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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.
On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.
Her x |
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By *xXAnonCouple
over a year ago
Leeds |
"On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.
On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.
Her x"
Good idea really might have to steal it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.
On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.
Her x
Good idea really might have to steal it x"
Go for it  x |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.
Doubt I'm on anyones
Well we would add you if you like couples and were nearer. Lovely pictures and profile x "
Ah thank you, that's lovely of you to say |
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By *P994Man
over a year ago
Travelling |
I use the hotlist as a bucket list of who I’d like to meet. Sadly not in their league normally so just enjoy their photos instead but if I’m on anyone’s would gladly take a message from them   |
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Our hotlist is mainly people we like the look of that realistically we are never going to meet. They don't know and it would feel a bit stalkery to tell them!
No idea if we are on anyone's list, no one has ever told us otherwise |
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Our hotlist is mostly people I like the look of but don't intend on contacting as they are either too far away or out of our league. If they message us and we start chatting I do tend to tell them.
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Whenever I put private notes in a profile, I will add it into my hotlist.
It's a mixture of things including profiles which I "suspect" to be fake or timewaster, but not yet confirmed.
It's because you can search your "hotlist" but you can't search your "private notes". |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Don't think we are on anyone's hotlist unless not knowing about it x"
Miss L, with that profile pic I bet you're on more than a few Hotlists! Fantastic. |
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Nope, I figure they're probably inundated with messages and ultimately I've hotlisted them cos I wanna see their posts, not cos I expect them to like me. Would love it if they did, but a bit hopeful maybe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No don’t let them know, never really thought about doing so 
We mainly use it for people we are interested in so we don’t lose them in the masses before making contact.
Then again there are some on there that are just because we enjoy seeing the pictures/videos they upload, most of them are so far away just would not be practical to arrange anything. But nothing wrong with a little window shopping right 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you put awesome people on your hotlist do you let them know?We have,we do,its the thrill of it allM&HXxx"
I’ve let some know if they come across like they’d welcome knowing that information but others I imagine get 100s of messages a day and my trivial wee message would be a waste of time I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time."
Exactly how I use it... and once messaged, I remove them. If anything come of it... great! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use mine to remind myself to thank people for Fabs etc. , at a later time if I am busy. I like to say thank you individually to each one as I don’t get many so I like to put a little effort in  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We use the hotlist to follow people who put out interesting content despite there being no intent or likelihood of a meet happening.
We also use it to make note of people we would like to talk to at some point, but we never message them just to tell them they are on our hotlist. At that point you may as well just ask for a meet.
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By *itom18Man
over a year ago
Wigan |
"I use the hotlist as a bucket list of who I’d like to meet. Sadly not in their league normally so just enjoy their photos instead but if I’m on anyone’s would gladly take a message from them "
Ur on my hotlist  |
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