FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Getting tipsy leading up to sex
Getting tipsy leading up to sex
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A big no from me!
I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.
Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Have to agree with the majority. No fun if someone has to be near d*unk to play, I would question if they really wanted to.
Sex in itself and the lead up is all the headiness I need. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol"
I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Haha, I like rock and roll sex, not always but mostly. It's like when you go to a swingers club, you must have a drink at one of those surely?
"Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol
I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A big no from me!
I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.
Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all."
The amount of pissed up women in clubs is almost as shocking as the amount of men who will still play with them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A drink with a meal or glass of wine etc is fine in our eyes (not that I drink ever) but there is a limit anything past a couple of drinks is a no go. What’s the saying everyone likes a drink but no one likes a d*unk  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I’ve seen women legless in clubs. To the point men are around them like fly’s round shit. It’s not a good look. Also touching without asking and being bitchy with other women and actually coming to blows. So a no from me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’ve seen women legless in clubs. To the point men are around them like fly’s round shit. It’s not a good look. Also touching without asking and being bitchy with other women and actually coming to blows. So a no from me. "
The thought of a club just makes me 
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Having a couple of drinks to loosen up is fine. Sex with someone half cut is a no go.
And those who think they’re fucking like a champion when under the influence probably think they can dance like Patrick Swayze too but in reality they’re like David Brent.
Lou x  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
Just a glass of whisky for me, as a social hello and chill before play.
Like noticed some say above. Being d*unk, especially being with a d*unk female, can lead to potential problems/issues for both parties that are best avoided. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
Haha, I like rock and roll sex, not always but mostly. It's like when you go to a swingers club, you must have a drink at one of those surely?
Yeah I totally agree with you however, if I'm tipsy, I just go crazy fuck like marky mark on boogie nights. Wooo! Lol
I’ve never seen it so I don’t know what you mean, but “crazy” and “wooo” aren’t things I’m generally looking for in a meet lol"
I don’t go to clubs but if I did I would absolutely not ever have a drink. Clubs can be risky enough sober, being d*unk could be incredibly dangerous. And I still have no idea what you mean tbh, what’s “rock and roll sex” supposed to be? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Pissed, incoherent and non-consensual - no thanks.
But, not everyone who has a drink becomes a liability. I’m a giggly fool after a drink and have fun, the same fun whether I drink or not.
J"
Same as me then  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends on the meet, sometimes I'll have a little but not enough to be really d*unk. It does mean staying over though so I need to be pretty comfortable with the guy(s) or girl I'm meeting.
Wasted sex is hubby only but we've not done it often, it's usually not that good lol xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A big no from me!
I like sex sober and memorable, also... consent. You cannot give consent when you're in no fit state, and that could get messy. I like my partner to knowingly be in control of their actions, and for me to know the same.
Also, I have a view that if you can only get in the mood when under the influence, you really have to ask yourself the question if you actually want to be there at all."
Well said |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ust4fun26Couple
over a year ago
West Yorkshire |
We love a couple of drinks but not to excess. The first night we ever went to a club I got some advice from someone who had been swinging a long time about drinking and it stuck with me. I tend to take it easy or grab a bottle of water in between each alcoholic drink I have. I’ve seen people falling about or even worse, being sick in the play rooms in clubs and it’s not nice to see. We’d never want to play with someone who has to drink to play. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eediousMan
over a year ago
Smallville |
A drink or two socially is fine but getting d*unk and having sex can lead to problems down the road if people have two sides of the same story.
Best avoided. Besides, if you need to be wanted to have sex, are you really enjoying yourself as you say.
I prefer to get d*unk on chemistry and be super sober to feel every stroke, orgasm, and taste. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A little something with a meal or a single glass of wine for a lady to take the edge of maybe.
A bottle in and I'm thinking she's not here for this and that is dutch courage for something hubby has pressed her into and it's time to stop and walk away to be on the safe side.
for myself, I'll have a glass of something to be social but I want to be on point and focused for the main event. As for longevity there are better ways to go about that than running the brewers droop gauntlet! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
During a meet at ours a while back back the person sank about 6 G&Ts in an hour. They had a full tantrum when we refused to have sex (for obvious reasons), zonked out on the sofa for an hour, then caught a second wind which ended up with them climbing our cat tree, falling out and breaking their thumb (seriously) we stick to one glass of wine for all involved! Let the guest open the bottle themselves to see it’s sealed, one glass of wine each for the 3/4 of us, then onto something non-alcoholic. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I tend to avoid most people who have had one sip too many, the negotiation needed to avoid horrid situations is the only thing that makes me absolutely anxious, so much so, I don't go anywhere there is drinking other than a restaurant occasionally, not even friends houses. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
