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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We wouldn't entertain that pathway. Finding the person attractive enough to have sex with yes but actually developing real feelings especially more than platonic is a no, no for us, a rule breaker. Our own rules that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure what to say to that op as although we have to like the person we have real life and kids etc.... There will never be feelings.
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Absolutely. Same for us...dangerous path to go down and not what swinging is about. All about the moment and living our a fantasy and then that’s it... it can’t cross over into feeling and family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely, thats not what swinging is about.. dangerous territory going down that road! And if wives did start having those feelings, contact should be cut with the other guy out of respect for her husband and their relationship. Otherwise, they mayswell have an affair  |
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A point where it stops being part of a swinging lifestyle and crosses into a sort polyamorous lifestyle?
The more sensual and intimate the meet between my wife and her partner the better for me! Dont want the guy coming for sunday lunch tho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have feelings for my ‘boyfriend’ (I don’t like that term as it sound like I’m 16). I think we are probably in the minority though. Hubby is really good friends with him and it’s made my life even better than it was before we met - nearly 3 years ago.
It completely works for us and is something that all three of us enjoy. I appreciate it’s not for everyone though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How very honest of you, feelings arnt always easy to seperate, especially if meeting the same people for months or years. We have couples we have met for over ten years and love them as friends with benefits, would never dream of living with them but would be upset if we didn't keep in touch or meet occasionally. Mel has met a guy for a few years but only sometimes once or twice a year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not with men, but with another woman yes.
Most of my meets with men have been one night stands which would make emotional attachment difficult (one reason I like hook-ups). I've had some male partners I've seen more than once or been FWB, but I've never formed feelings for them, one because they've not been what I'd look for in a relationship, but also because I'm extremely happily married, and feel no need for attachment to another man.
Women on the other hand are different. I'm fine with NSA with other females and have had it. But I also met a woman I did fall in love with and her with me. I was honest and transparent about it with my husband and he was comfortable with me having a committed relationship with her as long is it didn't damage our marriage or family life and we found a balance. Unfortunately the relationship broke down quickly, not because being poly was an issue for any of us, for other reasons I won't share here. After that experience I'll probably be more apprehensive about doing this again, but if I found the right woman and hubby was ok with her then I'd have a serious girlfriend again perhaps.
If I felt emotions for a male FWB that might threaten my marriage I'd simply break it off and walk away xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK maybe a bit of a strange question but here goes! Anyone had a wife that fucks someone else that they have feelings for and I mean not just sexual feelings? Would love to hear more about this."
I have been the extra guy, that the hotwife developed feelings for. It seemed to strengthen their marriage. A strange three ways love if you like. But can understand others being wary, as it had it's pitfalls too. |
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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago
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A hot wife is someone's wife her husband should know and be fully aware of who she meets, personally I like to meet the husband as well before I play with the wife always works better that way feelings should never be a part of it. |
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