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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Could you be happy without sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No xx |
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No. I was for years and it was not good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had long periods of time without sex and to be honest the longer I was without the less I missed it.
But when you get even just a little taster it makes it unbearable if it isn't available  |
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Nope. Can not function without it |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"I have had long periods of time without sex and to be honest the longer I was without the less I missed it.
But when you get even just a little taster it makes it unbearable if it isn't available "
Have to agree.
Just waiting for the next taste! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Some say any sex is good sex but I disagree.
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No. I went without for 12 years and it did a lot of damage to my mental health that I’m still getting over. |
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I've been without for quite a while now, kind of getting to the point where I can't go much longer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gone without for over a year lol think I'm going to be a monk don't miss it tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been pretty chipper for the last couple of years, so I guess that’s a ‘yes’... |
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I know it's a sex / swinging site, and that's its cool to say yeah can't go a minute without and my libido is the size of an oil tanker.
And yeah I'm frustrated as hell... But.... I have great belief in our adaptability.... So.. Yeah would be a struggle but I reckon I could manage. |
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Yes as it seems I have no choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been without since January and I am definitely craving some ! Not very happy with DIY  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes as it seems I have no choice "
Oh why not ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
Yes, as long as Kate keeps being fucking other guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be frustrated on a daily basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can OP, but I suggest not without touch or intimacy in my opinion (and experience). |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
Heaven in the Midlands |
Nope. I get short tempered when I go without.  |
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By *attM73Man
over a year ago
Oldham |
"Could you be happy without sex?"
I’ve not had sex in five years, not out of choice but just not good enough for women these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Been trying for 18 years and can't really get used to it. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
Yes I could, the longer the time goes, the easier I find it  |
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Nope, never ever!!!!! It’s been a month and I hate it. |
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It depends on the person imo. I can go without it I just choose not to lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol |
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
I've gone years without sex, wanking keeps me sane, so Yes. I can most definitely be happy without sex.
Im not getting none as it is anyway and I've been fuckless for getting on a year now  LOL.
Its a nice to have but its not essential  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not never mind could |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I went without for 12 years and it did a lot of damage to my mental health that I’m still getting over."
Oh that's a really long time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol"
Oh I thought all guys get loads on here. |
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"No. I went without for 12 years and it did a lot of damage to my mental health that I’m still getting over.
Oh that's a really long time. "
It was really hard, especially being in a relationship the whole time. In one way it makes it a bit easier for me now I can’t meet, but in another it’s harder because I swore I’d never go without long-term again. |
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i really think i would struggle without it, i think its part of who we are that we want and need sex.
That said its only part of what makes us happy but good quality sex can mask other problems.
Also we are animals we are designed to mate |
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"Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol
Oh I thought all guys get loads on here."
We would all like to get loads, but in reality lots of us get very little, if any at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I went without for 12 years and it did a lot of damage to my mental health that I’m still getting over.
Oh that's a really long time.
It was really hard, especially being in a relationship the whole time. In one way it makes it a bit easier for me now I can’t meet, but in another it’s harder because I swore I’d never go without long-term again."
Yah true. Hopefully you won't have to go without again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
Based on lived experience everything in balance. Mind body spirit- as much as possible need to be met. Without that balance expect something to go out of kilter- depression, psychosomatic, dreams. Your mammalian instincts are smarter than you know |
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Since having to take on our 3 baby Grandaughters we don't get the opportunity anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No....I went for years without it & couldn't do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t |
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This virus is fucking with my sex life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had sex for two years,not through lack of trying on here & elsewhere,guess I'll have to carry on amuseing myself until my luck changes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not by choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, very happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be. Had to be used to it as it was a long distance relationship for a time. Would I want to be without it now? Nope. But that's because its epic. Literally every time
J |
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Haven't had sex in over 18 months...... was waiting for a proper relationship but decided it was about time now |
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Yes been far too long. I am hoping to find out it still works! |
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We have done ,like most things you dont miss what you dont have ,we were close kissing ,hugs etc but can be so easy to let it slip ,but now its rekindled for us and we wont let it slip again,as WE love it .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had ANY kind of sexual contact in just over 4 years, so I'm kind of getting used to no sex. I'm not saying it's been easy though, sometimes it's downright miserable. |
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What’s it like to have sex anyway LOL |
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Noooo!!!
We have sex every day if my husband isn’t away! I get grumpy without haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since having to take on our 3 baby Grandaughters we don't get the opportunity anymore "
Awe sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will soon x |
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"Since having to take on our 3 baby Grandaughters we don't get the opportunity anymore
Awe sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will soon x"
Thank you. We managed to lastnight. I am now a happy guy again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I could go without xx |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol
Oh I thought all guys get loads on here."
Not sure if you are being serious ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was celibate through a lack of interest for two years so yes. But now? No. I like and need sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes but happier with. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Could you be happy without sex?"
I have been. It's not the be all in a relationship or friendship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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NO ! Sex makes people happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer not too, but sometimes just no choice.... |
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I wouldn't want to do without it. Close skin to skin contact is soothing and comforting and I find that it helps manage anxiety and depression too.
Plus I'm a horny little devil and love a good session!!
L. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since having to take on our 3 baby Grandaughters we don't get the opportunity anymore
Awe sorry to hear that. Hopefully you will soon x
Thank you. We managed to lastnight. I am now a happy guy again x"
Good to know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been without since January and I am definitely craving some ! Not very happy with DIY "
Diy gets boring |
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It's been over 3 years, getting used to it unfortunately ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's been over 3 years, getting used to it unfortunately ??"
Oh that's a long time. Is it hard? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely can't do without it.
Great way to get rid of stress. |
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I cant even remember what sex is like  |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
My longest without is the last lockdown. Not good for me. Made sure I've got a fab bubble this time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no but you get used to it |
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Can't go without intimacy but I can go without sex for a while if I have too xx |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I've always had a busy life and other hobbies and it never bothered me if I went without for quite a while.
Now I'm older, the more sex I have the more I want and if I don't have any for a while I just can't stop thinking about. Life is still busy but sex is higher up the list nowadays. |
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Been with the mrs 15years 3 kids small flat still smiling even though we hardly have sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely can't do without it.
Great way to get rid of stress."
This is so true. |
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Not right now with my current man. If we haven't had sex for like a week, I almost feel 'disconnected' from him, it's weird!
When with my ex husband I'd happily go without, no love there xxher |
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I cope / have coped.
It’s hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely can't do without it.
Great way to get rid of stress.
This is so true."
I often say to my wife try and have some me time. That usually is with a toy as she tends to build up her stress through work. |
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My wife has lost interest in sex and on the odd occasion we do have it i feel like she is just ticking off another chore. There is now a breakdown in intimacy of any kind. I find this very hard to deal with as sex is easily one of the most important things in my life. If i try to talk about our sex life she just rolls her eyes as if im some sort of pervert. I cant and wont give up on my sex life which is why im on here. Its been about 5 years since we have had meaningful sex. |
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"My wife has lost interest in sex and on the odd occasion we do have it i feel like she is just ticking off another chore. There is now a breakdown in intimacy of any kind. I find this very hard to deal with as sex is easily one of the most important things in my life. If i try to talk about our sex life she just rolls her eyes as if im some sort of pervert. I cant and wont give up on my sex life which is why im on here. Its been about 5 years since we have had meaningful sex. "
I feel your pain my friend but if there’s love there’s happiness keep yer chin up mate things might change |
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Absolutely yes.. not had a lots of fun over the past Year but still happy . |
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
I'm not happy without sex - it would be nice to have some every now and again!
Lockdown won't help of course - and even worse the pubs will be shut - taking care of the only other viable form of pleasure |
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"My wife has lost interest in sex and on the odd occasion we do have it i feel like she is just ticking off another chore. There is now a breakdown in intimacy of any kind. I find this very hard to deal with as sex is easily one of the most important things in my life. If i try to talk about our sex life she just rolls her eyes as if im some sort of pervert. I cant and wont give up on my sex life which is why im on here. Its been about 5 years since we have had meaningful sex. "
You're not the only one like that on here my friend. I feel your pain - I'm in exactly the same boat. |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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I am without and m desperately unhappy. I have so much to offer to men, women and couples but it just won't happen for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hell no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't had sex in five years, and not much before that, and I haven't been happy either. Whether there's a causal link is another question, as would be the direction of that link - some would say my loneliness and lack of sex is due to me being a miserable cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have sex infrequently,but is great when I do.So couldn’t go totally without.Would just have to wank more |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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If by sex we mean penetration then yeah I can go without it.
However I would miss being able to play with people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be. Had to be used to it as it was a long distance relationship for a time. Would I want to be without it now? Nope. But that's because its epic. Literally every time
J "
Fuck yeah it is! 
Lu |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"I can be. Had to be used to it as it was a long distance relationship for a time. Would I want to be without it now? Nope. But that's because its epic. Literally every time
J
Fuck yeah it is!
Lu "
Get a room you two!! 
Preferably with me in it |
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I could live without penetrative sex or cumming,but I crave intimacy, so if I still got intimacy and could give oral and not receive YES |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
I'm a little bit shocked, that a lot of guy's haven't had sex for years. If I go without, I get urges to go and meet a girl. It's kinda like a craving. |
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"Could you be happy without sex?
Based on lived experience everything in balance. Mind body spirit- as much as possible need to be met. Without that balance expect something to go out of kilter- depression, psychosomatic, dreams. Your mammalian instincts are smarter than you know "
Very profound. Never thought of it like that but makes sense. Hmmm, food for thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noooo, too much fun |
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"I'm a little bit shocked, that a lot of guy's haven't had sex for years. If I go without, I get urges to go and meet a girl. It's kinda like a craving. "
Why more shocked at men than women?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was celebate for 5 years and ten months when i was in my twenties.it wasnt great. |
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I was married 11yrs and sex was few and far between , we just didn’t connect that way ...
Since breaking up - It’s made me realise what I really do value in a relationship which is healthy passionate sex (amongst other things of course)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife lost interest several years ago ,i would love to have sex again but time is running out ,i would love to meet an understanding lady or couple . |
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I could and have done but am generally less Marvin the Android and more Tigger if I do get some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be. Had to be used to it as it was a long distance relationship for a time. Would I want to be without it now? Nope. But that's because its epic. Literally every time
J
Fuck yeah it is!
Lu
Get a room you two!!
Preferably with me in it "
Happily.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a little bit shocked, that a lot of guy's haven't had sex for years. If I go without, I get urges to go and meet a girl. It's kinda like a craving.
Why more shocked at men than women?
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I'm guessing there's an assumption that we'll drop our standards as low as needed to find someone who'll fuck us, or that we'll just pay for it. |
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By *oojCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
No No No from both of us, her more so! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My wife has lost interest in sex and on the odd occasion we do have it i feel like she is just ticking off another chore. There is now a breakdown in intimacy of any kind. I find this very hard to deal with as sex is easily one of the most important things in my life. If i try to talk about our sex life she just rolls her eyes as if im some sort of pervert. I cant and wont give up on my sex life which is why im on here. Its been about 5 years since we have had meaningful sex.
I feel your pain my friend but if there’s love there’s happiness keep yer chin up mate things might change "
Ita a really nice thing to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
It depends what the circumstances were. I would give up sex before my hearing or eyesight and could be happy. I could be come a vegetarian and be happy too though I would choose neither circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could you be happy without sex?
It depends what the circumstances were. I would give up sex before my hearing or eyesight and could be happy. I could be come a vegetarian and be happy too though I would choose neither circumstances. "
So true |
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Why do you think I’m on here. I mean I’m not here to play noughts and crosses am I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably. For me sex possibly partially fills a void that not having actual love leaves..
Sad but true |
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By *andVCouple
over a year ago
Doncaster |
No, wish I could be sometimes as are sex drives are not aligned exactly the same I tend to need it way more often so sometimes feel like a sex pest lol and it feels like sometimes it becomes just another chore for the other half, And that is never the best mood setter lol. Be nice if could turn it off and on when needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been without since January and I am definitely craving some ! Not very happy with DIY
Diy gets boring "
DIY is definitely boring, there’s no good feeling about it and no joy, just an emptiness at the end with no one to snuggle up to ?? |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
ribble valley |
"I'm a little bit shocked, that a lot of guy's haven't had sex for years. If I go without, I get urges to go and meet a girl. It's kinda like a craving.
Why more shocked at men than women?
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Probably didn't explain myself well. I can only speak as a guy. I'm sure some women feel the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you think I’m on here. I mean I’m not here to play noughts and crosses am I "
I don't know. Maybe you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a little bit shocked, that a lot of guy's haven't had sex for years. If I go without, I get urges to go and meet a girl. It's kinda like a craving.
Why more shocked at men than women?
Probably didn't explain myself well. I can only speak as a guy. I'm sure some women feel the same. "
Thing don't always come across as you mean on here. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
Bedfordshire areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat |
"Could you be happy without sex?"
Never ever love it so much.
Horny 24/7 Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I went without for 12 years and it did a lot of damage to my mental health that I’m still getting over.
Oh that's a really long time. "
Try 17! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Years ago wife and I used to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. Nowadays is perhaps once a month
So lots of masturbation, and the reason that I've turned bi! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. Years ago wife and I used to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. Nowadays is perhaps once a month
So lots of masturbation, and the reason that I've turned bi! "
Does being bi help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Years ago wife and I used to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. Nowadays is perhaps once a month
So lots of masturbation, and the reason that I've turned bi!
Does being bi help"
Easier to find, or have fun. Or it was before the virus!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, most certainly not!!! I think the longest I can go is about 2 weeks absolute max. Lockdown or no lockdown. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. Years ago wife and I used to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. Nowadays is perhaps once a month
So lots of masturbation, and the reason that I've turned bi!
Does being bi help
Easier to find, or have fun. Or it was before the virus! "
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Absolutely not! Sex makes us both very happy.
It brings you closer... |
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A couple of days is the most we have had without sex.... |
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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago
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"Kind of managing so far "
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
Well I have no choice at the moment and I can definitely confirm........ no I fucking can’t.
V x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been without for waaaay to long. Totally killed my mental health, confidence, self esteem. Masturbation does nothing to ease the pain. In truth it makes it worse. Sex is about sharing and caring and without those essential elements is meaningless. Giving pleasure causes happiness in others, making others happy makes me happy. |
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
No, that’s how I found myself in Fab |
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Definetley not. It's important in a relationship and let's face it, sex is extremely pleasurable. We would struggle to go without.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I have no choice at the moment and I can definitely confirm........ no I fucking can’t.
V x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well ive managed ok since mid jan and think its a long time before i will have sex again |
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
Looool i start having withdrawal symptoms after a month, its crazy to think people go longer without sex.
Mentally and physically you need sex to keep healthy. One cannot be happy without being healthy, there for sex = happiness.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this a serious question for a site like this, really? |
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"Could you be happy without sex?
Looool i start having withdrawal symptoms after a month, its crazy to think people go longer without sex.
Mentally and physically you need sex to keep healthy. One cannot be happy without being healthy, there for sex = happiness.."
Sex isn’t necessary for health. And it’s possible to be happy while not being healthy. |
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4 yrs without at mo ....... *shrugs* |
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"Could you be happy without sex?
Looool i start having withdrawal symptoms after a month, its crazy to think people go longer without sex.
Mentally and physically you need sex to keep healthy. One cannot be happy without being healthy, there for sex = happiness..
Sex isn’t necessary for health. And it’s possible to be happy while not being healthy."
I understand that some may not want or need it. This is perfectly normal with human physiology being different and unique, literally in every person.
But in my humble, personal opinion, one cannot be truly happy unless ones health is adequate or to a certain standard. Its possible to have good days (like having bad days when you have a perfect bill of health)
But in the bigger picture of things. True happiness comes with health. Weather you see sex a part of this or not. For those who do i.e me, its a blow to our happiness when our dicks/vaginas/mouths or various other holes are not wet xox
With respect x |
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"Could you be happy without sex?
Looool i start having withdrawal symptoms after a month, its crazy to think people go longer without sex.
Mentally and physically you need sex to keep healthy. One cannot be happy without being healthy, there for sex = happiness..
Sex isn’t necessary for health. And it’s possible to be happy while not being healthy.
I understand that some may not want or need it. This is perfectly normal with human physiology being different and unique, literally in every person.
But in my humble, personal opinion, one cannot be truly happy unless ones health is adequate or to a certain standard. Its possible to have good days (like having bad days when you have a perfect bill of health)
But in the bigger picture of things. True happiness comes with health. Weather you see sex a part of this or not. For those who do i.e me, its a blow to our happiness when our dicks/vaginas/mouths or various other holes are not wet xox
With respect x"
Let me put it another way then. Personally, sex is necessary for my happiness. It is absolutely not necessary for my health.
And I will never be healthy, as I have a chronic condition that makes that impossible. So thanks for writing me off as doomed to a life of misery I guess |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
Gourock |
Well that's nearly a year now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not no x |
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"Could you be happy without sex?
Looool i start having withdrawal symptoms after a month, its crazy to think people go longer without sex.
Mentally and physically you need sex to keep healthy. One cannot be happy without being healthy, there for sex = happiness..
Sex isn’t necessary for health. And it’s possible to be happy while not being healthy.
I understand that some may not want or need it. This is perfectly normal with human physiology being different and unique, literally in every person.
But in my humble, personal opinion, one cannot be truly happy unless ones health is adequate or to a certain standard. Its possible to have good days (like having bad days when you have a perfect bill of health)
But in the bigger picture of things. True happiness comes with health. Weather you see sex a part of this or not. For those who do i.e me, its a blow to our happiness when our dicks/vaginas/mouths or various other holes are not wet xox
With respect x
Let me put it another way then. Personally, sex is necessary for my happiness. It is absolutely not necessary for my health.
And I will never be healthy, as I have a chronic condition that makes that impossible. So thanks for writing me off as doomed to a life of misery I guess "
Please check pm.
This is to anyone else that may be suffering from any illness.
I apologise for not being considerate here. Maybe i should have thought it thru with a wider perspective. I apologise for any offence i may have caused. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is this a serious question for a site like this, really? "
Yes it is |
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By *isser36Man
over a year ago
fylde Coast |
Yes, I've become a very accomplished wanker. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've become a very accomplished wanker. "
No harm in that at all |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol
Oh I thought all guys get loads on here."
we should be so lucky, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I'm happy on here and there's defo no sex on here lol
Oh I thought all guys get loads on here.
we should be so lucky, "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to think about the answer to this for a while.
I happily went without sex when I was married over a decade ago, but since then I've never been without it, so I don't actually know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a relationship before and sex got less and less and although I still loved her our bond together kind of went and we split up in the end . I do believe sex is the glue that keeps a relationship strong and healthy. |
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"Could you be happy without sex?"
Very sexy pics x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could be happy without sex, just as I could be happy without alcohol, but I'd much rather have both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been without since January and I am definitely craving some ! Not very happy with DIY
Diy gets boring "
Not much in the way of satisfaction either |
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Oh of course. I was reading so many fascinating non-fiction books just before swinging landed on us. Miss them, but something changed... can't imagine why.
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"No. Years ago wife and I used to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. Nowadays is perhaps once a month
So lots of masturbation, and the reason that I've turned bi! "
Lack of sex with a woman can turn you bi?  |
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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago
Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me |
A definate no from me but I have been behaving though it's drove me wild thank God for the top drawer next to the bed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was in a relationship before and sex got less and less and although I still loved her our bond together kind of went and we split up in the end . I do believe sex is the glue that keeps a relationship strong and healthy. "
I think the same. Without it that closeness is kind of gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say happy but you get used to it after the first couple of years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No you should never have to, although in a previous relationship this did happen.
I enjoy the giving and receiving of satisfaction far to much, and while that connection is there you should you help eachother grow as much as you can! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, going without sex is like going without food it should never happen. Yes you can for a while but you always end up craving it in the end |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
London St Helier Trier |
Going without sex is not good.
I think many enjoy the connection and making that physical.
Also it is great fun. |
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I hate it whenI have to go without... |
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nope and a big nope at that,im addicted to sex and thankfull i have many good fuck buddies to help me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm lucky that I've been in a relationship since I was 17 (not with the same man) and sex has always been important. I would find no sex very hard to get used to. I'm know it will happen one day! |
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Not yet. Maybe one day but I doubt it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say happy but you get used to it after the first couple of years "
Even one year would be a long time. |
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Nope that's why we are here - been single over 5 years and looking for that naughty friend x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope that's why we are here - been single over 5 years and looking for that naughty friend x "
Id imagine its hard to find. |
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"Kind of managing so far "
happy to assist xx |
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Went 4 years without any penetrative sex which was challenging, don’t think I could ever do that again. A lot of masturbation in that time but wasn’t the same at all!
So now I’ve discovered swinging, I’d find it extremely difficult to live without sex! |
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