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Does it count as sex if there's no penetration?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you consider thing like oral, breast/nipple play, etc part of sex, or just the 'build up' to sex/penetration? Or do you think it's only sex if there's penetration involved?
There isn't a right/wrong answer, just curious to see what people's thoughts are on this  Obviously people are a little less vanilla on here!
I would say I think foreplay is part of sex, and foreplay alone can count as sex too. I've had some meets where there was no penetration but found them fun and enjoyable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you consider thing like oral, breast/nipple play, etc part of sex, or just the 'build up' to sex/penetration? Or do you think it's only sex if there's penetration involved?
There isn't a right/wrong answer, just curious to see what people's thoughts are on this Obviously people are a little less vanilla on here!
I would say I think foreplay is part of sex, and foreplay alone can count as sex too. I've had some meets where there was no penetration but found them fun and enjoyable."
I would absolutely count it as sex, however I personally wouldn’t find it fulfilling. (Would probably seek to add toys into the equation at least) |
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"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....
That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex."
You obviously haven't experienced oral with me then |
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"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....
That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex."
R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here  |
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"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....
That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex.
R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here "
I don't mean is it legally defined as sex, I mean do you personally consider it sex or just a warm up to something else |
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"The law says it's sex if it's oral.....
That was a surprise to me as i would never have classed oral as sex.
R*ape and sexual assault can be oral, vaginal or anal, including penetration by object, fingers etc, not just by penis. I know that's not a the spirit of the OP, but the fact is sex is any form of sexual contact. Good old Safeguarding training coming to the fore here
I don't mean is it legally defined as sex, I mean do you personally consider it sex or just a warm up to something else "
I did say I realised I'd digressed 
But yes, it's all sex to me  |
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"If only penetration counts as sex, what is it when two women play together? It’s not foreplay or a warm-up, it’s still sex."
And this is why lesbian activity wasn't considered an offence under the old and very unfair/discriminatory anti-homosexuality laws of yesteryear.....
It wasn't considered sex.
I consider it sex, however...... |
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"If only penetration counts as sex, what is it when two women play together? It’s not foreplay or a warm-up, it’s still sex.
And this is why lesbian activity wasn't considered an offence under the old and very unfair/discriminatory anti-homosexuality laws of yesteryear.....
It wasn't considered sex.
I consider it sex, however......"
That did at least mean that women could fly under the radar a bit, because it wasn’t technically illegal!
And I also very much consider it sex, very lovely sex in fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oral sex........it’s kind of a giveaway 
This guy could get himself in a lot of trouble!"
True, in fact I have been since my teenage years lol Probably why Mrs often says I can’t take you anywhere |
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