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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just an internet porn thing, or are there really young women who genuinely get turned on by sex with a much older man?
Also, why do some think it's ok to talk about a young guy with a much older woman, but not ok to talk about this?
I posted this thread a couple of days ago, but within a few hours I was abused and harassed by a 36yo woman (via 7 different accounts) accusing me of being a Paedophile!!  
I wasn't talking about under-age girls at all. In any way whatsoever. And never would.
I mistakenly named and shamed the abuser, not realising that was against the rules (Sorry Admins - won't happen again) and the thread was deleted.
So, here we go again??? (He says, hopefully...)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do indeed exist yes. I met a girl off here, about 3 years ago now, and she's 20 years younger than me and we had a great time! There's a verification on my profile if interested.
I also attended a gangbang last year and the girl was in her early 20's. I'm late 40's but there were a couple of guys (there were 5 of us in total) who were in their 50's and one I think was over 60. Again very good consensual sexy fun had by all.
Hope that answers the question. |
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I'm 29 now but I joined this site when I was 18. I've always gone for over 30's because the 'men' my own age tended to be dickheads. I found that the older men were more experienced, courteous and gentlemanly. 30+ seemed ancient when I was just 18  and now my husband is 31 and I'll be 30 next year  I'll still always prefer men over 30 though. |
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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago
Leeds & Harrogate |
As we tend to do MMF, MMMF or gangbangs more than anything else on here we unsurprisingly usually meet couples wanting to add some 'fizz' into their relationship.
However, the last couple of years we have had more interest that on occasion even ended up with us 'sealing the deal' from single much younger ladies. Of course we're NOT complaining! LOL
When chatting to these girls they often say they saw a MMF or a gangbang on a porn site and they then wanted to try it for real. Also they say if they're going to try a MMF then they'd prefer it with slightly older 'men' rather than some young 'dickheads' who get all nervy and get 'stage fright' or go too far and not respect limits. This is what they've said to us anyway. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Think some times an experienced older person can give younger ladies, a space to safely explore their sexuality.
Sexuality can be intense, suspect sensuality comes with experience.
Just a thought, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think some times an experienced older person can give younger ladies, a space to safely explore their sexuality.
Sexuality can be intense, suspect sensuality comes with experience.
Just a thought,"
That's a very valid point!  |
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"My female. Friend is 31.has a 65yr old boyfriend for companionship.he is filthy rich but that is not why she us with him. Really. "
What was it that first attracted you to the multi millionaire Paul Daniels? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get approached by way more younger women than those of my own age, not that they would necessarily be my preference. At least they are only after some fun though. |
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"My female. Friend is 31.has a 65yr old boyfriend for companionship.he is filthy rich but that is not why she us with him. Really.
What was it that first attracted you to the multi millionaire Paul Daniels? "
I remember seeing that on Mrs Merton .... Still makes me laugh now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I first met my other half when he was 18 and I was 42
It was him that did the chasing - I had my filters set to 25, but he found a way
I agreed to a Costa Coffee meet out of pure curiosity and here we are 8 years on
It went down like the proverbial shit sandwich with family & friends alike, but we were, and remain, very much together
Even now, pretty much everyone he fancies is over 40, so yes it's a thing, some younger people are attracted to older
The dynamic works for us and judgemental onlookers are incidental |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"living proof,check my vids,i get lots of younger girls,without slagging younger guys off,we tend tobe not selfish in the bedroom,i find young lads wana get straight into banging"
You're right. I much prefer to spend some time giving a lady lots of foreplay pleasure beforehand.
Her pleasure is my pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just an internet porn thing, or are there really young women who genuinely get turned on by sex with a much older man?
Also, why do some think it's ok to talk about a young guy with a much older woman, but not ok to talk about this?
I posted this thread a couple of days ago, but within a few hours I was abused and harassed by a 36yo woman (via 7 different accounts) accusing me of being a Paedophile!!
I wasn't talking about under-age girls at all. In any way whatsoever. And never would.
I mistakenly named and shamed the abuser, not realising that was against the rules (Sorry Admins - won't happen again) and the thread was deleted.
So, here we go again??? (He says, hopefully...) "
We both have some girls in their twenties (and guys) that we count amongst our friends. So it is real.  |
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I'm now 64 and in the last couple of years I have met a few ladies in there early 30's.
A lot of young couples like playing with older guys. My theory is that the guys don't feel as threatened by an "old man". |
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us older men must rock then lol,i must add ive had a young girls messaging me saying this post was all wrong trying to proove her point,it did get very argumentive but she was arogant about it,im sure theres lots of good young men just as lots of bad old men but,our era was fetched up to respect everyone around us and a good cilp taught us a lot,respect is a lovely word and nice to see in people im sure all will agree,to the girl thats messaged,thank god theres a block button |
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In the last few weeks I was messaged twice by what were supposedly 19 year-old girls interested in me as a much older man - very flattering, except that as usual, if something seems too good to be true...
....the first suddenly went from being located 20-30 miles in one direction to 10-15 miles away in the other - then that profile went quiet after the second appeared...
....new name, similar second location, different photos, but exactly the same description, 'looking for', and 'interests' - and also short-lived, as both profiles have now disappeared... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i must add ive had a young girls messaging me saying this post was all wrong trying to proove her point,it did get very argumentive but she was arogant about it,im sure theres lots of good young men just as lots of bad old men but,our era was fetched up to respect everyone around us and a good cilp taught us a lot,respect is a lovely word and nice to see in people im sure all will agree,to the girl thats messaged,thank god theres a block button "
That would be the same one that's been harassing me then lol |
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fake profiles on fab are a nightmare,no wounder why legit newbies have a rough time at beginning,id like to say its men setting them up but so do women too,ive had to report pics stolen in past to back this up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are quite a few young ladies on here that genuinely like the older chap....thankfully lol. "
I'm not a young female anymore but most women do prefer slightly older men than themselves. Young boys not have the masculinity. |
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"My female. Friend is 31.has a 65yr old boyfriend for companionship.he is filthy rich but that is not why she us with him. Really. "
Well Hollie 31 and me 63. Think it the other way round to the above lol. Still we both agree and enjoy. |
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"I don't know if this counts but my ex boyfriend was 43. We had a 16 year age gap. Best sex I ever had but it just didn't work out between us. "
age is just a number! About 9 years ago I went with a woman who was 64 years old and it was the best time I ever had x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My most recent ex was 11 years younger and tbh it seemed pretty normal as I feel I've got a younger outlook and she was maybe slightly more mature for her age. It sort of balanced itself out. The age gap certainly wasn't the reason for us splitting.
I'd love to meet a few younger women off here (and older tbh!) so if anyone happens to find me passable then feel free to say "hi".
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 25 when I met A. He was 40. Been together 15 years now and happily swinging for 14.
It doesn't bother us...as for anyone else..it's not their problem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're an age gap couple (F22 M40) and often swing with other age gap couples so yes they are out there.
I will say this though, if you come across as sleazy, letcherous or only interested in someone for their age then you'll get absolutely nowhere.
You need to focus on people you spark with, if they happen to be younger than you and that's something you enjoy then it's fine but if you're missing out on all sorts of fun with people your own age waiting for some young unicorn to come along and be your play thing you'll be waiting a very long time. |
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"We're an age gap couple (F22 M40) and often swing with other age gap couples so yes they are out there.
I will say this though, if you come across as sleazy, letcherous or only interested in someone for their age then you'll get absolutely nowhere.
You need to focus on people you spark with, if they happen to be younger than you and that's something you enjoy then it's fine but if you're missing out on all sorts of fun with people your own age waiting for some young unicorn to come along and be your play thing you'll be waiting a very long time."
Very Well Put  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a big thing for older guys. She had a fling with a guy in his 50s when she was 17 and now gets turned on by guys in their 60/70s. She can't explain it, but loves it anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a big fantasy of ours.. we would love to go with an older couple. It’s just sooooo hard to find the right couple.
Mr wants slim with big boobs and Mrs wants not too hairy with a big cock...
Is this you? Message us if it is!!! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"This is a big fantasy of ours.. we would love to go with an older couple. It’s just sooooo hard to find the right couple.
Mr wants slim with big boobs and Mrs wants not too hairy with a big cock...
Is this you? Message us if it is!!! "
me and my fwb seem to fit the bill somewhat (no boobs lol) |
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"We have a young gf that’s bi we have been a 3sum for 5yrs now How old is she?shes 25now
Do you have romance with her and go out socially although not at moment?"
yes every weekend we go on holidays as a 3a few times a yr aswell |
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"We have a young gf that’s bi we have been a 3sum for 5yrs now How old is she?shes 25now
Do you have romance with her and go out socially although not at moment?yes every weekend we go on holidays as a 3a few times a yr aswell "
Plenty of kissing and romance then? |
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As with all preferences, I'm sure that there are girls in their 20s who enjoy an older man & others who are repulsed by the idea. Neither is right or wrong -they're just different. From an old duffer perspective I enjoy & appreciate the fact that there are a wide range of preferences that we can all explore. |
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"We have a young gf that’s bi we have been a 3sum for 5yrs now How old is she?shes 25now
Do you have romance with her and go out socially although not at moment?yes every weekend we go on holidays as a 3a few times a yr aswell
Plenty of kissing and romance then?"
well what do you think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a big fantasy of ours.. we would love to go with an older couple. It’s just sooooo hard to find the right couple.
Mr wants slim with big boobs and Mrs wants not too hairy with a big cock...
Is this you? Message us if it is!!! "
arms waving frantically here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a lass 21 years younger than me. Without doubt the naughtiest woman I’ve ever met.
Picked her up at the school gates (we were both there picking up our kids)
She was 36 me 57. Still together and being naughty 3 years on. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
The females in their 20s and early 30s who occasionally grace my inbox come into two categories, those who are seeking a sugar daddy and those who are trying get me to click on to an unknown website where I will see steamy photographs and get the opportunity to chat with them.
Had an interesting message this morning from a lady in her late 60s asking me the age of the oldest person I had met on Fab. |
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Have a friend I’ve played with and we discussed this, while not for me she absolutely loves the idea of an older man, her take is it’s really sexy to be desired that much and almost a power and ego trip to be able to treat somebody to her body.
For me, In a club I’m more than happy to be watched by any age or gender, and do love a good conversation. |
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"Have a friend I’ve played with and we discussed this, while not for me she absolutely loves the idea of an older man, her take is it’s really sexy to be desired that much and almost a power and ego trip to be able to treat somebody to her body.
For me, In a club I’m more than happy to be watched by any age or gender, and do love a good conversation. "
Wow !! And what a treat it would be !!! |
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Daddy complex?
I know from the younger men I meet that being appreciated, talked to with respect and an accepting of “who they are just as they are attitude” has gone down really well. I’m just wondering if reverse is true.
In my own case the much older hubby was the only one mature enough to handle my fiesty and pretty strong character. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to watch hubby with a younger lady. Early 20s would be a massive turn on for both of us what about 18 years old?"
Yes is uppoae so... We wouldn't complain.. So long as everything is legal and above board, obviously |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
My last regular partner was gorgeous and 35....she approached me at a club and I don’t think I’ve ever been more surprised. I really enjoy the relaxed, social side of the scene and find that lends itself to the ladies nearer my age.
But I never judge or filter on age but obviously plenty of people have very specific age boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s one of our fantasy’s to swap with a couple that have an older guy and younger woman so male above 60 and female between 24 - 40.
xx"
We almost fit that requirement |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wife has said one of main fantasy’s is to have a much older guy, I said how old and she was like 70’s"
Damn! Also too young!
Never thought I'd ever say those words haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like a younger women if theres any available,
Lots of these sentences... we’re not joints of pork at the butchers lads...  "
Haha, I think a lot of this thread proves my previous point |
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By *9rickyMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
As a senior mature man who’s been on Fab for several years. I can confirm that there has been numerous younger women wanting fun with me. Which of course, I’ve obliged willingly!
They don’t want a bf or lover, they want horny fun with an adult who will appreciate them, understand them and respect them.
The majority are also flabbergasted at my stamina and interested in my sexual history.
Yes I’ve done a few years of young & old porn. That’s exactly what it is porn, to stimulate those who want to watch it.
I prefer the real thing! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a senior mature man who’s been on Fab for several years. I can confirm that there has been numerous younger women wanting fun with me. Which of course, I’ve obliged willingly!
They don’t want a bf or lover, they want horny fun with an adult who will appreciate them, understand them and respect them.
The majority are also flabbergasted at my stamina and interested in my sexual history.
Yes I’ve done a few years of young & old porn. That’s exactly what it is porn, to stimulate those who want to watch it.
I prefer the real thing! "
Wow. The ladies in your pix are stunning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like a younger women if theres any available,
Lots of these sentences... we’re not joints of pork at the butchers lads... "
That was kind what ai was going for.
Besides, you're not really at the young age of the spectrum anymore. |
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"I'm 18. Mr is 31. We frequently get knocked back by woman and some couples due to my age  "
I wouldn't be so sure the knock backs are due to your age. 18yo d*unks aren't that appealing to most in the swinging scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, this thread proved to be a real eye-opener!
Thanks very much to those who contributed. Congrats to those who have a hot young lady in their life |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Dunstable m1-J11a SOCIAL or sex let's chat |
"In the last few weeks I was messaged twice by what were supposedly 19 year-old girls interested in me as a much older man - very flattering, except that as usual, if something seems too good to be true...
....the first suddenly went from being located 20-30 miles in one direction to 10-15 miles away in the other - then that profile went quiet after the second appeared...
....new name, similar second location, different photos, but exactly the same description, 'looking for', and 'interests' - and also short-lived, as both profiles have now disappeared..."
If there sus.
Demand there mobile No lol.
Suprise how quick they block you and move no.
*KNOB TEASERS* |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
We met when H was 20, I thought H was cute & funny, thought no more of it though due to age & the little matter of going through a divorce. Kept seeing her a fair bit as I was friends with her older brother & we just clicked.
Been together 18yrs now.
We tend to look for more an open girlfriend type of relationship rather than one offs or just sex meets not that we don’t enjoy those on occasion too.
Not something you come across much on here but we’ve had two via Poly groups both have been younger than H.
“Age is just a number” It isn’t, it’s just different things to different people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is quite an interesting thread. There seems to be plenty of ladies out there who do enjoy the company of an older guy, it just boils down to if you like each other then why not. I tend to work on a rule 1/2 my age + 7 which I think is reasonable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without doubt my fave genre of porn recently. Be even hotter to watch a couple from fab in this scenario. Bit of a long shot I know but if anyone is up for being watched either on cam or in person after lockdown hit me up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few weeks I was messaged twice by what were supposedly 19 year-old girls interested in me as a much older man - very flattering, except that as usual, if something seems too good to be true...
....the first suddenly went from being located 20-30 miles in one direction to 10-15 miles away in the other - then that profile went quiet after the second appeared...
....new name, similar second location, different photos, but exactly the same description, 'looking for', and 'interests' - and also short-lived, as both profiles have now disappeared...
If there sus.
Demand there mobile No lol.
Suprise how quick they block you and move no.
*KNOB TEASERS*"
I think like most guys on here I've literally browsed thousands of female profiles in various age ranges. Sometimes you can just spot a fake profile from a mile and a LOT of them tend to be of late teen/early twenties *cough* women looking for older "daddy" "daddy domme" types.
A large proportion of the profiles haven't been verified and don't have pics (or they're OnlyFans). Whilst this thread proves there are women out there who like the older guys I think scammers and trolls play on that and target more mature fellas as an easier option to troll/scam.
As the saying goes.... "there's no fool like an old fool". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's nothing wrong with Daddy issues, a little bit of what you fancy does you good , "
Absolutely, if legit! Unfortunately on here (and plenty of other websites) a lot aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging by the looks of admiration a mate gets from blokes, when he is out with his large chested daughter. It is definitely a thing.
Plus there are quite a few profiles of younger women, stating a preference for older men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
Have had a few from the site. Many will say they feel safer first of all with a more mature man and others say that our experience alone is worth it and we are not "messers" and tend to be more sensual |
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I've generally gone for guys in their late 30's onwards for as long as I've been seeing guys! Something just so sexy about a salt and pepper hair (not that all older guys have this or need this!)
With ladies I prefer them around my age or a little older. |
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By *ohn1953Man
over a year ago
North Wales |
I am a genuine older guy and enjoy many a meet with younger couples and single females weather it’s been private meets or club or sex cinema fun. But be honest I don’t mind older woman too, I just love the female body and to me it’s all about enjoyment and if the couple or lady had a good time and enjoyed themselves then I am happy |
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