lollies!!
my court case is next week |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was in farmfoods other day and overheard a gal saying 'fab' to this guy! Thought to myself, your in here son, made my move and turned out she was telling her hubby to get the fab ice lollies!!
my court case is next week "
would u like a posse of us to sit in the public gallery and support u ????? lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was in farmfoods other day and overheard a gal saying 'fab' to this guy! Thought to myself, your in here son, made my move and turned out she was telling her hubby to get the fab ice lollies!!
my court case is next week
would u like a posse of us to sit in the public gallery and support u ????? lol "
Who knows maybe the judge and the jury will be swingers too 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tinydelight and Shazz i think this site on mobile is lookiing to release a page where you can see swiingers on mobiles in areas this summer,it is rather fun trying to work out who are swingers, as we all know we are out there, but fun to think of a way of informing others without embarrassment of being wrong lol !!!
Thanks also again for kind words and support,makes my glad to be a swinger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a shame there isnt a secret way of swingers alerting eachother, but as said before the tabloids would be on to it in no time!!!!
There have been loads of occasions that we have said to eachother when out and about 'do you reckon they are swingers'. Again like others, would never have the guts to approach someone.
Would be funny though!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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lol the person who i found out was a swinger, really had a feeling i was one too, but was to scared to mention, in the end it came out by joking about what it would be like to swing, and we by mentioning what it might be like realised we knew too much not to have done it before !!!!!!!!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But to the answer, as such we dont know of any such handshake or special code, but we have heard a few couple and been emphasise the word FAB when out to see if there a reaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi i've got a professional job and meet lots of different people and i've often wondered with a few people i've met whether they were swingers or not. So i was wondering if there is any secret word or sign within the swinging commmunity to let others know they are swingers, I once found out someone at work was a swinger almost by accident, but today i met a couple and got the vibe they are swingers but was too unsure to say anything, which brings me to my question let me know please thanks xx"
just as a matter of interest what was the relevance of telling us you have a professional job to wondering who are swingers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi i've got a professional job and meet lots of different people and i've often wondered with a few people i've met whether they were swingers or not. So i was wondering if there is any secret word or sign within the swinging commmunity to let others know they are swingers, I once found out someone at work was a swinger almost by accident, but today i met a couple and got the vibe they are swingers but was too unsure to say anything, which brings me to my question let me know please thanks xx
just as a matter of interest what was the relevance of telling us you have a professional job to wondering who are swingers? "
maybe his name is Bodie or Doyle?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good point, I think what i was trying to explain was just that i meet a wide variety of people in my work, so i think i am likely to have met swingers without knowing as swingers are not stereotyped to any group of people, other than liking swinging x hope that makes sense as i've gone on a bit x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good point, I think what i was trying to explain was just that i meet a wide variety of people in my work, so i think i am likely to have met swingers without knowing as swingers are not stereotyped to any group of people, other than liking swinging x hope that makes sense as i've gone on a bit x "
Would you really want to meet other swingers at work though I know I would'nt there is a time and place for everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thre is a secret handshake but you have to have passed a 3 month probation period and have met 15 people before we can tell you "
Hey Leave us masons out of this lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good point, I think what i was trying to explain was just that i meet a wide variety of people in my work, so i think i am likely to have met swingers without knowing as swingers are not stereotyped to any group of people, other than liking swinging x hope that makes sense as i've gone on a bit x
Would you really want to meet other swingers at work though I know I would'nt there is a time and place for everything."
yeah i agree shaz
A lot think that because we use swingers site we are looking for a shag with anyone in every place going
I personally wouldnt want people i work with knowing i use such sites, nor would i ever wear a 'swinging badge' and walk round the streets in it, or going round doing secret handshakes, i get all the meets i need from off here i couldnt cope with turning 20 guys a day down in real life too lol
My private life is just that, when im on here im looking for meets, when i close the laptop im back to my normal life and id sooner the two not mix, i actually find it quite sad that some people want swingers car stickers, location finders on their phone, swingers badges etc so everywhere they go they can be spotted by fellow swingers i really wouldnt want swinging to consume my life to that point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i fully understand what you mean, i was just saying in my question when i meet some people i wondered if there is a secret sign of to show they are swingers, I also understand and respect that like you i like the swinging or meeting of couples etc, and just class it as swinging because that is the name of it, and i have aprivate life when not involved too, thanks though it a good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh i look at men all the time and think to myself ....i wonder if hes on fab or i wouldnt mind shagging him
But i wouldnt take it any further than a secret perv to myself lol |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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Not interested myself but,
Chams website, they sell 'swingers symbols', chameleon keyrings etc.
If you’re on a beach, in a bar or just walking down the street, how do you know who is a swinger?
The gay community have the rainbow symbol to recognize each other, the swinging community have nothing until now….
May we introduce The Chameleon.
Not only will the emblem indicate who is a swinger, it will also show if they are bisexual or straight depending on whether The Chameleon is sitting on a pink or yellow branch.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thats a great idea, i think that would be a clever way to show people, i used to go to chameleons, and loved it there just started swinging again so may go again, this is the sort of idea i know gays do like you say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"May we introduce The Chameleon.
Not only will the emblem indicate who is a swinger, it will also show if they are bisexual or straight depending on whether The Chameleon is sitting on a pink or yellow branch.
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I always buy the suitably coded Chameleon for any ladies I take to Chams for their first visit. Just something I like doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thre is a secret handshake but you have to have passed a 3 month probation period and have met 15 people before we can tell you
Hey Leave us masons out of this lol"
Well as 90% of the Police are Swingers there must be a few secret handshakes going on already ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and a bullshit verification
Which to add isnt even spelt right and by another man. As convincing as 'brenda' from the bounty advert."
how do you know it's not spelt correctly? the veri uses the word 'descent'. Maybe he went down on him!
NB 'brenda' should be an uppercase b..Like this..B
But thanks for your valued input |
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"Good point, I think what i was trying to explain was just that i meet a wide variety of people in my work, so i think i am likely to have met swingers without knowing as swingers are not stereotyped to any group of people, other than liking swinging x hope that makes sense as i've gone on a bit x
Would you really want to meet other swingers at work though I know I would'nt there is a time and place for everything.
yeah i agree shaz
A lot think that because we use swingers site we are looking for a shag with anyone in every place going
I personally wouldnt want people i work with knowing i use such sites, nor would i ever wear a 'swinging badge' and walk round the streets in it, or going round doing secret handshakes, i get all the meets i need from off here i couldnt cope with turning 20 guys a day down in real life too lol
My private life is just that, when im on here im looking for meets, when i close the laptop im back to my normal life and id sooner the two not mix, i actually find it quite sad that some people want swingers car stickers, location finders on their phone, swingers badges etc so everywhere they go they can be spotted by fellow swingers i really wouldnt want swinging to consume my life to that point "
You find it quite sad because it's not your way? Hmmmm interesting... Me personally, each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There could well be a sexual vibe or a certain easy sociability which could give clues but as far as I know there are no "signs" some say the anklet but these days that is a fashion trend much like the piecer tongue which used to indicate the peeps enjoyed oral sex but has also now become a trend rather than a "sign".
oh I forgot, look for the swing tatoo on their left butt cheek.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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anklets sound interesting and also pampas grass, i thought if you could have a certain phrase like, 'have you ever been to xanadu on holiday' or something similar would be good, but i'm sure people on here can come up with something alot better than that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Yeah pampas grass apparently was used before the Internet was invented
http://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/commentators/adrian-bingham-swinging--only-pampas-grass-is-quite-as-suburban--and-as-british-6272044.html |
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"May we introduce The Chameleon.
Not only will the emblem indicate who is a swinger, it will also show if they are bisexual or straight depending on whether The Chameleon is sitting on a pink or yellow branch.
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What if they are Bi Curious.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah pampas grass apparently was used before the Internet was invented
http://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/commentators/adrian-bingham-swinging--only-pampas-grass-is-quite-as-suburban--and-as-british-6272044.html"
I heard that too........ |
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"thre is a secret handshake but you have to have passed a 3 month probation period and have met 15 people before we can tell you
Hey Leave us masons out of this lol"
Ah, great I need some stone repairs doing, can you do a quote?
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