What are your thoughts on those whose profiles state ‘must be able to engage in conversation’ ... yet struggle to throw a meaningful conversation from their side or just reply ‘hi’ ‘yes’ ‘lol’ ... or maybe it’s me !!
Maybe I should have said ‘Inability to hold a conversation’ 
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"What are your thoughts on those whose profiles state ‘must be able to engage in conversation’ ... yet struggle to throw a meaningful conversation from their side or just reply ‘hi’ ‘yes’ ‘lol’ ... or maybe it’s me !!
Maybe I should have said ‘Inability to hold a conversation’
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"What are your thoughts on those whose profiles state ‘must be able to engage in conversation’ ... yet struggle to throw a meaningful conversation from their side or just reply ‘hi’ ‘yes’ ‘lol’ ... or maybe it’s me !!
Maybe I should have said ‘Inability to hold a conversation’
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You’re absolutely right, conversation is definitely a two-way thing. However it is really hard to have a conversation then All you’ve got to work with is a three word profile and the same inane messages that you’ve had from the last 20 people. When you are asked the same closed questions, if you reply, you reply with as little effort as possible. |
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"What are your thoughts on those whose profiles state ‘must be able to engage in conversation’ ... yet struggle to throw a meaningful conversation from their side or just reply ‘hi’ ‘yes’ ‘lol’ ... or maybe it’s me !!
Maybe I should have said ‘Inability to hold a conversation’
You’re absolutely right, conversation is definitely a two-way thing. However it is really hard to have a conversation then All you’ve got to work with is a three word profile and the same inane messages that you’ve had from the last 20 people. When you are asked the same closed questions, if you reply, you reply with as little effort as possible. "
Totally agree - the way I look on it, you ve got to sell yourself on here as being genuine so why not put info up on your profile help you stand out from the 100 million males on here
The spark has to happen from the start to get hmmmmm he seems nice
Maybe have a look at his photos mmmhhhh not bad
Check verification all good this end.
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It's also hard to have a conversation with everyone! We assess the profile and pictures before entering into any conversation. Thinking about it we rarely start a conversation, equally We will not enter into a conversation when it is obvious the person sending the message has not read our profile. Obvious in that we have height requirements, must be local... Etc etc. Why chat with someone who is not what we are looking for, sorry sounds harsh however we just don't see the point.
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I love when someone can hold a conversation and I think it’s a great way to connect. But disregarding someone because they’re not the most chatty online can be a big mistake.
I guess it also depends on their motive. If you’re a Sapiosexual who needs that situation then I can appreciate it. But it’s it’s because you’ve some high opinion of yourself and discredit others for not being ‘conversational’ or ‘educated’ then shame on them. |
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